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    she's feeling guilty - how do you respond?

    been seeing a girl who lives with her boyfriend and their kid. he's an alcoholic loser with no job or car. she's a HB9. one of the hottest i've ever had. we text and talk every day. I've played it cool, let her contact me etc. last night we ****ed for the first time. we had made out and done...
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    texts me heavy sexual stuff and naked pics now gone cold

    girl lives with her bf, has two kids. smokin hot. i got her number and after some flirty texts she seemed down for some action. that night she called me hammered wanting to get laid but i couldn't meet up with her. we went out to lunch one day, and the past few days there's been more heavy...
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    simple question - to text or not?

    met a girl today who knows me by professional reputation. i had never met her before but had smiled and waved from far away every time i was at her office. today i asked for her number with the 15 seconds that i had to talk to her. asked her her name and number and that was it, she gave it to...
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    dealing with a chick who goes distant after sex

    met a 20 yr old solid 8 about two weeks ago when i was out of town on business. the next week she texted me every morning, during lunch, after work, etc. very high interest levels. i drove back last weekend to see her again, we banged and it was awesome. we spent the night together and she said...
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    Be patient, improve yourself, be NICE

    i was in college for seven years for undergrad and grad school. i was overweight and not very confident. i started reading here and thought being ****y, funny, and kindof a **** would help me get hot chicks. it didn't work. i graduated in may and now i have a great career. i lost 60 pounds...
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    long term cheating. WHY does she do it?

    been seeing this girl since last october. for the first few months, she told me she wanted to be with me, she just had to figure things out (like how to move out of the apartment she shared with her boyfriend of 3 yrs). she told him about some of what was happening, i was even there with her a...
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    Building comfort?

    What does this mean? Specifically, when you get a girl back to your place, how should your attitude and demeanor change? Any good reads? I have a problem with being too forward with girls and I think it's a turnoff, maybe sometimes I make them feel uncomfortable with the things I say... any...
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    was laying in bed with two chicks in bikinis

    and i said to the thinner one: "i wouldn't do you because i would break you." i turned to the other and said "this is more like it" man she was not happy with that comment. they both went home about 20 minutes later. doh
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    burn the bridge or reach out?

    i hung out with this girl from high school (now 7 years after graduating) last december. we had a fun night, but when i tried to kiss her she said she doesn't do that casually, or something like that. then after she left she sent a text something like "maybe next time." i didn't talk to her for...
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    interpret these signals

    pretty hot chick in her late 20s. i'm 25. got her number at a party, she gave a few IOIs. 2 days later i called and talked for a while, she laughed at everything i said. made a date for tonight. things went well i thought.. for instance when i picked her up and complained about my washer/dryer...
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    how to deal with sheltered chick

    she's a friend of the family, her and her mom stayed with my parents this past weekend, i was visiting too for the memorial weekend. so, we had a few drinks, were making out in my bed when her mom came down and "caught us" and said it was time for her to go to bed. she's 22 years old, wtf...
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    using smileys in text/instant messengers

    yes or no? why or why not? in what situations should you never use it.. when is it acceptable?
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    she drank so much she threw up at the bar... now what

    2nd date. she got so wasted she threw up in the bar. i brought her back to my place, she was puking all night. obviously i didn't try anything. in the morning she was noticeably uncomfortable (even though i tried to be accomodating to try to keep her at my place) and she wanted to go home...
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    is it possible some girls only want sex from the relationship

    girl lives with her boyfriend. they broke up for a few months, we dated. we broke up and now she's back with him, but she still wants to see me. still wants sex, and is hiding everything from him. she seems to want to stay with him.. i told her she shouldn't re-sign the lease with him and she...
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    how to end a relationship

    girl i saw for about a month and a half. when we first met she had a boyfriend, they broke up and I thought we'd be together. I was wrong but it was some fun times... tomorrow when she comes to get her stuff this is what i'm gonna say in person, more or less. lemme know what you think. anything...
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    Seeing a girl with a boyfriend. tell her I have a date?

    Chick is living with her boyfriend. he's taking a job in another state in 2 months. She doesn't want to move with him. I think she would have broken up with him by now if they didn't have a lease together. We've been hanging out for the past week and a half and have slept together once. She says...
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    hHow to make two chicks jealous?

    I've been lurking here for a while and finally registered, anyway... I play a lot tennis and told two separate girls who don't know each other that I'd play/teach them how to play tomorrow. One of them (brunette) is in college with me, I sit next to her in a once a week class, and the other...
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