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    Knowing a good woman when you have her

    One of the girls I'm hanging out with fits that bill. I like a lot about her, she does lots of nice sh*t for me but terrible in bed and a little chubby (which I am not at all turned on by) - there is almost zero motivation to want to hang out with her and it REALLY takes away from the good...
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    Being Yourself?

    There are lots of different aspects of everyone, maybe start looking at being the best YOU in different ways. Besides the funny, light hearted you, what best you...um are you when something needs to get done, when you are reaching for a goal, when you are turned on by a woman etc. etc. etc. You...
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    My Sad & Lame But Very Educational Story, Mostly Lame Though

    These comments are all right. She friend zoned you because you didn't sleep with her. She really, really wanted you to f*ck her silly but you couldn't deliver because you were overly concerned with her feelings. You need to remember that she is a sexual being and she has done this before. She...
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    Enough to make me Finally Post

    Because you work with her, nothing should happen. You let this go as a very close call because you almost hooked up w/ a crazy girl at work who would have got your ass fired! Then you start working very very hard on your self confidence & being ok with being a sexual being. It is very clear from...
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    If a woman is too "easy" are we implying she didn't charge enough?

    Ss- for sure, women love sex just as much as guys do. I'm not coming from a place of judging the girl and if I'm only after sex then I could care less if she was f*ckin other guys. I'm talking about girls that you would give a legitimate shot for a longer term deal. The anticipation building up...
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    Girlfriend staying over at a guy's place

    She was going to f*ck this guy too. You girlfriend is using you like crazy and is cheating on you ....probably a whole lot. Kick her ass to the curb NOW!
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    Girlfriend, Sex, and Her Grasping for Power

    There are a million and a half red flags on this one. She is riding the sh*t out of the old guys c@ck ...for SURE. And she is bi-polar and she is a little pot head full of drama with bi-polar disorder........ ummmmmm so what exactly is good about her besides sex (which is now gone)???? Why would...
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    If a woman is too "easy" are we implying she didn't charge enough?

    If she puts out too easy, it removes some of the drive to be with her, the challenge is gone. TO me, it's not about her being a slut, it's just a biological / subconscious thing...it takes away the mystery and the challenge and makes the whole thing meaningless when it's over. It's human nature...
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    What now? she wants to meet only with friends involved

    If she insists on it being a group thing, nothing you can do, but do the group thing and just have a good time.
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    dating seems to be too much of a hassle

    Your bummed that he doesn't text you more than 2x per day? Shoots the girls I see are lucky if they get a few texts a week when just starting. You sound like your very needy and trying to fill a hold in yourself with another person. Not a healthy thing at all. You should go out w/ friends and...
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    Beautiful British Woman in News

    I would count her a 5 in my book. I wouldn't even want to sleep with her. Is this her little way to get people to think she's pretty?
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    tried gaming a fashion model, negged, made her qualify, still nothing. tips?

    You probably just picked the wrong time with her, and it sounds like she just wasn't attracted. 1 out of every 4 models statistically will not be attracted to you. It's a proven fact. Other then that what you were doing sounded pretty good (maybe except for the bringing up insecurities thing...
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    How do you get in the mind of a alpha female/female don juan

    Stand out - be different - be confident and genuine - don't be too easy but don't be obviously trying to show indifference.
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    Yuppaz Field Reports of Trials and Tribulations

    These past couple of weeks have been interesting. In my Acoa meetings there is this girl there that I think is reeeealy cute. She has some very pretty eyes, young, good body with long blond hair. I can tell she's into me and has hinted that she might be open to getting together. I'm a bit...
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    How do you sleep with a girl then leave her without being too much of a ****?

    Ya - you run a risk if you do it (risk of not getting laid) - but maybe tell her before you get into it that you aren't looking for a commitment right now. That way she should catch the hint that there is a good chance you won't stick around and can decide if she wants the **** badly enough to...
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    I'm so on edge right now. I've reached the breaking point fellas.

    You need to work on your courage and your well being. Good thing about courage is that courage applied in one area applies to all areas. Do things you may be anxious about (not life threatening things) and you will build your bravery in all areas.
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    Low interest or mind games

    "The next date is going to be a pump and dump just to prove a point." - what point are you proving (to yourself)? She likes you and wanted to have a relationship with you, you obviously don't so why not man up and tell her what you think / want instead of showing her that you may still want to...
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    Sexual activity but no real sex.

    I don't respect you as a man who is married trying his absolute best to try to cheat on his wife. Nor do I respect those helping someone consciously attempting to cheat on his wife. You need to grow up and get some moral fabric in your life, what you are doing is very immature and immoral. If...
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    Should I marry her?

    otoh - maybe there are stories of women who have been great parents despite their mental illness? Maybe you can look / ask around to see what made the difference. Best of luck
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    Should I marry her?

    She doesn't sound like a great candidate for a wife. Even if she's hot, likes sex w/ you and would do the whole Christian obey you thing. She has considered / attempted suicide before since you've been with her? What happens after a baby is born and you need to work and she is too depressive /...
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