i was in starbucks just now and sat next to a hot tall brunette, i went for an indirect opener asking her how to use the wifi then made a joke about how her nail polish matched her apple mac cover and did she have a different one for every day/colour. she laughed but then put her headphones back in. couple mins later i asked her about her mac and whether she recommended if i'd get one, turns out she buys everything apple related so i made a joke that she probably lines up camping out oustide for every new apple release. laughed again.
asked where she was from, asked her what she was doing here, turns out she just finished school and is on a year off trying out to be a model to see if she gets anywhere, just signed up to an agency yesterday. i tried my best to DHV, neg, made her qualify herself ('so what qualities would you say you have that set you apart from other models and pretty faces in this area and makes you stand out from the crowd?') she just answered talking about her looks again, i sensed no attraction at all. my body language wasn't right, i was leaning in too much cos i couldnt hear, came across eager, i kept talking and talking not letting the silence occur as she kept attempting to put her earphones back in (didn't know she wanted to skype her family) after a while i said 'i'll let u get back to what you were doing' she goes 'sorry i just need to skype my family cos they were expecting me'
i tried everything to DHV myself, saying i travelled a lot spoke lots of languages, was doing well for myself (but not in a qualifying manner) she didn't ask me any questions. i tried talking about her profession, about the insecurity trying to build an emotional connection, but nothing.. talked about spirituality.. it just seemed like im this random dude talking to her cos i want attention. i left it there, as she packed up i said 'so is your family here?' she misheard and said 'yah i need to go home and skype them it's too noisy here' (she coulda meant i was disturbing her..) i didnt bother attempting a no. close i got no IL from her at all, i said 'i might see you around' she goes 'yah if you come to this starbucks i'll see you again'
she was very polite friendly courteous etc, but just not interested. i guess pick ups can just be like that some time?
no matter what you do, sometimes they're just not interested..
asked where she was from, asked her what she was doing here, turns out she just finished school and is on a year off trying out to be a model to see if she gets anywhere, just signed up to an agency yesterday. i tried my best to DHV, neg, made her qualify herself ('so what qualities would you say you have that set you apart from other models and pretty faces in this area and makes you stand out from the crowd?') she just answered talking about her looks again, i sensed no attraction at all. my body language wasn't right, i was leaning in too much cos i couldnt hear, came across eager, i kept talking and talking not letting the silence occur as she kept attempting to put her earphones back in (didn't know she wanted to skype her family) after a while i said 'i'll let u get back to what you were doing' she goes 'sorry i just need to skype my family cos they were expecting me'
i tried everything to DHV myself, saying i travelled a lot spoke lots of languages, was doing well for myself (but not in a qualifying manner) she didn't ask me any questions. i tried talking about her profession, about the insecurity trying to build an emotional connection, but nothing.. talked about spirituality.. it just seemed like im this random dude talking to her cos i want attention. i left it there, as she packed up i said 'so is your family here?' she misheard and said 'yah i need to go home and skype them it's too noisy here' (she coulda meant i was disturbing her..) i didnt bother attempting a no. close i got no IL from her at all, i said 'i might see you around' she goes 'yah if you come to this starbucks i'll see you again'
she was very polite friendly courteous etc, but just not interested. i guess pick ups can just be like that some time?
no matter what you do, sometimes they're just not interested..