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Haven't updated this in a while - Have been hooking up with masseuse for a little while now, sex is awesome, love her cute little butt. Still hanging out with another girl from a while ago, not really that into it. Spending a lot of time and energy on my training in the gym, work and my mental...

Keep doing what your doing. If your into her then be patient(ish) if you don't care either way and just want to bang her then just cut bait - it's d1ck to her if your just waiting around to f*ck her then bail on her.

I personally try to call unless there are already plans setup. I need to improve in texting, I guess for whatever reason I text needy but on the phone they seem to get really into me. Guess it's my voice, plus it puts them on the defensive like they need to perform and in that state of mind they...

Yup - exactly. I'm kinda fubar at the moment because I don't like not having sex and it's easy for me to hook up with girls that I consider average but still after years having some trouble with the girls I would really want (some issue with not feeling deserving enough of girls I would consider...

Just because you are initiating right now isn't that big of a deal, don't sweat it. You are wanting more power, and wanting her to be more attracted, basically. To me that means she needs to very much want you sexually, that's usually how it goes down with me and the girls I end up hooking up...

1. You say it sucks to be alone, you assume you are alone because you are "at the top" - or maybe you don't assume that but you put it out there as an excuse as to why you can't connect well with men. 2. People give you outside viewpoints on why that may be. 3. They offer alternative viewpoints...

You seem to be getting pretty defensive when people give you constructive criticism for an issue that you yourself brought up. And then you are trying to school the people trying to help you by telling them how much of an expert you are in manliness / money / power / whatevs...Some guys are...

Hey Backbreaker - not to be harsh on you but in a lot of your posts you talk about your success, your success, your success. If we were to hang out, I have a feeling that that would be the topic of the day, how successful backbreaker is. That's pretty one dimensional and it would probably get...

Don't want to tell anyone in my social circle, life but wanted to post it up somewhere. I f*cked my masseuse last night. Was pretty awesome, great body cute / sweet girl really into the sex. She lives really close to me. Hoping to get some free massages out of it later. I don't have any ethical...

Have been reading / listening to a lot of stuff from Dr. Drew Dobransky lately. He has a very thorough scientific way of looking at what a man is and should be and how to get there. One premise he goes into is how many of / most men these days are boys in mens skin and that we may be that way...

Last night I broke things off with the girl I've been seeing for a while. I was kind of (but not really) ignoring her and she was flying into a kind of rage, was telling her I've been going through a lot of heavy stuff lately and she was all about where was I to kind of fix her or something. She...

I'm done with trying to date for now. I realize that I have some serious issues that I need to work out. I'm continually trying to get something from other people, be it validation, admiration, pride, some kind of love I didn't get when I was a kid that MADE me needy and lack any real self...

Soooooo I'm in quite a funk. I'm on vacation for a couple of weeks. I have been hanging out with this one girl for a year +/- now. She is very good to me, she does my dishes, buys me ****, comes by for sex a lot, and generally is just really into me. It would all be well and good, but I'm not in...

speaking right to me. Thank you for the timely post

I went to an event for raising money for toys for tots yesterday. It was in a nice house on the beach and was loaded with beautiful women (like 10 beautiful, not just 7-8 beautiful), absolute stunners. My buddy was supposed to go with me, he actually invited me and he flaked at the last minute...

There is some really good information in this thread. I think that the core and sole reason for any of this is the following: Trying to fill a void inside of yourself from outside of yourself. You go about this long enough and eventually you realize that nobody can fill that hole, and btw the...

Good advice, soshdog. Kinda same thing my shrink was saying too.... I put too much pressure on myself / try to be some strange version of perfect. I took yours and her advice this past week + or so and things have been a LOT better. Sunday was nice, I got a back massage and a c@ck massage from...

Something is definitely wrong if you are having a conversation that end up in "So did you like me"? I think your issue might be abundance vs. scarcity. Try to get more women in your life that you are talking to / interacting with to build the feeling of "I have plenty of options". THAT will...

From the outside, it looks like you are doing a couple things: 1. Putting WAY too much pressure on yourself to be perfect and not having any kind of rejection tarnish your image of yourself. 2. Not understanding the way that women work / think very well & how the dating world really is...

That was an extremely smooth job he did with this girl. Keeping it short, emotional spikes, not answering questions, leaving her wanting more. Very much solid and making the girl invest without putting in much effort on his end. Thanks for posting. The girls posting about this would probably do...