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edit: trauma thing because I've had some extremely negative / dejecting experiences with girls I thought were really fine while learning "pickup". So there is a fear of severe emotional rejection.

Met w/ shrink again today. Told her about how I got a massage from this hot little 18 year old Japanese girl and how we were flirting etc. then later hung out with this girl who I meditate with, then next weekend and she gave me a back massage and I gave her one and was all rubbing up on her. I...

Was reading a blog and the guy was adamant that it's fine to be a nice guy, but not a doormat. I agree with that, but what do you all define as being a doormat vs. just being a nice person?

tie a dumbell to your **** and do kegals

I interpret this as: Your greatness lies in doing what you can within your gifted talents, be steadfast about it and don't worry about what other people think, do or say in relationship to your purpose and the way you live. That's a beautiful sentiment and the only times in life where I have...

So, chick got back to me, a week later telling me she gets her schedule Sunday. I responded like 25 hours later. Nothing yet, don't think anything comes of it. Have been in a funk lately, not exactly sure why...probably something to do with life in general but can't put my finger on it...

Sometimes I'll just start singing to them and have my focus on the girl I like...works pretty good. Even if you don't know the words.

Ok, so last night I went out, was feeling kinda tired & frustrated so didn't approach very much and generally didn't have an amazing time. But, for some weird reason, same as last w/e I met and was sitting with an absolute stunner, very very beautiful. easy 9. I thought that I was all good with...

This post is very full of fail. Judge nismo is being demoted to court security guard. 1. I KNOW guys that aren't all that great looking that hook up with hotties. They are fun and have a high level of self esteem 2. Ummmmm girls in clubs have NO idea what you drive and if they are coming home...

hahahahahaha - we're dancing cheek to scruffy cheek hahahahahahaha f*cking hilarious

You're welcome bro - & 1 more important thing: learn to speak emotions vs. logic and ......one more: Learn to read and understand sub-communication (what is really being said vs. what is being said on the surface)

clubs gym stores work (yikes on that though) bars on the street at the mall getting car repairs going to the park going to classes going to music events at restaurants public transportation airplanes online (but rarely) at my apartment complex at the beach pretty much anywhere...

1. Not caring too much about what I think she thinks 2. Liking who I am and doing what I actually want to do (which helped with #1 a lot 3. Pre-supposing that she's into me 4. Pushing the envelope constantly to find where the actual boundaries are...and there are very few boundaries I'm finding...

Guys that I know that are actively dating and trying to be PUA's have the OP's mindset exactly. It IS a problem in success with women....problem being guys that have issues basing their self esteem around ANY kind of ass and feeling they are somehow BENEATH guys that do, or less than their...

I get that when I'm looking really good (tan, cut, dressed well) some women just seem to freakin hate you if they think you are too good for them. I honestly have had times where I've hated girls I just knew were out of my league too. Not anymore but it comes up impulsively from time to time...

ok - so a quicky this time, I'm writing too damn much. Couple really good chances to get together with beautiful girls this past couple weeks, but I was balking...basically because of the secret ingredient that I feel like I've been missing. Talked it over with my shrink...it's a lack of...

If she's a younger girl, and it sounds like it, then they don't quite have the correct social etiquette yet, and it didn't sound intentional. It may have also been a one time thing. I agree with you that cutting it short probably would have been the best move, but I personally wouldn't have...

Your doing awesome Decide! I'm glad my advice helped. One thing I noticed is that there are a couple of things that can be slightly improved on: 1. Some bad locations - when a girl is on the way to a bathroom or in line for medication at a pharmacy, that's a bad time to approach. Same thing if...

She did apologize for having to take the calls, and it sounds like she was in a mad scramble to get a room mate. I dunno, I wouldn't have liked it either but I would have understood, to a point. I probably would have also thought that it showed interest that she came out to meet up with you even...

I agree with looks / vibe. If you're feeling great and being loud / yourself and talking to everyone (just for instance) and you HAPPEN to include her in what your doing it won't seem unnatural at all. There is also something to be said for really good body language. If you are dressed the part...