List physical locations that you've had luck finding dates

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Let's make a list of places around your town/city that you have had luck approaching new women BY YOURSELF. Obviously women are everywhere, but there are some places that are more conducive to the logistics of an approach.

For instance, it is socially acceptable/not creepy (by a woman's standards) for a guy to go to Starbucks by himself and get a cup of coffee/bring a laptop to do work, and "coincidentally" sit across from a dime and strike up a conversation. This also works well because she's more likely to be away from her friends.

Likewise, meeting a girl on the street is not as good (although possible), because best case scenario you'll swap numbers after a very short period and won't get a chance to build up rapport.

What are some other good places to start, OTHER than bars/clubs.
 
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Drdeee said:
I originally thought this wasn't a problem, but it might be to some degree. Still, how does a busy working guy who goes straight from home to work to home come in contact with more girls? What are some good hotspots? I have a large social circle that loves to frequent bars/clubs, but don't want to date within the group and want to bring girls I've met elsewhere to these locations.

Just thought of this one: busy local laundromat
 

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Car washes. Chicks with BFs don't usually wash their own car.
 

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Blackmm said:
Car washes. Chicks with BFs don't usually wash their own car.
Really? That's weird.

So you've always washed your various girlfriends' cars?

Not being sarcastic. I'm seriously curious.
 

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clubs
gym
stores
work (yikes on that though)
bars
on the street
at the mall
getting car repairs
going to the park
going to classes
going to music events
at restaurants
public transportation
airplanes
online (but rarely)
at my apartment complex
at the beach
pretty much anywhere...
 
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