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I find it helpful to really DECIDE (actually stole this from Tony Robbins..haha) a word, with Greek origins meaning "To cut off from" or in other words, one you decide, there are no other possibilities. If you decide to improve your situation in X way, there is no Y or Z, there is only X. I...

Your thinking that it is difficult probably has a lot to do with why it is difficult for you.

I would go with Icebergs advice. Gotta say you only had one date with her, so she is by no means "Yours" at that point, and it's reasonable to cancel a date in favor of something else....but I would also be salty that she lied like it was nothing. I would just be in it to f*ck her at that point...

Because the sexual energy of women and their female affection / energy is something that all men want and need. It's a healthy thing to desire and even healthier thing to have. Just cold f*ckin can be fun without it, but with it, it is a very fulfilling experience that brings out the best in you.

Why would you need to change yourself because of other peoples insecurity? When girls start unprovekedly bringing up boyfriends...thats because they are reminding themselves because the like you sexually. That's ok, good for them...tell em so. When friends / other guys compete / **** block -...

These kinds of threads are pointless and serve no one.....wahhh wahhh wahhh ***** ***** ***** cry cry cry. What exactly is the point, what do you get out of posting this kind of thing or agreeing with it etc......??????? Come the f*ck ooooooonnnnnnnnn

A couple minutes after leaving her, I start talking to a group of two girls and one guy walking away from the event. One girl was with the guy, the other one wasn't. I asked her what superhero she was (event theme) and she said she wasn't one. I asked her what was under her jacket, she flashes...

Good idea & agree with the premise Mine: Is really into me, but has a good life of her own Loves kids and is great with them. Feminine & nurturing A lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets Into music, preferably singing (have a major thing for singers) Likes to read (books and not...

Did some more approaches this weekend. Trying to reinforce the idea of a girl as either a yes, or a no vs. a 1-10. This thinking has helped me greatly with being more comfortable with more beautiful women. Fri Night - went solo to this event in Honolulu AAD. For a little while I was not very...

If you are new to "game" - you should read 60 years of challenge. I'm NOT new to game, but my experience has taught me a lot and in comparing my experience to what he is teaching is dead on balls accurate, without turning into some weird ass PUA guy (Been there, done that, not fun AT ALL). I...

You don't need to discuss it with her at all. I would just assume that she "forgot" something so she could get to see you again. It happens all the time, girls forget or leave things as an excuse. That means she is into you. Who cares if you didn't f*ck her straight away, it's not that big of a...

Iceberg & remote controll for the win! Have been seeing a lot of posts where guys are telling other guys to dial in your inner game first, then go meet girls. I have to disagree with that line of thinking. Being social helps your inner game and approaching (& just realising that sometimes the...

What Jariel said was spot on. Don't take this as a set back in your progression in dating, instead the learning lesson is that you need to pay much closer attention to social cues, body language and underlying subtexts. I'm sure there were 100 ways that if you were paying attention to the...

How about taking it even further then a debate between if you should or shouldn't use facebook, but on HOW TO BEST INCREASE SOCIAL CIRCLES / ATTRACTION through facebook.... I have a tough time with that one personally. I think pictures have a lot to do with it and my status updates don't always...

The wanting to look Alpha, or appear a certain way is what really f*cked me up for a long time. I personally blame this site for it's influence in that area. Guys just parrot what they believe is true based on what they have heard and put it out there on the internets as fact. Even if it's all...

I think it's a very sad thing and comes with terrible insecurity (it must) and influence from magazines etc. to be perfect. If your friend gets real serious with her he will probably have to deal with a lot of issues with her horrible self esteem. I've also heard that it is not just a thing that...

Some of the beliefs are so negative and I can see so many ways that having them would basically just castrate you and keep you from ever meeting girls / women, or being able to maintain some kind of relationship with them (or just people in general). I know from experience... Some of mine: I'm...

I get a lot of looks / stares when looking / feeling good and women primp for me a lot, but I don't get approached regularly. Not sure if that is because of where I live (I NEVER see or hear of dudes getting approached on looks alone), or if it's just that I think myself higher up on the scale...

Huge difference between getting a phone number and picking someone up... a phone number doesn't count as picked up.

Nismo - you don't know that. I swear some of the sh*t you come up with is complete crap. I know you say things with conviction, so some guys will listen to you, but i hope not. You have a defeatist view of dating....