I've noticed that on the main forum facebook bashing is a close second to women bashing. Haters saying it's a waste of time and energy, it will never help you, it's just for superficial people, etc...
However, FB is just another playing field. There's guys bashing day game, night game, bar game, club game but notice one thing they have in common: they svck at it or don't understand the underlying mechanics. Good facebook game is just another tool to add to your skills set. If you're not comfortable employing don't, but it is important to understand how it works and why it works.
I'm not advocating creating an artificial projection of yourself through facebook in order to attract chicks. The main reason I use FB is that I have over 600-700 friends and acquaintances who live away from my current state (I moved around a lot). I don't advocate adding random girls and trying to game them, simply keeping it to people you meet in real life.
As I mentioned in another thread, FB helps you with chick based on the principle of pre-selection. Simply put, having pictures of you with hot chicks, or with your friends in cool venues or doing interesting activities, gets you noticed by girls. That translates into interests from these girls in real life.
BUT, facebook is only an extension of your life. If you have a boring life, no amount of fiddling with your profile will make it seem like you're a rockstar. Actually the only advice I have to give you to improve your profile is to remove pictures of you that DLV you, as well as erasing all those nerdy comments your friends from engineering school are posting on your wall.
Some of the common criticisms I hear about FB revolve around how it doesn't allow you to keep the "mystery" about yourself.
As far as the "mystery" argument, it's bullsh1t. The 18-32 female demographic is on FB in proportion of 95%. If you're not on it, you're out of sight. And out of sight is out of mind, not "mysterious." What do you think gets a girl thinking more (and getting more interested in you in the process): when she sees 3 pics of you with three different babes, or when she looks you up and can't find you? When she sees pics of you mountain climbing/surfing/skydiving etc or when she can't find you? That's the kind of mystery you want to generate about yourself if you want girls to notice.
Some real life examples: 2 of my current plates initially contacted me on FB. These are not girls that I didn't know, simply girls I didn't get to hook up with and kind of lost touch. No effort on my part, simply putting pics up from a Lakers game got one's attention, while the other contacted me after I updated my current city to LA (where she also lives). We met in real life and now are hooking up. Tomorrow I m going on a date with a girl who contacted me after one of my plates put some sexy pics of us from last wknd. 2 other girls also contacted me after those pics went up.
If you do it right, with minimum effort on your part FB can dramatically improve your success. What's to hate about that?
However, FB is just another playing field. There's guys bashing day game, night game, bar game, club game but notice one thing they have in common: they svck at it or don't understand the underlying mechanics. Good facebook game is just another tool to add to your skills set. If you're not comfortable employing don't, but it is important to understand how it works and why it works.
I'm not advocating creating an artificial projection of yourself through facebook in order to attract chicks. The main reason I use FB is that I have over 600-700 friends and acquaintances who live away from my current state (I moved around a lot). I don't advocate adding random girls and trying to game them, simply keeping it to people you meet in real life.
As I mentioned in another thread, FB helps you with chick based on the principle of pre-selection. Simply put, having pictures of you with hot chicks, or with your friends in cool venues or doing interesting activities, gets you noticed by girls. That translates into interests from these girls in real life.
BUT, facebook is only an extension of your life. If you have a boring life, no amount of fiddling with your profile will make it seem like you're a rockstar. Actually the only advice I have to give you to improve your profile is to remove pictures of you that DLV you, as well as erasing all those nerdy comments your friends from engineering school are posting on your wall.
Some of the common criticisms I hear about FB revolve around how it doesn't allow you to keep the "mystery" about yourself.
As far as the "mystery" argument, it's bullsh1t. The 18-32 female demographic is on FB in proportion of 95%. If you're not on it, you're out of sight. And out of sight is out of mind, not "mysterious." What do you think gets a girl thinking more (and getting more interested in you in the process): when she sees 3 pics of you with three different babes, or when she looks you up and can't find you? When she sees pics of you mountain climbing/surfing/skydiving etc or when she can't find you? That's the kind of mystery you want to generate about yourself if you want girls to notice.
Some real life examples: 2 of my current plates initially contacted me on FB. These are not girls that I didn't know, simply girls I didn't get to hook up with and kind of lost touch. No effort on my part, simply putting pics up from a Lakers game got one's attention, while the other contacted me after I updated my current city to LA (where she also lives). We met in real life and now are hooking up. Tomorrow I m going on a date with a girl who contacted me after one of my plates put some sexy pics of us from last wknd. 2 other girls also contacted me after those pics went up.
If you do it right, with minimum effort on your part FB can dramatically improve your success. What's to hate about that?