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    Career First, Women Second

    I personally believe and have seen many many times that guys that focus SOLELY on their career without also creating a healthy balance of social and romantic lives are very unhappy. They are skillful with making money (which is good) but not skillful with dating and friendship. THey are...
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    Advice?

    just call her right now and ask her out. She already contacted you hoping that you would do it then, but you didn't. She probably thinks you didn't have a good time with her.... Calm down with your gaming this one she is really into you. Just relax and hang out with her more often.
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    Advice?

    God damn... dude, are you into this girl or not? You "don't want to appear needy" when she is telling you that your astrology signs are in line and that "she had the best day evar with you!!!" Who is the one that is appearing needy here.... Just keep it simple: If you are into this girl - then...
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    The power of good looks in the game

    No woman is with a man because of what's inside - How could you possibly know this is true? It may be your opinion, based on your life experience but that doesn't make it a universal truth Greatest fallacies: Who is to say that any of those men is lesser in any way? Looks value is subjective...
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    The power of good looks in the game

    Are you rich, very tall, very muscular (&lean), very handsome and famous? If not, then what good does it do you to think like this? I keep hearing all over the place that first you need to be X to get Y when I spy with my own two eyes that it isn't the case. Putting off until tomorrow what...
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    The power of good looks in the game

    I can tell you with certainty that you can be very good looking, but if you lack confidence you still won't be humping pretty girls. I know a guy that won some award for his looks, is on magazine covers all the time and has a chubby / average girlfriend. I also know short chubby dudes (without...
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    The power of good looks in the game

    You can be very good looking and still suck with women. I know lots of guys like that. Just having the looks doesn't allow you to rest on your laurels. Unless you look like a model and less attractive girls chase you. You can be average looking and do really well with women....hotties... I know...
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    Your fiancee hanging with another guy without much clothes on.

    What a difference makeup makes. Check out the first picture of you then the one where she's posing for the camera with her fiance.... Nice little body though
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    How many of you agree with this?

    ^^^^ This - great self esteem vs. "If she's into me there must be something wrong with her" thinking Personally I approach, am indirect with my words, but direct with the body language, tone of voice and vibe (and willingness to escalate). It shows her we can speak on the same level, I'm not...
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    Haters: Why do they do it?

    Good question - I get that kind of thing a lot. It's usually from people that I don't really want to associate with for whatever reasons (most likely because I can see they are very ego driven and I just don't want to be around people like that, just bring ya down even if you are keen on it...ya...
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    how do you meet women when you dont have social circle

    Get bettet at cold approaching / get hobbies that involve groups that have women in them
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    Women and bonding process

    (not a shrink...but) sounds like you have some major control / inferiority issues. I think you should leave girls alone and go see a shrink. You're just going to damage whoever you are able to get your hooks into...
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    Very odd female behavior - need insight

    She's a different animal - she's a party girl that's being honest about hooking up with lots of guys. Your ego doesn't like that she's not even trying to hide that fact and that (to her) you are no special butterfly. If you want to be a special butterfly, date someone else. This one is probably...
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    What did I do wrong during this date?

    Sorry if this was already covered. I didn't read the other posters replies. There were a couple things that I see as possibly going on here: 1. She sounded boring and like she had too much baggage. I've dated girls in that position and it really isn't worth it at all. Good boundaries are fine...
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    what the hell does she want??

    Omfg -some of these responses. She's not an attention whote she just liles to ****.....so good deal, just **** her and **** other girls. Def don't date this one though
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    I figured out my problem!

    If you were spending all this time trying to figure out why you were a certain way, then you do want to change. I don't think it's a matter of if you HATE yourself enough to change rather what does that issue look like 5 years down the road if unchecked...what does it potentially look like if...
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    What do you think the world would be like If it was ruled by women?

    Let's all just hate and talk down about women as a defense mechanism...yay something different for a change
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    Response to "I love you"?

    Noooo be super alpha and tell her "f*ck you ***** make me a sandwich"
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    I figured out my problem!

    get comfortable with persistance and going for what you want. By doing what is SLIGHTLY uncomfortable over and over and over
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