How do you get in the mind of a alpha female/female don juan

[youngmack]

Okay i understand for you to get the girl that you really want you gotta be ignoring her at times,and negging her and flirting with other girls in front of her, and not be AFCish so it seems like she isnt your only option. But what do you do when this girl is a don Juan herself and none of these phase her or increases her interest in you because she also has many guys?

And im talking talking about a don juan thats has sex with guys but like shes always flirting and leading guys on... What should i do?

 

[nightcrawler]

the easiest way to get girls is to get inside their minds

 

[youngmack]

I know but thats what im trying to figure out.. how do i get in her mind? ESPECIALLY with a girl like that as stated in my first post

 

[st_99]

by definition a female cannot be alpha or DJ

 

[youngmack]

Okay but you understand what i mean...Like she thinks like a man..Because this girl i am dealing with has been raised by a lot of guys and they all tell her the tricks and the game so she basically doesn't fall for them.

 

[youngmack]

None of the above.she not a ***** but yes she does love attention, and she always flirts with different guys and leads them on, so basically things you try dont really phase her because shes either seen it all or she had many other options...It something i must do in order to surpass all those other guys/competition

 

[yuppaz]

Stand out - be different - be confident and genuine - don't be too easy but don't be obviously trying to show indifference.

 

[Chamber36]

Well Tariq Nasheed writes about female players in his books Play or Be Played and The Art of Gold-digging. I've only read Play or be Played.

I figure if a female is on top of her game that will simply make her much more in tune to Don Juan body-language and confidence. You will just often have to follow it up with good conversation, as usual.

I figure a female on top of her game won't have to ****-test you as much because she'll be able to recognize that you are on top of your game.

I must also quote Sweet Jones from Iceberg Slim's book Pimp. Sweet jones said: “A pretty n!gger b!tch and a white wh0re are just alike. They both will get in a stable to wreck it and leave the pimp on his ass with no wh0re. You gotta make ’em hump hard and fast to stick ’em for long scratch quick."

I think the problem really is when girls think they're smarter than you. So that may be the issue which needs to be addressed.

Because if they're more socially savvy that will be a problem, lol.

 

[TonyBaloney]

I would most certainly assess this ***** for any cluster b, or mental illness before taking this on as a project.

You could get seriously burned by a ***** like this.

Tony

 

[youngmack]

Checking her for mental illness isnt gona solve this problem..come on you guys are don juans and master don juans im only 16 shes only 16, You guys should have no problems with these types of girls because there are these types of girls out there

 

[backseatjuan]

This girl is obviously a chooser. You can make a choice for her by presenting yourself as what she like. Money? Get money! Car? Get car! Big dig? Plastic surgery!

Honestly I can't see myself being attracted to that. I prefer small femenine, and that means submissive, girls.

 

[youngmack]

Hmmmm

 

[Johnnyventana]

The way to deal with an attention wh0re is to not give them attention. And yes there's usually something wrong with them.

I would most certainly assess this ***** for any cluster b, or mental illness before taking this on as a project.

OP, its in your best interest to pay attention to the above, after all, you're asking.

Get another chick and your first chick will be all about you. And if that's true, watch out!

 

[youngmack]

I see anymore ideas/suggestions???

 

[youngmack]

Not giving her attention isn't working... I've tried it,she just doesn't pay you any attention either. Its like she knows the game so well anything you try doesn't work on her. There has gotta be someway to catch her

 

[dutchmaster]

Well fukk her then. Sounds like she requires way too much effort. Just find some other hoes

 

[zekko]

Not giving her attention isn't working... I've tried it,she just doesn't pay you any attention either.

Yeah, I'm not even sure there's a correct answer here. If you don't give her attention, why should she care when she's got 10 other guys in rotation giving her all the attention she needs? You just have to be attractive enough to her for it to make a difference - whether that be looks, status, something, whatever.

The pickup gurus tell you the classic story that when all the guys are giving her attention, you stand out by not giving her attention. That CAN work, especially IF you are attractive. But the problem with these types of girls is, once they work to get your attention, and they get it, they have what they wanted and lose interest. This type of thing tends to only work short term.

And im talking talking about a don juan thats has sex with guys but like shes always flirting and leading guys on... What should i do?

You have to be one of the guys she's having sex with. Which usually means being one of the guys who can take charge and escalate. Such girls are definitely not worth pursuing for a LTR.

 

[youngmack]

Yeah but i thought a don juan dosent quit on what he wants to get? Im only 16 a a beginner at this don juan thing

 

[zekko]

Yeah but i thought a don juan dosent quit on what he wants to get? Im only 16 a a beginner at this don juan thing

A Don Juan doesn't get too focused on one specific girl, because he can always go find another. That's oneitis. The reality of the situation is no one can attract every single woman they want.

Sometimes a girl just isn't going to be interested for whatever reason. What you can do is make yourself attraction and learn game so that you always have options. Part of that is having the mindset that you can always move on if the particular fish you want isn't biting.

 

[youngmack]

A Don Juan doesn't get too focused on one specific girl, because he can always go find another. That's oneitis. The reality of the situation is no one can attract every single woman they want.

Sometimes a girl just isn't going to be interested for whatever reason. What you can do is make yourself attraction and learn game so that you always have options. Part of that is having the mindset that you can always move on if the particular fish you want isn't biting.

Yeah your right but im already attractive. i don't really have a problem attracting girls being that im a very good dresser and i have nice hair..Its just the "game" part i don't get..i have read the dj bible countless of times and i am still confused on how to game a girl??... It seems like i can never keep her interested in me long enough and im get boring...i also know that i am a bad conversationalist, and i dont know exactly how to "game" a girl