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You were way too serious, man. You need to learn how to be playful & fun around girls. One other thing, you need to develop your charm. A charismatic man can make anyone attracted to him by how he smile, talk or act. It needs practice. This is why I keep telling you guys to practice talking to...

Dave, rejection is not that bad once you get used to it. It is regret that you should not be feeling instead. It's better to try and see where it will lead you than doing nothing and regretting of not taking any risk. Nobody is perfect. You aren't prefect. I'm not perfect. She's not perfect...

Thanks man. You just woke me up from my sleep for years. I get it. If she doesn't respect me, there's no reason to keep respecting her behavior towards me. Treat everyone what they deserve to be treated. By not doing that, we're disrespecting ourselves. Your advice is like gold. I was once a...

As you think you shall become - Pook - A class mate from my high school was telling my fortunes that I could only had 2 girlsfriends in my life. I proved him wrong. In my early 20s, I was so arrogant. Only through failures I learnt to be humble. If your life is too static, then you haven't...

Yes. I let her talk about it and then I tell her, "I don't like talking about it anymore. Let's talk about something else". She just want to be "heard" and understood. By listening to her problems, you're telling her that you're not cold towards her. Sometimes. Some other times, I used that...

If you really don't care about her, why did you spend your time writing that post here? You do care. Now, you're being treated like s#it and your reaction is like, "it's okay, we can try again". Always judge her by her actions, not her words. You're wasting too much time and energy here.

Ryan, the only reason why you're too nervous to talk to her face to face is that you're still putting too much expectations over the outcome of your actions. You're too worried about making a mistake in front of her and screw over this opportunity. There are at least 2 possible causes why...

My personality type is INFJ. It's the rarest type. So, The F is not a weakness? Many people around me say that I use feelings too much. It's as if being more in tune with my own feelings is bad.

Stop putting too much pressure on the end result. If you put too much pressure on yourself while on a date, your energy will be too focused on your worries instead of having fun. You're there to have fun and to qualify her whether she's worthy of you. I was like you. I used to be so worried to...

It feels like you were trying to interrogate her. It feels unnatural to me. When I'm on a date, I always go with something natural & fun to do. Based on my experiences with girls while I was dating them, it's always a red flag if she focuses more on the phone than the date itself. You should've...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/always-kiss-close-on-the-first-date.202263/ Just because you think that you had a great date, it doesn't mean that she feels the same way about it. Rejection is better than regret

Dave, have you read DJ Bible section about conversations? Have you practiced it with everyone? In order for someone else to be interested in you, you must be interested in him/ her first. At first, it was hard for me to do this because I'm an introvert. And then it got easier as I let them do...

“Judge by actions, not by words.” A girl who is interested in meeting with you will make her intention clear to you. She won't be playing hard to get. If she can't even make time for you then her IL is low. Your date idea is lame. It's boring. Why would she leave her home and do something...

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You're too soft. You have to be decisive. Asking her, "What do you want to do with me" is like telling her, "let's do something boring together because I'm too scared to come up with an interesting date idea myself". Girls don't know what they really want. If she likes you a lot, it doesn't...

This is not the definition of Alpha. If you haven't realized it yet, women can sense our vibe. You can have the best body shape, but if your facial expressions telling them that you're just like another soft male, they will not find you attractive. Now, contemplate these: What vibe do I give...

Something MORE than Confidence...

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

You're right. This is what triggered it: You fell completely in love with her. This is your mistake. There's nothing wrong with loving a woman. There's everything wrong with loving a woman with 100% of your heart. If you love her with all your heart, you will fall for this trap: thinking that...

These words from Pook spoke to me today: “Rejection is better than Regret” It's implication is wider than I thought previously. It's better to be bold than to regret latter of not doing what you ought to do. “When you find yourself hesitant, always yield to Action." Always take the risk...