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Yes. It hard to move from a typical nice guy to be a Don Juan. It takes everything you've got to change yourself. There are somethings you need to realize or find out by yourself: Men and women are sexual beings. The only reason why you didn't take advantage even though she "gave" herself...

First of all, you gave her the impression that you just want to be her friend by asking questions just as a friend does. Be bold and just ask her out instead of wasting your time trying to be her friend first. I'm not good at text game, so I text only when it really matters. It creates scarcity...

Please reread what NC means on the thread. It means that you don't contact her no matter what. You just broke that rule. NC is not just eliminating texting or calling her on a phone or meeting her in person. By checking her FB profile, you just made a contract with her. NC goals is to get you to...

I was like you. I was the most shy person I'd ever met. My life began to change when I realized from a movie that the only way to eliminate fear is just to face it. There is no other way. You have to face your fears. Don't run away from them. Yes it will be uncomfortable at first. But when you...

They have no idea of how to be your true self. What works for one person may not work for another. This is why I never try to change even my friend to be a true man. Every man must find their own true understanding of how to act as a man. If you need to fake your own personality, you'll only...

How to get better at small talk? Listen carefully to what she's saying. If you really listen to what she is saying, you will notice some small missing details in her words. This is your chance to ask open ended questions Be more interested in other persons. It shows you care enough to them Be...

It's going to get worse. As we age, it will be harder to lose weight, especially women. I agree with @thatfeel Read this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/anti-dumps-machine-part-3-you-buy-a-relationship-not-build-one.39785/

Your emotions obscure your view of this relationship. Can't you see that you're just her backup plan? She was just testing how much self-esteem in you. If you really understand your mistake by texting too much, then you should've understood that this relationship is over from the start...

I will try to explain it as best as I can. English is not my native language. Being her friend is the worst way of trying to get her to a romantic path. It will never work. That's not how attractions are built. You might think that her attraction will develop more if she gets to know you...

Do what Atom Smasher said. No drama & no discussion. I did that but made a mistake by adding drama to it. You can read my very first post on this site to see my mistakes.

El Payaso is right. Text game is bad if you want a good relationship. Too much texts will kill attraction faster because both of you will become bored faster. Over communicating is bad. You must give her time to miss you & you can't do it if you both keep texting every day. You lose her...

You're too easy to get. Every woman's mission is to find love. By saying that you really like someone, you just let her know that her mission is over. When her mission on you is over, she will make another mission which is to find another love. When you say this kind of stupid thing, her respect...

The dating world puts too much focus on how to attract women or how to get a girlfriend. Today I want to focus on how to avoid a bad relationship. When I was a newbie, I asked the wrong question: "how can I make her my girlfriend?". As you might have guessed it, this type of thinking had led me...

Why do you love being in hell by staying in a friend zone? Why do you want to save her from herself to be interested in you? If you do not understand the core essence of a man, then no technique will work for you. They're just tools, you're the user. Sharpen yourself, then you can use your...

You made some fundamental mistakes You tried to work it out It's not your role to work over a relationship. It's her job. By trying to work it out, you're putting her on a pedestal and she's the prize to be won. It should be the other way around. Text game If you use too much text game to...

Congratulations on your enlightenments, OP. What you wrote are spot on. By changing how we walk, talk & dress, people will notice. Our self-projection will affect other's reactions

Perfect explanation. I tried to explain this mentality to another thread a few days ago but I couldn't find better words than yours. That mentality plus understanding how attraction works can avert us from beating ourselves too much when things went bad

It's okay to behave like an AFC at sometimes. Perfection is boring. Watch closely for her actions rather than her words. I'm having a girl who's flirting (for fun) with me everytime she get a chance but her actions speaks otherwise. Next time when a girl asks you something personal about you...