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  1. sph21

    Had Enough of being used. Guide me through guys

    I had been there. I thought she was the only girl for me. Here are my advices for you: Don't try to impress her. Trying to impress a girl means you're putting her above you. Don't try to make her like you first. This concept is a little hard to explain. AFCs do this all the time. In order...
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    EXtreme ONEitis help

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    My long thread about finding my sticking points and finally becoming successful...

    This is a good start I started to not care on the perceptions of others of me when I used my previous fvck ups as my strength rather than my weakness. I experienced hell on earth and I survived. That was something to be proud of. Read these: My two cents on confidence Tip #2: Confidence You...
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    Need advice on this situation

    A girl who's highly interested in you won't make a direct move like giving you her number. Being dominant is masculine. Don't be her feminine man.
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    Volatile Modification to Ignore Tactic

    The point of being a Don Juan is to be true to yourself. Being authentic is sexy because many men are too afraid to do it. Lying just to get her interested in you is a weak behavior because you put her on a pedestal. This is an AFC behavior. If you do this, then that means her opinions about you...
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    If I'm 20 years old and have already given up on trying to talk to girls for the rest of my life is

    You are better than I was at 20. I wish I found this site when I was at your age. At 20, I was so shy, so depressed and I was too afraid to talk to anyone especially hot girls. I had no dream & I thought the world had ended for me and I wanted to commit suicide. I'm the oldest son in my family...
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    Summoning all DJs - I need help!

    She has a very low IL and you chased her like there's no other girl. Forget her. You'll only be wasting your time and you might break your own heart because of this. I did an LDR once and it was the worst decision I had ever made. Forget LDR. Forget moving closer to her place. LDR is bad...
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    Is my look the problem???

    You are a good looking dude. Just like me. I was insecure of my own look because I thought girls would instantly consider me as a player. Thus girls avoided me. Now I know better. It wasn't my look that repelled them. It was my desperation to get a girl. At your age, I was too depressed with...
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    Advice please

    You could attract beautiful women but a week later they dumped you. There's only one possible reason why they did this: you're too desperate. These are 4 golden posts from DJ Bible that I recommend every desperate guy to read: Kill that desperation! THE TEN COMMANDMENTS Fifteen Lessons Be a...
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    Date tommorow

    What?! You're 22 and thinking of dating a 28 year old woman? Why?! Just because she's hot? I believe that women want older men. If a woman can get an older man, she'll feel like her feminine energy can 'tame' that strong masculine old man. I'm sensing a desperation from you. Let me guess...
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    Things INSANE women say

    My ex said, "I'm a grown up woman" and wanted to be treated like one. She was 20. Until now, I still don't know what did she meant by that. LOL
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    Ex seems hesitant to meet up

    Man... You're just too desperate. Solve that first. Once attraction is gone, it will not come back any more. It's all about respect. She lost that respect long ago. Nothing/ no one can help you to get her back. It's just the way it works. Accept it. Don't be like a girl. A girl chats other...
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    What Women Want by David D - Good Short Video

    I bought his product about 11 years ago. It was a good read and I thought that I had mastered everything he wrote in his book. I was wrong. It was only my imagination. It took me years until I found SoSuave just to understood what his points were. Great Video
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    Girl who recently broke up with boyfriend

    Here are the things you need to learn: Act like a friend and you'll be treated as one If you constantly text her telling your life stories, she'll think that you don't have a life beside her. This is a huge attraction killer. Asking a girl for a date is a bold move which translated as: "I like...
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    Help out an old guy with limited dating experience

    Bro, I'm 35 and I have/had been dating with 20 and below. I avoid dating women older than 25 because I believe that they've been going through more pain than younger girls. You have been dating other girls. Which is good. My question is, why did you decided to date this 30ish woman? I hope it's...
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    Struggling with Oneitis & NC

    I know how you feel right now. I had been there. You can check my first thread on this site. My girlfriend disrespected me and i was so needy. But I decided to end it as fast as I could. It felt like I was in hell but I knew that I had to do it if I don't want her to hurt me more in the future...
  17. sph21

    Still not being seen as alpha or leader of tribe...

    Richard, being an alpha male is hard. You have to lead. Most people, don't want to lead because to lead is to overcome your own insecurity of being decisive. Maybe you are right. We don't know who you really are. We can only assume about who you are based on your words of choice. But consider...
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    What should my next move be with this girl?

    Just be a man & ask her out. If she wants to go out with you, it's a clear indication that she's attracted to you. Your next task would be to have a fun date. And if she doesn't want to go out with you, just forget her & ask someone new.
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    How to get her to see me more than a best-friend?

    The only reason why you asked that question is because you still doesn't understand how to become a Don Juan. Every DJ knows that it is impossible to change a girl's mind from being a friend to be a girlfriend. Dude, 2 years is too long to not move on from her. This might sound harsh, but I'm...
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    Please Help me Guys/Girls. I'm desperate

    Dude... Calm down. You look totally okay to me. If you still care about how other people think about you (especially girls) then you are still a nice guy. Internet is full of trolls. Why do you want to trust them about how you look? You have a big insecurity problem.
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