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  1. sph21

    I know a lot of men who are excellent catches who don't do well in dating

    Because he's not a sexual man. He hasn't embraced his sexuality. “Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.” ~ Pook Read lesson eight from Fifteen Lessons. All you have to do to is to Be a Man!:
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    Studying Speed Seduction>> ROSS JEFFERIES>> Incredible Connection Pattern

    Yes. The legendary member, Pook, had done it. And here's what he learnt from it: What I've learned... Speed Seduction will only mask your desperation to get a girl. She will find it out eventually and it won't be good for both of you.
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    How the hell do you text???

    You were trying too hard. Girls know why we text them. If you aren't clear with what you want from her from the start, then she'll assume that you just want to be a friend. Be bold and ask her out on a date, and she won't be confused anymore. That way, you're showing her that you know what you...
  4. sph21

    Giving out the "player" vibe

    What do you mean by that? We need more details.
  5. sph21

    Setting dates and communicating after the first date

    Use Anti-Dump's Machine (in DJ Bible) as a guide. Fifteen Lessons is also a good reading material. In the end, remember: Be not contained by formula. Stop seeing everything in black & white and you'll adapt better to any situation. Be creative and do what works. Always be ready to improvise &...
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    Girls texting dramatically changed

    Nice. Do it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself while you're doing it. Do you want to live your life to your fullest? If yes, then don't be afraid to take the risk. It's part of how we grow. Confidence is not built merely from successes but also from failures. What other member wrote is...
  7. sph21

    Nervous around girl I like

    Yes. Should you take her there? Absolutely not. You already made this mistake: It's like you're saying to her directly that you're no longer a mystery or a challenge for her. And she said, "no, thanks. let's be friends". She already put you on a friendzone. By taking her to Italy, you'll be...
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    Told this girl a few mistruths, I really like her what can I do to prevent getting my cover blown

    This is the biggest question that you must answer: Why do you want to be with someone who will not accept you for who you are? If she can't accept your age, why would you want to be with someone like that? If they can't accept you, then it's useless to spend time, money or energy on them. I...
  9. sph21

    Train yourself to be an a$$hole

    Learn more about non verbal communications. You're making yourself at a disadvantage here.
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    I really appreciate how nice you have been

    You're right. I just identified what is causing her to reject you and the end result of being nice. Look at those bold texts. Nice guys are guys who have low self esteem that will make them seem nice and at the same time, they're lying to themselves about what they really want in life. Women...
  11. sph21

    Woman's logic

    Holy Sh1t! If only I read this 6 months ago, I would have saved my time & energy while dating with a crazy chick. So, I lost her respect because I was lost and trying to be a nice guy by laughing it off.
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    The most pathetic question from miserable men

    Well, I fell for this trap. My ego was in my way to see that she's not 8 but jut 7 at max. I wanted status that comes with dating more than 7. Lesson learnt. Spin more plates and find that solid 7 at looks and personality.
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    Need help dealing with an angry girl

    You're right. I had to learn it the hard way. For so many times, I violated what you guys are teaching here: Always strike while the iron is hot Never be willing to be treated less than a man Always lead Yesterday, I finally figured out from her best friend that she chose her workmate over...
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    Need help dealing with an angry girl

    She didn't ignore me for a month. Before last Sunday, it was normal. She works during day time and dealing with art during the night. It has always been like that for her entire life. It's her dream. She ignores me just a couple of days (Sunday & Monday). She replied to my messages yesterday...
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    Need help dealing with an angry girl

    I need help dealing with this girl. Long story short, we've been dating for 6 months now and last Sunday, I made a mistake over something I wrote on WhatsApp to her. She got mad and she is mad until now. Previously, we had a conversation while we were out to determine where to take this...
  16. sph21

    Gonna read the DJ bible for the first time, but I think I'm gonna get coaching too

    Your problem is that you are too passive. You need to interact with more people (men & women). If you've read Pook's "fifteen lessons", you'll understand that "rejection is better than regret". I once asked a girl out and her reaction was to laugh at it. Did it hurt my feelings? Yes, a little...
  17. sph21

    Am happy with my life but get no results. A dilemma

    I highlighted your problem in bold. Giving a girl your number is not a smart move. It's a bad one. Why would she'd be investing in contacting & getting to know you first? Because you're high value? Women expect men to lead. You weren't leading. You were too passive and expect her to lead the...
  18. sph21

    Alright guys, I want to be honest with you

    I don't really know you. So, I could only guess who you are from what you wrote. You're making a good progress by realizing what you wrote here. This is why I said that you're a nice guy but still don't realize it. Nice guys aren't being true to themselves. Nice guys have these similar...
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    Conversation with Hooters bartender

    No, It's not a boring post. You've finally making a progress. It doesn't matter if it's a small progress. I'm happy for you. Previously, I wrote that there's no hope for you. Apparently, I was wrong.
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