Told this girl a few mistruths, I really like her what can I do to prevent getting my cover blown

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No, everybody doesn't lie. You are projecting. You have already admitted you are a liar. And these aren't minor white lies!
Everyone does lie, that's obvious, but not everyone lies about who they are, that's a whole nother thing

Everyone lies like saying "I'm on my way" when you're still in the shower or "I'm about to leave" while eating breakfast in your pajamas
 

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I have lied, I do lie and will continue to lie either on purpose or as a misdirection.

Persons who say they don't lie are the most dangerous type of people on the planet. It's the same feeling I get when I deal with people who project they are good.

I'd rather deal with a known bad hat then a goody 2 shoes. One has a code of conduct while the other hides his darkness.

So what should I do?
 

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OK why I lied....

99% of 19yo girls would NOT get with a man in his early thirties (ok there are exceptions).

One time I told a 18 yo girl I am 24, and then I heard her remark to her friends " omg hes so old he's 24"

........I dunno what we are going to do when we go to clubs/bars and I am requried to present my ID, what should a Sosuave representative do?
 

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I dated a girl for 6+ months while actively lying to her about how many girls i had slept with, if i could keep that up, then you can too, i believe in you buddy
 

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Everyone lies. White lies, black lies, red lies or whatever the fvck you wanna call it, a lie is still a lie.

Just don't lie to purposely hurt a person or ruin a person.

Now just admit the truth but misdirect it.

If I was in your shoes, I'd just tell her I did what I did as I didn't want my personal information out in public until I get to know that person personally - something to that effect. In a way it's the truth.

If she leaves you over it, then so be it.

If she's into you then she won't look too deeply into it.

I used to have fake profiles on Cupid, put my age there as 999 yrs old, worked as Master of the Universe etc. Only thing real there was my pictures. I still got messages from girls in universities or college, even with those obvious lies.
 

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I used to lie, kept tripping myself up, getting in to a relationship with lies is awful. Over time, I lied less and less to new girls, now I'm at a point where I'm straight up from the off - it not only makes your life easier but the stress/worry is gone plus you can have more meaningful relationships.

I lived a life of lies, now it's time for me to start living. Feels much better.
 

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So what details do we have to keep track of to prevent getting busted?

  1. ID documents
  2. Names of "professors"
  3. KNowledge of Beverly Hills etc

All I know is that I am getting 19yo poomps!!
 

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So what details do we have to keep track of to prevent getting busted?

  1. ID documents
  2. Names of "professors"
  3. KNowledge of Beverly Hills etc

All I know is that I am getting 19yo poomps!!
All I know is that you are pretty lame if that's what you need to do to get laid.
 

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When was the last time you penetrated a 19 yo?
A long time ago. You can have them, young girls can't take d!ck to save their lives.
 

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this is comical. since you guys are admitted liars should we ignore what you post on here since its likely bs? :cool:
 

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This is the biggest question that you must answer:
Why do you want to be with someone who will not accept you for who you are?

If she can't accept your age, why would you want to be with someone like that?

If they can't accept you, then it's useless to spend time, money or energy on them.

I had been dating girls which are 9 - 15 years old younger than me. The youngest was around 19 yo. It's about finding a girl who has a high IL in me. I don't even hide my age on my FB profile page. I want them to know what I expect from them based on my age.

Don't make it more complicated than what it has to be.
 

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Own it, unapologetically. Next time the subject of age comes up, don't make excuses, don't rationalize or backpedal; simply tell her your real age.

If she says, "So you lied," reply "yes, I did."

She will either be accepting or she won't. Either way, you own it.
 

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Have textbooks at my place to make it look like I am student?
Advice?

PLease no judging. Thanks.
Judging comes with the advice. Pepper your anus!

first things first!

GAME RECOGNIZES GAME!


Look, liking or loving a woman is not something to be shameful about. If your on phaggytimes, at her beck and call, beta as ****, and she treats you like her doormat, GROW A ****ING PAIR OF NUTS!

You liking/loving a woman doesn't mean you flip the script and stop doing all the things that initially attracted SAID WOMAN. It means your expectations of her GroW. What you deem as being acceptable does not change. the boundaries you have set for her IE (friends with ex bf, only has guy friends, etc) you have a ****ing zero tolerance policy for.

Women are weaponized in 2018. All it takes is one false accusations of being rapey or sexually harassing without proof/evidence and your life is trashed. Men need to smarten up.

Have boundaries: women will test them.

If a girl is in contact with ex, only has guy friends, has high kill count, is a single mom, = NO GO!

If a girl is past top form SMV, she is Netflix and chill material. Some cuck can marry her. I will not do that.

If a woman has low sex drive, low libido, my **** gets soft, and I lose her #.


ALPHA AS **** - I am doing _____________________________-! Tell her to come!

She comes, you bang her rotten, and repeat. Wash/rinse/REPEAT!

She is flakey, ghosts, hot/cold, you next her, and you go get hawter babes turning 18/19/20/21. NO EXCUSES!



GET ON MY ****ING LEVEL or:



The hottest girl out there is played out tomorrow. Why?

New girls are turning 18 EVERYDAY!
 

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This is the biggest question that you must answer:
Why do you want to be with someone who will not accept you for who you are?

If she can't accept your age, why would you want to be with someone like that?

If they can't accept you, then it's useless to spend time, money or energy on them.

I had been dating girls which are 9 - 15 years old younger than me. The youngest was around 19 yo. It's about finding a girl who has a high IL in me. I don't even hide my age on my FB profile page. I want them to know what I expect from them based on my age.

Don't make it more complicated than what it has to be.
Its funny because women do the opposite because they know age is the tell tale sign of cratering SMV.

Society as well as past prime women or beta male blue pill cucks will demonize playboy smashing 18+ top form SMV. Why?

News flash: the best girls are young in terms of SmV and aesthetics. Then again, a lot of them are space cadets too. Still, rather a space cadet on top form SMV and sex appeal then baby fever once her best days are done.

LULZ BE HAD
 

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And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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this is comical. since you guys are admitted liars should we ignore what you post on here since its likely bs? :cool:
Do you expect others here to believe that you don't lie?

The most holy of people will sin 7x per day.
 

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Not judging at all here...but I do hope those of you telling lies continue to do so. It's one of the easiest ways for me to set myself apart from the pack.

In a world of men who lie in order to get a woman, I tell them the kinds of truths that would lose them. But it doesn't.

I can actually tell a woman what goes on in this dirty bird, man-head of mine almost without filter sometimes, even to the extent most men would ever dare to...and they trust me more for it. Women know what men like. They know what men want. They know what men fantasize about. They may not be cool with it, but they know.

I've discovered when I am an open book in the ways I think about women and sex as a man, unapologetic, that I can often achieve the very things most men have to lie about in order to get.

That being said, 19 is too young for such an approach by a 32 year old. She probably hasn't been lied to and disappointed by enough men in her life to appreciate the real truth. My guess is that she is likely to react like 15 year old, and nothing you say will fix it.
U r a liar if you say u hv not even once lied to a woman.
 

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I didn't say "I never lied to a woman".

I used to lie a lot, hence the reason I am not judging anyone here for doing it.

But it ended up causing me a lot of trouble, far more than what the OP is dealing with here and more than what a piece of ass is really worth.

I know all men lie, at least at some point in their lives.

I know women lie too.

But just because everyone lies does not mean I have to lie as well.

I have found something very liberating and unapologetic about being a man who tells the brutal truth in a world of lies. It is something a lot of people have come forth to admit that they admire and even appreciate about me, and it comes with a clean conscious to boot.

You? You can do whatever the hell you want. I don't care. I won't judge.

But I will point out that you felt compelled to defend your point and to go so far as to accuse me of lying too when I wasn't even judging you. That might tell you something about what kind of person these "little lies" might have turned you into, and once turned me into as well.
You used to lie.

Now you claim you don't lie, because it's liberating.

Even a Roman Catholic priest could tell u r indeed lying or simply delusional.

The fact is you lie on a daily basis. You even lie to yourself on a daily basis. And you don't even acknowledged nor even own up to it.
 

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I actually told a little lie on Saturday and I’m gonna explain how it sprialled out of control.

I’m spinning a plate for the past 4 weeks who is quite clingy and I decided to dial it back with, she wanted to come out with me and my friend on Saturday to a party so we make plans for her to come to my place at 8ish. Anyway as I got wasted Friday I’m dying in bed all day and I just ignore her texts, I can’t even be bothered to acknowledge her.

About 7:30pm she tells me she coming over anyway, I call and say I’m at my aunts house, I go back to sleep, my friend calls around 10pm, he’s outside I get ready.

*knock* *knock* *knock*

I go quiet inside my house despite all the lights on I figure I’ll just ride it out. More consistent knocking and I hear her shout through the letter box “I know you’re in there”, I’m just thinking yeah you don’t know sh1t you psycho I’m gonna just ride this out you will get bored soon.

For a good 10-20 min she’s calling texting and banging her friend she’s with is also calling and texting me:




I start texting my friends who’s outside to come save me:




While they question my best friend outside, I run out the back and down the road for him to come pick me up in his car. I then call the girls, ask where they are and explain that I’m just outside of my aunts house and will be coming back shortly. They are like we know you were in there, how did you get out? We heard you on the phone laughing and playing music before we knocked your door. I told them my cousin who sounds like me is at my place and you probably scared him.

So this girl and her friend actually snuck up on my place and listened outside my front door for a good 5-10 minutes without saying a word, (prob trying to catch me with a girl or something) then knocked, I even remember hearing the door handle being tried, I called them both psychos.

The Sunday after the party I called her to come round, she was at my place by 10am. I came clean about it all, she met my best friend, we all had a laugh about it. We banged a few times, she told me she loved me. She left at 7pm.

She came over yesterday after work and brought me dinner, some food shopping and a bottle of wine.

The girl is obviously loco, but she does care about me, is hot, good sex and best head I’ve ever had (legit) so I have to keep her around for a bit right? Obviously you should not lie you just end up lying to get yourself out of the lie and can easily get tangled up.
 
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I'm no purist. Nobody is. But that's the point you have to make to defend your position.

Simply put, I do not lie to attract, get or keep women, which is what this thread is about.
You would lie to keep any women in your life happy.

You would even lie to your own mother and say she looks beautiful, she's old but you see her beauty in a different light.

And if you have a daughter, you'd even lie to her to make her sad day turn into a happy one.

And when you visit your sickly aunt/grandmother on her deathbed you'd lie and say something to make them feel better.

And you do this to attract, get or keep women happy.
 
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