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  1. sph21

    A week has passed, looks like she lost interest

    Sudah. Beberapa kota lain seperti Sidoarjo & Riau yang diserang teroris juga sudah tenang. Kemungkinan karena polisi bekerja ekstra keras dan sekarang adalah bulan suci ramadhan bagi mereka.
  2. sph21

    A week has passed, looks like she lost interest

    @Reykhel, you failed . @marmel75, Google Translate is still not perfect. Its translation is quite messy. Try translating from French to English and you'll see how Google still needs lots of work to do with it.
  3. sph21

    I met a spanish cutie at bar

    When she's into you, it's going to be easy like that. That was fun, right?
  4. sph21

    I'm just not making any progress in dating - very frustrating

    You're too afraid to fail (with women). You want everything to be safe when you are interacting with a woman. Deep down, you are still Mr. Nice Guy. Women are attracted to courageous men. Courageous men can be dangerous ones if the situations are needed. They protect what they value the most...
  5. sph21

    Long distance challenge!

    Stop right now. This relationship is not going to work. You're on a completely different side of the world than hers. It's easy to be an AFC in this situation. About 3 years ago, I had an option to make a girl who lives 700 km (435 miles) away from me to be my girlfriend. She lives in Bali and...
  6. sph21

    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    We told you over and over again that going in friends first will result in just friends. There's nothing shocking about this update. This is typically a girl who has a low interest in you. It's not unusual. Why? To prove whether she really means what she meant by saying "as friends to talk"...
  7. sph21

    Friend says he can get me the girl

    It's the same girl from last time, right? Come on, man. She clearly frienzoned you. Move on from her. Find another girl.
  8. sph21

    A week has passed, looks like she lost interest

    Hahaha. Orang timur juga banyak yang bodoh kok. I read your reply that you often go to Singapore. I didn't know that you can speak/ write in Melayu/ Bahasa Indonesia.
  9. sph21

    A week has passed, looks like she lost interest

    She basically said "no" indirectly and your reaction is "I'm tired of initiating". Dude, you still don't understand it. It's going to take you a long time to figure this out. Asking multiple times for a date and being rejected multiple times is not leading. It is desperation. You're not...
  10. sph21

    Do you find these girls attractive?

    Mostly are 6s and 7s. Some even make me cringe
  11. sph21

    A week has passed, looks like she lost interest

    Lately I was tired of replying to this kind of thread. I can't believe how clueless some men are. Never reward her bad behavior with your attention and never let a girl lead the interactions. I can't believe it's too hard for them to understand these simple principles. @ OP, attraction has an...
  12. sph21

    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    Don't do this next time. You told her indirectly that you didn't want to lead her and let her lead instead. The last thing you want to do is being led by a girl. Girls are often indecisive and this is why they want men to lead at everything.
  13. sph21

    Most prettiest girl I've "dated"--->> Please help I dont want to screw this up

    You to be more specific than that. Have you read the link I provided you with?
  14. sph21

    Most prettiest girl I've "dated"--->> Please help I dont want to screw this up

    Take a moment and find out what do you want in your life. What do you want in a woman? This post should help you : The Relationship Begins Before You Meet Her And for your defeatist attitude while dating, you have to qualify her. Worrying about whether you are good enough for her will only...
  15. sph21

    flake flake flake

    You're wasting your time. And you've already put her on the pedestal. Move on from this chick.
  16. sph21

    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    I'm sensing that you want to ignite the spark by playing hot and cold. Don't play this this game with her. You have already lost. Hot and cold can only work if you've never been frienzoned in the first place. Action always speaks louder than words. Women love to talk about everything. Talk is...
  17. sph21

    Did I make a mistake

    I have no idea about what you are talking about. Is English your first language?
  18. sph21

    Opinions on "friends first" in this situation

    No. It's not any different. She frienzoned you from the start. Why would now be any different? Women can destroy your life if you let them. Those are just BS. She just told you that she's not interested in you as a lover. If her IL is high, then she won't put that barrier in front of you. When...
  19. sph21

    Testing for congruence?

    ^^exactly this. Don't make her pay for it. Let her do it on her own will and you'll know for sure that she's into you. This is another form of investment on her part. There are other investments that you can ask from her that won't cost any money.
  20. sph21

    What happend is she serieous?

    LOL After rereading several times of your post, I finally understand what you're asking for. Okay guys, if you wanna know what he meant, here it is: He has a crush on a girl and he was texting her on WhatsApp (she knows that he likes her because he told her and they're just friends) Someone...
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