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@SayWhat I was once like you. I was drown in my own negativity toward everything. It made me lose touch with reality and I wanted to commit suicide twice. And then I realized that people don't like someone who's always negative about everything. People want to spend more time with positive...

@KokonutKrew, I haven't read the whole thread, but I believe I understand some of the things that you did to her. You let your emotions guided you and your decisions. What you did was childish by pretending to be dating with other girl while you're not. Posted a provocative picture on...

Because everyone around me is reluctant to touch or even shaking hands. Men here usually just fist-bumping instead of shaking hands. I hate it. Whenever I want to shake their hand, they give me their fist while I tried to open my hand trying to shake. Fist bumping is a sign of conflict. Everyone...

Lately I've been searching about what made me brave in the past. Finally, I've found it. I was making everything simple by being more in tune with nature. It was Pook's post that helped me. All your replies also helped me to find that courage once more.

Thanks for the encouragement. During this pandemic, people are getting lonelier. I knew this, but still I kept thinking about the outcome. I kept overthinking while knowing that there's another girl who may also interested in me through the same social circle. Thanks for reminding me about...

I'm not sure if you'd read Pook's 15 lessons. Stop rationalizing that by sleeping with you, she's definitely super interested in you. Women can be so manipulative if you let them have everything they want from you. Being single is not bad. It can mean that you won't tolerate being used by...

It is one of 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. Law #10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and the Unlucky

True. Will do. I have been planning to do that after our last interaction. You're right. I thought about it too. I didn't. I met her last night during our singing group's rehearsal and I acted cool as if nothing had happened.

She can't cook. Yeah. At least she said okay. I met her last night during our group's singing rehearsal and apparently she's busy this weekend. Every Monday/Tuesday she's going to accompany her mother to another city. Thanks for this.

I'll do it next time. She is still highly interested in me. It's just that this social distancing and very limited touching is killing my confidence. I over-analyze what other person will be thinking if I ever touch him/ her. Thinking of how uncaring I can be if I ever touch others knowing full...

This is gonna be a bit hard for me to explain my whole interactions with a particular girl because of language barrier between English and Indonesian. I know a girl through a social circle. She's been giving me some good signs that she's attracted to me through her body language such as...

It's about controlling your eagerness. Showing too much affection too fast can hurt your chance of having any relationship with her. By touching her too fast too soon, you're telling her through your actions that: You're too easy. There's no more challenge. She doesn't have to fight for...

Why the fff did you ask/let her talk about her past relationships? Never let her talk (further) about her past relationship(s). Divert the conversation if she ever mention her past relationship. In less than 2 years, I'm gonna be 40. Attracting young girls, even younger than 18, is easy for...

It may not be your fault. A Kiss is a biological compatibility test. Read this: 6 Factors That Secretly Influence Who You Have Sex With

2 days ago, I started to message a girl after NC of 2 months. She lives in Bali. We're 400 miles apart. We've been "friends" for ages. I stared by being nice and asked her about how she's doing lately. She started to give me obvious signals that she's so into me. She loved me but we never to...

Respect must be earned. Why do you want to respect someone who is clearly doesn't respect your presence and give that person your attention just so you can be validated by him/her? Distancing myself from unrespectful behaviors has saved me from many headaches & heartaches.

Pardon my grammar. English is not my first language. Take baby steps. Or take one step at a time. Figure out what part of your life that you can change little by little right now and do it. This is how I was capable of overcoming my shyness in my 20s. In my 20s, I was so shy to even talk to...

I agree. Trying to always keep the conversation going is too much work. Sometimes, it will make us needy because we're uncomfortable with silences. We can use silences to work on our favor instead. @aforabi, I appreciate your tips. But you also building many backlinks on this site; I found two...

First of all, learn how to use paragraphs. Times and times again she invited you to hang out while she was with her girlfriend(s). It means you're just another friend in her mind. It was a test to see if you're a challenge or not. You failed the test. By saying yes, you told her that you're...

Welcome to women's world. It's confusing af and if we're internalizing their words, sometimes they'll hurt us. Women can talk all lovely words and it won't mean a thing. This is something that you need to realize first if you're dealing with them. The sooner you realize that women aren't...