I've come from a point in my life where my confidence with women was absolutely fukking horrific - being fat as a high schooler annihilated my confidence and self esteem - to now, actually feeling pretty good about myself and I see how huge of a difference it is. When you don't think you're good enough or you don't think you're worthy or you don't think you're capable of attracting a woman, it bleeds into every ounce of your being and women can smell that from 50 miles away (no matter how pretty you make the outside package appear)
With that being said, is confidence really the only thing that separates the guys who get laid with attractive women vs those who don't?
I mean I look at all the tangible things - looks, personality, intelligence, character, success and I've known multiple men who were good in everything but were terrible at dating. Not only am I a perfect example but I had a friend who is a pharmacist now named Milos - dude was 5'11 220 lbs very muscular, good looking in the face, super nice guy, very smart, made 160K a year. He dated women 3 levels below himself and he married a nasty **** who is 4 levels below him. He should have been dating 9/10s
When you genuinely believe every woman on the planet would be very lucky to be with you, I think that's way more powerful than any tangible positive trait. It's crazy how many self limiting beliefs most men have. I met another friend 2 weeks ago who is 6'0 handsome all American guy, super cool dude, very likable. We started talking about those super hot fitness babes and the first words out of his mouth was that he didn't make enough money to impress them...even though most fitness babes at your local gym probably make 30K a year. Most men have soooooo many self limiting and self destroying beliefs about dating
With that being said, is confidence really the only thing that separates the guys who get laid with attractive women vs those who don't?
I mean I look at all the tangible things - looks, personality, intelligence, character, success and I've known multiple men who were good in everything but were terrible at dating. Not only am I a perfect example but I had a friend who is a pharmacist now named Milos - dude was 5'11 220 lbs very muscular, good looking in the face, super nice guy, very smart, made 160K a year. He dated women 3 levels below himself and he married a nasty **** who is 4 levels below him. He should have been dating 9/10s
When you genuinely believe every woman on the planet would be very lucky to be with you, I think that's way more powerful than any tangible positive trait. It's crazy how many self limiting beliefs most men have. I met another friend 2 weeks ago who is 6'0 handsome all American guy, super cool dude, very likable. We started talking about those super hot fitness babes and the first words out of his mouth was that he didn't make enough money to impress them...even though most fitness babes at your local gym probably make 30K a year. Most men have soooooo many self limiting and self destroying beliefs about dating