Couple things here
1)How do I convince myself that women actually want to be approached? Whenever I see a hot girl at my gym, my brain goes into overdrive mode with thoughts like "she has no interest in talking to me, guaranteed 99% chance she has a boyfriend, she would be extremely irritated if I approached her, she will laugh at me and tell me to F*ck off if I approached her"
2)How do I convince myself that women have normal standards? Whenever I see a hot girl anywhere, my automatic thoughts are "she would never like me unless I turn myself into the most impossibly perfect man alive"
1)How do I convince myself that women actually want to be approached? Whenever I see a hot girl at my gym, my brain goes into overdrive mode with thoughts like "she has no interest in talking to me, guaranteed 99% chance she has a boyfriend, she would be extremely irritated if I approached her, she will laugh at me and tell me to F*ck off if I approached her"
2)How do I convince myself that women have normal standards? Whenever I see a hot girl anywhere, my automatic thoughts are "she would never like me unless I turn myself into the most impossibly perfect man alive"