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I agree on the main point - you have to initiate physical touching. Also - don't ask - just do. Say something like "come here" then pull her into you for a hug on the couch, then touch her hair, neck, etc. Then just kiss her. That's it. If you say something like "let's sit on the couch" -...

You should not be worrying about this one girl because you should be busy dating other girls. I'm a fan of persistence when done right, though. I say call her up and ask her out. If she gives you any crap, onto the next.

Never be afraid to show interest. If you want more and she only wants friends, then it's time to bounce. Who cares what she thinks anyway? She doesn't want to date you, so there is no reason for her to be in your life. If the situation was reversed, she would quickly hurt your feelings and...

Meet up one on one. Then kino, escalate, etc. If she stops you, she's not interested. Onto the next.

Like all women, she has low self-esteem. She thinks those women are hotter than her (whether true or not) and she needed validation. Just ignore this and don't feed with any compliments. Do you have this girl's number? Just get it, call her, ask her out, if no go, then move onto the next.

Fixed: never take a girl under the age of 35 serious.

This was awesome. Nice work. Just make sure you make plans at some point - don't go back and forth too much. If she ditches on the plans then she's not that interested.

I'm assuming this is early in a relationship where you aren't exclusive, but here's what I usually do. You can let her know you are dating other girls in multiple ways besides just bringing up "hey I'm going out with other girls": 1. Be busy doing other things. Don't actually tell her what...

Spinning plates mean dating multiple women, keeping your options open. Sometimes one of these plates becomes a relationship. All of my relationships after high school have started out as "casual sex" and became a relationship.

Not sure what your standards are, but I would keep doing what you're doing - but she doesn't sound like someone I'd want to be in a relationship with.

Always kiss close the first date. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202263 In response to the OP - you will know for sure when you come on too strong. She will either flat out reject or sht test you.

Yes and it always reminds me that the best way to get over a girl is another girl. Or more than one.

Then she's not interested, or her interest is extremely low. Pull away and see if she gives any chase. If so, re-engage, kino, escalate, etc. Worst case, just give up. She's just one of many.

Love em. They tend not to play as many games.

I would probably not respond at all. It's not a question. Date other girls. If this were some fat chick would you be posting about it on this site?

You HAVE to try to escalate. Touch her (kino) and try to kiss her. You will immediately know if she has no interest in you. The sooner you do this, the better. The longer you delay, the more she puts you into the "friend" bucket.

Yep. Especially if she has more than one. A girl with one cat that she's not obsessed with is fine though. I think it's the rule of three. No more than three cats or tattoos.

I guess it depends how well you know her. If you approach a girl, talk for 2 minutes, get number, then text "lets get drinks", I can't see a high hit-rate. A few texts back and forth just to say what's up is cool for me. I don't think it hurts much. Just don't over-do it. Also - don't wait...

Check out ASD (anti slt defense). Basically you push pull, repeat.

If you're "new" to all of the plate-spinning stuff (like myself a year ago) I would avoid girls with boyfriends at first. It's easy to get oneitis on a girl that's flirty but has nothing to lose because she can just get attention while saying "well I have a boyfriend" when you try to escalate...