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This is funny. It happens a lot when a girl is in chase mode through text too. Whoever said the POF girls that send a message first are the ugly ones is spot on. Other girls logon to POF, check messages by the guy's face, read one line, then 99% of the time delete them.

On the first or second date I never verbally mention sex but you physically do things to imply them. Otherwise you might activate ASD. Kino, kiss, escalate, keep your mouth shut.

Everything in this thread is true. Also - never ask a girl you know (even relative) if she has any single friends. Wait for a party or something to happen and when someone shows up that's cute, just introduce yourself.

When I was more AFC in college I really liked this one girl and she tried to set me up with her friend. I banged that chick on the first date to try and make the first one jealous. The chick I banged was actually hotter than the first girl. But I could not give a sh!t about her and she...

Yup she has high interest. Let it ride. You're not going to see her for a few weeks anyway. Worst case scenario she becomes too clingy and you let her go. Enjoy it in the meantime.

This is true. I think the advice on here is to meant to not let girls go on and on and treat you like a girlfriend. You need to make sure she knows that you want a physical relationship (male/lover) and not an emotional one (female/friend). You do this by PHYSICALLY escalating - fearlessly...

Agree with above. Do not answer this question directly. Especially if you have yet to sleep with her. This is a sh!t test that you will fail.

Why do you think she's losing interest? It sounds like she likes you. Hold off on the texting a bit. I think texting has its place but you might be texting too much. You don't want her to think you are totally into her and you have nobody else because you'll appear desperate. Give her a day...

There are no "steps" for this. You can't make someone fall in love with you. You have to have the mentality that you are an awesome guy and that she wants to be with you. This will not work for all women, but that's why it's a numbers game. You treat her like any other girl. Do you have her...

Haha why is this cruel? I think this is awesome. Being in my late 20s and doing well that's probably why. It's easier to get girls in their early to mid 20s. I have way more value than any "competition" the same age as them. Same as in high school / college. Always dated younger girls.

Truth. It's nice because it seems easy, but it takes up a lot of time. It's a numbers thing but you are going head to head with a lot of other guys. I've read this advice on here but didn't realize it until I did it myself: SPEND THE TIME MEETING GIRLS IN PERSON.

I think you guys are missing the reason why you should be indifferent to an individual woman. It's because you are (or should be) spinning plates and have multiple girls that you can contact. When one of the girls you are trying to date starts playing games or does something you don't like...

You can date whoever (and as many people as you want) until you agree to be in an exclusive relationship. If you both agree that you are only seeing each other, and you change your mind, why not just break it off with her?

Online dating chicks are wacked out. Meet girls in real life.

Fake it till you make it. Become non-awkward. Approach women CONSTANTLY. Not just to get phone numbers. To make conversation. That way when you see someone you like, it will be more natural.

Please tell me that you're talking to other girls. You're at college. There are probably thousands of hot girls on campus. No need to worry about this one girl with low interest. Move on. If she reaches out then she might have a little bit of interest. If not, she has none. Don't waste...

Isolate and escalate. Kiss her then move on from there. Don't "ask" or "offer". Just do. She'll let you know if she's not interested.

That was a rejection and I usually reply with "OK" or don't reply at all. Then I make other plans. If the girl gets back to me, just say "oh you weren't sure so I made other plans". From that point on, she will never "maybe" you again. If she doesn't contact you, time to move on.

Charming but then aloof when/if she plays games.

This solution solves 90% of the questions on this site.