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Don Juan
I've been dating this chinese chick for the last 6 weeks .
Anyways , if you've read my previous threads , you know she loves to play games. 2 nights back we had an argument about me being not 'tolerative' enough for her mistakes . At one point of the argument , she was mocking me , after which I immediately walked away .Okay , so yesterday we didn't talk all day until like 9 PM when she called me 5 times .
Yesterday she told me that she spent the whole day with some other guy.But after her math class, she was with him, he apparently walked her to the next class, waited for her outside to get her class over, then she had lunch with him and he invited her to 'study' to with him at the library in the night with some of his friends . She said yes to him and she called me before coming to the library , I was on another floor of the library and we talked for the first time after the fight and she said she was leaving to study with some 'friends'(I didn't know anything about what happened then). We met again after the library closed at 11 and she told me everything . I value honesty but what's the point of such honesty .And the guy she spent the whole day with , at some boat trip last week , she joked about 'spending the night on his bed' , last night when I saw that guy and asked her if it was the same guy , she said no , like just lied to me .I knew it was him . So 2 hours later , she told me it was him.
My reaction to the whole situation was probably unexpected by her . I just smiled and I said , I hope you had a good time with him . And she said she actually didn't because she was feeling bad . And she said she's sorry for what she did and that this wont happen again and stuff about how she wants to be with me .I didn't ask for an apology or anything , it was all her . I said its cool and didn't get too emotional about this , something I have read is important . I said her lying wasn't impressive at all .Now that the dust has settled , what should my reaction be ?
Anyways , if you've read my previous threads , you know she loves to play games. 2 nights back we had an argument about me being not 'tolerative' enough for her mistakes . At one point of the argument , she was mocking me , after which I immediately walked away .Okay , so yesterday we didn't talk all day until like 9 PM when she called me 5 times .
Yesterday she told me that she spent the whole day with some other guy.But after her math class, she was with him, he apparently walked her to the next class, waited for her outside to get her class over, then she had lunch with him and he invited her to 'study' to with him at the library in the night with some of his friends . She said yes to him and she called me before coming to the library , I was on another floor of the library and we talked for the first time after the fight and she said she was leaving to study with some 'friends'(I didn't know anything about what happened then). We met again after the library closed at 11 and she told me everything . I value honesty but what's the point of such honesty .And the guy she spent the whole day with , at some boat trip last week , she joked about 'spending the night on his bed' , last night when I saw that guy and asked her if it was the same guy , she said no , like just lied to me .I knew it was him . So 2 hours later , she told me it was him.
My reaction to the whole situation was probably unexpected by her . I just smiled and I said , I hope you had a good time with him . And she said she actually didn't because she was feeling bad . And she said she's sorry for what she did and that this wont happen again and stuff about how she wants to be with me .I didn't ask for an apology or anything , it was all her . I said its cool and didn't get too emotional about this , something I have read is important . I said her lying wasn't impressive at all .Now that the dust has settled , what should my reaction be ?
And then she said she wanted to watch me *** , and I did it . We're good now , going out in a lil bit . But yes , I am alot more laid back . I think letting what she did affect me would only give her a message that I have too much feelings for her . Oh and btw , saw her ***** for the first time yesterday and when I was walking her to her building , she was like , "I dont know if my rule of not having sex before marriage is going to hold up "