Girl just broke up with boyfriend

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How and whats the steps to make her fall in love with me
 

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There are no "steps" for this. You can't make someone fall in love with you. You have to have the mentality that you are an awesome guy and that she wants to be with you. This will not work for all women, but that's why it's a numbers game.

You treat her like any other girl. Do you have her number? Call her up and ask her out. If she's interested then she'll go out. If not, then move on.

If she broke up with him then she's ready for someone else (or has possibly already found him). If he broke up with her it will be harder.

Either way you will not know unless you try.
 

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aWolf said:
How and whats the steps to make her fall in love with me
At least put some effort into your thread....

There isn't, she either will or she won't. There isn't a list of tricks you can use. Sounds to me that you're too focused on one individual girl. Snap out of this delusional way of thinking. Get out there, improve yourself, and meet some other girl.
 

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Consensus advice is to not let her talk about the ex to you, lest you be friendzoned as an emotional tampon.

However, I have managed several times to let a girl go on and on about her recent ex, and then ended up fvcking her. It works as long as you make sure to immediately steer the direction of the relationship toward being physical. She can bawl on my shoulder all she wants, as long as my hand is slowly working its way up her thigh...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
However, I have managed several times to let a girl go on and on about her recent ex, and then ended up fvcking her. It works as long as you make sure to immediately steer the direction of the relationship toward being physical. She can bawl on my shoulder all she wants, as long as my hand is slowly working its way up her thigh...
This is true. I think the advice on here is to meant to not let girls go on and on and treat you like a girlfriend. You need to make sure she knows that you want a physical relationship (male/lover) and not an emotional one (female/friend). You do this by PHYSICALLY escalating - fearlessly and without apology.

If you think you can't handle this - the best thing to say when she bring up her boyfriend is something like "that sounds like sad talk - let's go have some fun". Then do something exciting - isolate and escalate.
 
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