Don't stalk her haha.
Send her a message something like hey (name) how was your summer? I've been kind of busy doing blah blah blah
she responds wih some crap
you respond "awesome. Hey what's your phone number?"
then call her talk for a bit and ask her out.
You forgot the alcohol. Chicks on POF usually want "boyfriends" at first so she might be trying to impress you so that you don't think she's a slut. Just keep escalating. Or move on. If she reached out to you then have her come over again and this time make sure you bang. If not, next.
Treat her like a girl that you are "Dating" before being exclusive. That's essentially what a FB is anyway. Call/text ask her to hang out at your place. Then escalate and sex. And don't be clingy.
This is a great thread. I have to say in my experience it has been way easier for me to bang a 30-year-old HB8/9 versus a 24-year-old HB8/9. I think they realize that their "value" is depreciating quickly and they need to pull out all the stops to get a man.
You see this on the online dating...
I was in the same spot. Here's what helped me:
-Date other girls. At first you might even compare them to your oneitis, but it will pass.
-Spin multiple plates (meaning date more than 1 girl at a time). Girls are flaky and it's easier to have them chasing you with high interest than you...
You work together, so usual warnings apply.
Have you asked her out? If not you need to ask her out, get her alone, escalate.
Also start dating other girls. You're worrying too much about a girl you haven't hooked up with yet.
It worked perfectly. A women with low (or lowering) interest was out of your life. It's possible she was already banging/chasing another guy. Sounds like it was inevitable.
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