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It makes it so much easier. Why are you complaining that a girl has high interest and is not playing games?

Don't text her anymore. Check the recent threads on here. I get and expect a 60% flake rate from online dating, so I ALWAYS double-book my POF dates. If she's interested, she'll reach out. If not, she's gone. You haven't met her in real life, so to her you are just a bunch of words and...

Keep acting unfazed until you actually are unfazed (fake it till you make it). Also, spin more plates. I noticed that I cared less about the actions of a single girl when I had 3 more willing to hang out. Way easier to drop one or give her a cooling off period.

Do you have each other's number? Are you both in dorms? College game is so easy because you're on campus, there are numerous girls, and they're all ready to start hooking up. If she has your number she will probably text you. Otherwise maybe just text her Saturday and see what she's up to...

I guess what you're saying is don't overreact. My usual reaction to something I don't like is to just ignore it or act like it never happened. If I want to still pursue the girl I just call her up and ask her out and continue like nothing bothered me - because it usually didn't.

Don't regret sht just use that as motivation to fvck girls now! Although knowing what I knew now, there were so many chicks I could have banged if I had escalated further. Most of them just ended with kissing and nothing else. If 27-year-old me could talk to 15-year-old me and explain how...

My high school game sucked. When I got to college it exploded. It's all a numbers game bro. Also, if you're better in person then GAME HER IN PERSON. When you get her number, just text her to set up an in-person date! If you don't answer her texts or respond minimally - HER INTEREST WILL...

I've done this before: Kiss at a party/bar. Try to escalate but if no sex then that's OK. Exchange numbers. Text her a day or two later to see what's up (but don't ask her out). Then just wait. You'll get the "so when can we see each other" text. That's when you know you've got her and...

Ummmm...... MARRIED COWORKER Are you for real? Find some single chick that you don't work with.

This happens more often than you think, but yes always keep frame and if she tries to regain it, tease her.

This works extremely well. When I was in a relationship, I would still open groups for my friends at bars. You have to get yourself into that mindset when you are approaching girls for yourself too. You have to think "well this girl is cute but she's not in my life right now, so it will not...

Don't expect a relationship either. All of the girls I've met using online dating have some kind of issue - that's why they're not meeting/keeping men in real life.

I agree. It's all about how good looking you are. Much more so than in real life. If you say something "witty" you may get a response. I probably get a 30% response just saying Hello back. Then from there a 30% number pull. Then from there a 40% non-flake for a date. It's a numbers game...

I used to think this way too, but if it's a girl I've just met, I ALWAYS set up dates through text. BUT - I don't have text conversations. That's just a waste of time for both of us. Send a hello what are you up to text. She responds. I ask out. The next conversation is the one we have on...

#2 and #4 for me are the ones I never knew before coming to this site. 2. It's extremely rare (for me) for a girl to initiate kissing, sex, etc unless we have been dating for a while. If you are out on a date, most girls don't want you to think they are a slut, so they may hold back. Women...

I didn't read because you said POF in the subject. You don't know this girl you are just a bunch of words and texts not a living breathing person - yet. I use OKC to supplement girls I meet in real life. I get (an expect) a 60% flake rate. I actually DOUBLE-BOOK dates with these girls...

This is the epitome of the "before" person on this site. You don't have enough self-confidence or you're just not that interesting. Yes there are limits you can change (weight, shape, etc) and things you can't (height, facial structure). Confidence is such a multiplier to your "number" and...

There was a thread about this somewhere on here. Women love cats because they are aloof versus dogs that are all over you at all times. Also, women with 3+ cats have problems emotionally committing to men. And are crazy. I think there's a "more than two rule". More than two: cats tattoos...

I met a girl who told me she had two cats. I told her I have a stray cat that I feed once in a while. She said "oh yeah I have like four of those". 2+4 = 6 = crazy cat lady

Two girls that I'm dating play zero games and seem to not hide their affection for me at all. It turned out in both of these cases that they were former "fat" girls. Not obese just on the chunky side in high school and college. I'm guessing they weren't able to develop their game as much...