girl from POF now has low interest??

[pyros]

Met this chick HB7 on POF. Chatted for 1.5 hours; light chat, some jokes, etc, one sexual joke, she liked it etc. I got her number and suggested to meet, she played a bit hard to get, but agreed. This was on Sunday.
On Tuesday she texted me to ask how I was doing and asking why I hadnt contacted her. We texted back and forth and I called her. We talked for 10 mins and I suggested to meet either Tuesday night or Thursday night, she said that Thursday was fine.
On Wednesday I just sent her a brief text wishing her a good autum day; she replied saying thanks a lot, and wishing me the same.

Today Thursday I texted her just to ask how she was, we texted back and forth for a bit and I suggested to go to grab a beer tonight, here is the convo:

me: so, lets go to grab a drink tonight?
her: oh we'll talk later cause I dont know at what time Im getting home from work and besides I want to go jogging
me: ok, go jogging, you'll get callus, not sexy.
her: hahahahaha, I do not jog so much3

I thought about telling her something like:
'hey listen, we can meet tonight at 22h and see how it goes, or we can just not meet at all. ' Good or bad idea?
I understand this is low to no interest from her part.
What do you think?
Is it my fault?
I do not like the 'ill let you know during the day' response to a date offer. So I was thinking that if she finally contacts me Im gonna flake on her saying something stupid like: 'oh Ill let you know cause I have to walk the dog'


Thanks.

 

[Solomon]

When dealing with women initally it's like sales

Your date is setting a tight deadline to get the sales meeting closed, you did not do that.

When you made the date for thrusday you should have 2 things on deck

1. Time
2. Place

Simple having a date isn't enough you gotta have a time and place. The best thing to do is acquire more options I would recommend meeting women in person. It sounds like to me you don't have many options cause you are overthinking this and for God's sake I hope you're living in another country cause texting girls at 6 am is desperate

peace

 

[pyros]

When dealing with women initally it's like sales

Your date is setting a tight deadline to get the sales meeting closed, you did not do that.

When you made the date for thrusday you should have 2 things on deck

1. Time
2. Place

Simple having a date isn't enough you gotta have a time and place. The best thing to do is acquire more options I would recommend meeting women in person. It sounds like to me you don't have many options cause you are overthinking this and for God's sake I hope you're living in another country cause texting girls at 6 am is desperate

peace

yes man, Im living in Europe... thanks for caring... Here its 14:00h
And the time and place thing, alright, I could have done that, I normally do but this time I forgot. Anyway, if she had medium interest it would not have made a difference, dont you think?

Can you answer my questions please?
Im thinking that if she contacts me later on and I agree to go on a date tonight, I would be accepting second class behaviour from her. You know? she doesnt accept your date offer, so she keeps you hanging there, and even behaving like this, you end up rewarding her going on a date. Dont you think?

Im not really overthinking, it is just that I do not want to 'make mistakes' for the following girls.
Thanks.

 

[TheCWord]

Chatted for 1.5 hours

We talked for 10 mins

On Wednesday I just sent her a brief text wishing her a good autum day

Today Thursday I texted her just to ask how she was

Have you read nothing on this site?

 

[JBB84]

Its still early on and she could be playing some version of "not being too easy" ...girls have game too these days. I personally wouldn't go last minute, because you shouldn't be waiting around for her. Say that you committed to something else and offer another day and time. If she agrees, great, you have a chance to get to know her and win her interest over a bit more. If she doesn't agree to a different day/time, do not ask her to hang out again. Let her approach you about hanging out after that.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Dude, real talk - you're over-thinking this whole thing.

I agree with what Solomon said: always have a time a place ready in advance when you ask a girl on a date. More importantly, though, once you set the day and time for the date... DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN UNTIL YOU SEE HER ON THE DATE.

You already had her on the hook, guy - just the fact that she hit YOU up after 2 days of getting her number means she was DYING to hear from you... but then you fell for the trap of her saying "why didn't you contact me?" and thinking it meant you needed to contact her more. Nope - all that was doing was showing you her interest, which means what? It means that MAKING HER WAIT TO HEAR FROM YOU BUILT UP HER INTEREST - SO YOU KEEP ON DOING THE THINGS YOU DID TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN.

Notice how when you started doing the frequent contact thing that she started to respond to you differently? Never listen to a woman when she tells you what she thinks she wants - i.e more contact from you - 'cause they don't really have a good grasp on what attracts them.

Anyway... since YOU messed up by not locking this date thing down the first time you contacted her, don't get all pissy about her letting you know last minute when she can meet up for the date. That's YOUR bad, so take it as a lesson learned and show up for the date. Then, when you hit her up in a few days (read: no texting her tomorrow or the next day) to ask for another date, make sure you have a day, an activity, and 2 possible times picked out for her to choose from, then go ghost on her until the day of the date. Hope this helps!

 

[Skyline]

Have you read nothing on this site?

Was just thinking this.:crackup:

 

[Uncharted]

I didn't read because you said POF in the subject. You don't know this girl you are just a bunch of words and texts not a living breathing person - yet.

I use OKC to supplement girls I meet in real life. I get (an expect) a 60% flake rate. I actually DOUBLE-BOOK dates with these girls, because chances are one of them will flake! And if not, I cancel on the one I'm less interested in.

When I flake on them, either they lose interest (whatever) or their interest skyrockets. Then when I see them on the reschedule date they are ALL OVER ME.

Point is, don't get caught up over ONE online chick.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Met this chick in a salsa club. Danced two songs together, talked for 15 mins or so. She seemed pretty receptive. Got her number.

Next day I added her on fb cause I wanted to see some more pics of her before asking her out. She texted me to say that she accepted my friend request, and we exchanged some more texts.
Next day she said that she was gonna be at X salsa club (we both dance salsa) and that she would like to see me if im going there too.
I said I could not go cause I had other plans.

Next day (Monday) I texted her to set a date, she said that she had a trip because of her work until Saturday, but that we should keep in touch. I said ok. She asked me if I was gonna be on Sunday at X salsa club, I said maybe.

Sunday came and I went to this club. I saw her there, I just said hello and talked for 1 min before my friends came. I just went to talk to my friends. When we left the club 30 mins later, she was talking to some guy so I did not say bye or anything.

One week passed by. Today I text her, we talk for a bit, make some jokes. I suggest to go for a drink next Friday or Saturday. She tells me that shes gonna have her back teeth pulled out on Friday, but that she thinks she will be ok for Saturday.
I make some joke, and tell her ok if you are still alive we go to grab a drink next Saturday.
She says: lol, alright, we'll talk.


Now, what 's next?
a) I text her to see how she's feeling on Friday and to confirm the date.
b) I do nothing and see wif she texts me to confirm the date. Thx.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=2075514#post2075514

I met this HB7.5, 30 years old, single mom, some months ago during my salsa lessons. Then some months later I found her on a dating site. I said hello to her, we talked and I got her number.

Some days later she was going to a salsa club and she suggested to meet there.. When she saw me at the entrance she came to say hello to me and I noticed she was there with a guy. I asked and she said he was just a friend. Once inside this club, I noticed that this guy did not have any idea about salsa, so he was just sitting down the whole time with a boring expression on his face. Besides, you could say that these two had a negative vibe between them, they did not talk much and looked at opposite directions. Anyway, I danced with her a few songs, we chatted a bit etc. When I left the salsa club, she texted me to say that she really liked dancing with me and that she hoped we could meet again.

Some days later I texted her to set a date, she agreed. We went for a drink in the evening, she told me that she works in a 24h/7 supermarket, so sometimes she works in the mornings, or at nights, etc. She told me also that the guy from the club was her son’s dad, but that she is no longer in love with him since some time ago etc. I thought: ‘whatever, I just would like to bang you so that’s fine with me’ . Then she suggested to go for a walk, I kissed her, we made out a bit and we said good-bye.

Now, some days later I texted her to set another date, that was on Saturday. She said that she had to work at nights until Wednesday, so I said that Thursday night was ok for me, she agreed too.
Tuesday night I texted her to tell her the time and place for the date, she agreed.

BUT today, Thursday, she texted me this:
Her: Hey!! How are you? Im sorry to tell you that if we meet tonight I may fall asleep…hahahaha. I barely could sleep two hours today, and I need to rest. I hope it does not annoy you.
Me (20 mins later): Hi, its ok, get some rest. I’ll see you some other time.
Her: thanks for understanding!!! Zzzz, zzzz, zzzz….

Opinions please?
what do I do?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208212

Hi.

I just met this chick HB7.2 some months ago. We spoke one time for 2-3 minutes.
Then some nights ago I bumped into her in a club. We talked, I teased her a bit, we danced and I got her number. She lives in a village that is 40 minutes away from my city. She lives and works there. She teaches fitness in a public swimming pool in the evenings.I do not want to travel 40 minutes but she has a hot body and nice face so we'll see.

Anyway, two and a half days later I texted her in order to set a date, we had a small convo, she replied in no time, and here it is how it continued:

.
(small chitchat)
.
.
me: how old are you? 23? 62?
her: I wish...Im almost 25
her: hahaha, 62? my god, no!
me: good, because 62 is too much
her: yeah, its a bit too much
me: and are you single or seing someone?
her: single
me: aha
her: and whats your age?
me: Im inmortal so it doesnt really matter...
her: haha really? and how many centuries have you
been around?
me: Im 455, but I look like 28.
her: so you're 28? really?
me: you dont believe me?
her: well, I thought you were a bit younger, you look good
me: yes, I do
me: so, lets go to grab a drink sometime, shall we?
her: when?
me: let me check my agenda...
me: (today is wednesday) friday or monday is ok
her: bad days
me: why? what are good days then?
her: I mean that I cant make it on those days
me: I know, that why I ask what days are ok for you
her: I dont know yet, maybe sunday. It has to be monday right?
me: what?
her: you just told me that is either friday or monday, right?
me: yes
her: arrrff, and next week is holiday weekend
her: lets talk again and we'll see then
me: right, good night
her: oh, you going to bed? ok, good night


Im not planing on contacting her again. I think if she has any interest, she will contact me.
What do you think?

Thanks.

P.S.
On the other hand I also met a chick which is not as hot as this one but is ok, that is willing to meet with me any day. But shes not as hot as this oneeee
Im meeting with her next monday anyway cause she is a HB6.75, and reaaaaally wants to see me but, damn...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207313

Dude, including this one, you have made four threads about chicks and their lack of interest in you. Either one of two things are going here:

1) You're trolling.

2) You not taking and most importantly, you're not IMPLIMENTING that these guys are taking time out of their lives to give to you. Which is VERY DISRESPCTFUL! Also, by asking the same question over and over again, you've also shown that you haven't taken time out to read and study the material. (I.e. The DJ Bible, The Mystery Method, The Game, etc.

I know that you haven't read the material because all of these questions you have concerning a woman's interest level have been addressed and answered.

If you're not trolling, I suggest that read material on "Demonstrating Higher Value." Also by just going through one page of your posting history, the question isn't "Why is "x," chick losing interest, but rather it's, "What am I doing to cause women to lose interest in me?"

Here's some solutions I offer to your problem.

1) Stop spending so much time having mindless conversation on the phone with chicks. Remember, she's interested because she gave you a means in which to contact her, she likes, and she might actually want to f*ck you. This give you an advantage all of this mindless conversation is giving chicks the impression that you're needy and you have nothing else going on life your life. Chicks are like HR people in that HR people are looking for a reason not to hire you, chicks are looking for a reason not to f*ck you.

2) The phone is tool that should only be used as a means to setting up time in the near future to see her. NO PHONE CONVERSATION should last more than fifteen minutes. The longer you go over fifteen minutes, the likelihood increases that you've eventually say something that will turn her off.

3) Stop setting dates to go on dates. You need to immediately stop assuming that you're a woman's only or best option. You're one of many options. Women have a lot of sh*t going in their lives, and 7's and up have a lot of men trying to holla at them. By your posts you've shown that women are too readily to cast the date you made with them aside when a best offer comes along.

To remedy this problem do what Mystery'em did in "The Game". They started taking chicks on "insta-dates." They'll meet chick, get her interested, then bounce to other location. I've tried this and the sh*t works. As you go about your daily routine you need to have a list of places in mind you can take a chick if you were to meet one right then and there. Also it's on the insta-date that you go for the number close. If a chick is willing to go with you on an insta-date, it makes for a more solid number close.

4) Cats are going to disagree with me, but dude you're game is so f*cked up that I strongly suggest you do this. STOP TEXTING CHICKS! If you REALLY want to gage a chick's interest level only speak to her on the phone. This will force her to give you undivided attention, if she likes you, she'll willingly do it. Good luck.

 

[Solomon]

I didn't read because you said POF in the subject. You don't know this girl you are just a bunch of words and texts not a living breathing person - yet.

I use OKC to supplement girls I meet in real life. I get (an expect) a 60% flake rate. I actually DOUBLE-BOOK dates with these girls, because chances are one of them will flake! And if not, I cancel on the one I'm less interested in.

When I flake on them, either they lose interest (whatever) or their interest skyrockets. Then when I see them on the reschedule date they are ALL OVER ME.

Point is, don't get caught up over ONE online chick.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Uncharted again.

 

[Uncharted]

4) Cats are going to disagree with me, but dude you're game is so f*cked up that I strongly suggest you do this. STOP TEXTING CHICKS! If you REALLY want to gage a chick's interest level only speak to her on the phone. This will force her to give you undivided attention, if she likes you, she'll willingly do it. Good luck.[/B]

I used to think this way too, but if it's a girl I've just met, I ALWAYS set up dates through text. BUT - I don't have text conversations. That's just a waste of time for both of us. Send a hello what are you up to text. She responds. I ask out. The next conversation is the one we have on the date, unless she texts me a question that requires a response.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I used to think this way too, but if it's a girl I've just met, I ALWAYS set up dates through text. BUT - I don't have text conversations. That's just a waste of time for both of us. Send a hello what are you up to text. She responds. I ask out. The next conversation is the one we have on the date, unless she texts me a question that requires a response.

Here's the caveat between you and dude. Your game is HELLA BETTER than his. The impression that your making on the chick is such that she's compelled to return your texts, plus you're also following basic texting rules such as, "Don't Get Into Long A$$ Conversations via Texts."

The reason why I recommended to dude that he stops texting is

1) Texting is very impersonal and I feel it means absolutely nothing, kinda like getting a chick's number.

2) You have to assume that a chick is texting more than one person at once, probably the dude she is trying to suck and f*ck.

3) Dude's sticking point is

a) Successfully transitioning from male-to-female attracting to female-to-male attraction.

b) Accurately gauging a woman's level of interest.

c) Maintaining and increasing her level of attraction.

We all know that chick's often say sh*t they don't mean so a chick will agree to a date simply to placate your a$$ knowing damn well she has no intention whatsoever of actually going out on the date. If dude is doing all his interactions in the person or on the phone, overtime he'll be able to to get a better gauge on her sincerity. I feel that texting is at a higher level of game.

 

[pyros]

Dude, including this one, you have made four threads about chicks and their lack of interest in you. Either one of two things are going here:

1) You're trolling.

2) You not taking and most importantly, you're not IMPLIMENTING that these guys are taking time out of their lives to give to you. Which is VERY DISRESPCTFUL! Also, by asking the same question over and over again, you've also shown that you haven't taken time out to read and study the material. (I.e. The DJ Bible, The Mystery Method, The Game, etc.

I know that you haven't read the material because all of these questions you have concerning a woman's interest level have been addressed and answered.

If you're not trolling, I suggest that read material on "Demonstrating Higher Value." Also by just going through one page of your posting history, the question isn't "Why is "x," chick losing interest, but rather it's, "What am I doing to cause women to lose interest in me?"

Here's some solutions I offer to your problem.

1) Stop spending so much time having mindless conversation on the phone with chicks. Remember, she's interested because she gave you a means in which to contact her, she likes, and she might actually want to f*ck you. This give you an advantage all of this mindless conversation is giving chicks the impression that you're needy and you have nothing else going on life your life. Chicks are like HR people in that HR people are looking for a reason not to hire you, chicks are looking for a reason not to f*ck you.

2) The phone is tool that should only be used as a means to setting up time in the near future to see her. NO PHONE CONVERSATION should last more than fifteen minutes. The longer you go over fifteen minutes, the likelihood increases that you've eventually say something that will turn her off.

3) Stop setting dates to go on dates. You need to immediately stop assuming that you're a woman's only or best option. You're one of many options. Women have a lot of sh*t going in their lives, and 7's and up have a lot of men trying to holla at them. By your posts you've shown that women are too readily to cast the date you made with them aside when a best offer comes along.

To remedy this problem do what Mystery'em did in "The Game". They started taking chicks on "insta-dates." They'll meet chick, get her interested, then bounce to other location. I've tried this and the sh*t works. As you go about your daily routine you need to have a list of places in mind you can take a chick if you were to meet one right then and there. Also it's on the insta-date that you go for the number close. If a chick is willing to go with you on an insta-date, it makes for a more solid number close.

4) Cats are going to disagree with me, but dude you're game is so f*cked up that I strongly suggest you do this. STOP TEXTING CHICKS! If you REALLY want to gage a chick's interest level only speak to her on the phone. This will force her to give you undivided attention, if she likes you, she'll willingly do it. Good luck.

1. Im trolling? what the heck? I just post about my experiences. I have some good ones too but I do not post about them.

Ive read in this forum that guys get rejected A LOT. So lets say I meet 10 women, and 8 reject me at some point, its the normal way so why are you so surprised?

I can be doing some things wrong, thats ok, but I believe the main thing is these chicks were not interested, or had little interest. I does not mean a thing that they give me their number, you know? Of these four threads you say, I ended up making out with one of them, who had a lot of bad stuff going on (ex husband around, a small kid, work swifts etc)

Also Ive read some of the material you comment, and some other as well. What I see wrong in the way I do things, is that I should communicate/text less. However, I also posted about another girl that wanted to hang out with me but I was not very interested, so I rarely texted her, I even declined one date offer. So some days later I suggested to meet and she ended up flaking, so people here told me that it was because I did not communicate with her in a whole week and I just texted her to set up a date instead of asking how she was doing etc before asking her out. See? confusing advice here on this aspect.

Insta dates you say... right...I do not know ANYBODY that met her FB, FWB, or girlfriend this way. People normally get the number, they exchange some texts and agree to meet. The thing is that if you're dealing with a girl with low to no interest, it goes nowhere.

You say no phone conversations longer than 15 mins. Ok, I do not call, I normally text so...anyway, I know several guy friends that do talk on the phone for 15 or 30 (no more than this, though) and it does not mean they screw thing up, but ok.


As I said, I need to text less but I just texted this girl on Wednesday because as someone said above, she told me on Tuesday why I did not contact her the previous days, so I understood that I needed to contact her a bit more, you know? and I also did this because of this other girl I just mentioned before, the one that ended up flaking on me and (as I said) I did not want to make the same mistake again. But it seems it really depends on every specific girl/situation.

 

[pyros]

Dude, real talk - you're over-thinking this whole thing.

I agree with what Solomon said: always have a time a place ready in advance when you ask a girl on a date. More importantly, though, once you set the day and time for the date... DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN UNTIL YOU SEE HER ON THE DATE.

You already had her on the hook, guy - just the fact that she hit YOU up after 2 days of getting her number means she was DYING to hear from you... but then you fell for the trap of her saying "why didn't you contact me?" and thinking it meant you needed to contact her more. Nope - all that was doing was showing you her interest, which means what? It means that MAKING HER WAIT TO HEAR FROM YOU BUILT UP HER INTEREST - SO YOU KEEP ON DOING THE THINGS YOU DID TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN.

Notice how when you started doing the frequent contact thing that she started to respond to you differently? Never listen to a woman when she tells you what she thinks she wants - i.e more contact from you - 'cause they don't really have a good grasp on what attracts them.

Anyway... since YOU messed up by not locking this date thing down the first time you contacted her, don't get all pissy about her letting you know last minute when she can meet up for the date. That's YOUR bad, so take it as a lesson learned and show up for the date. Then, when you hit her up in a few days (read: no texting her tomorrow or the next day) to ask for another date, make sure you have a day, an activity, and 2 possible times picked out for her to choose from, then go ghost on her until the day of the date. Hope this helps!

Hi, this chick did not contact me today, so I guess I'll just go no contact.
Dont you think?

 

[Maximus Rex]

1. Im trolling? what the heck? I just post about my experiences.

Your experiences seemed to be peppered with the same questions.

I have some good ones too but I do not post about them.

Why? Considering that this sole purpose of this forum is to get better with women, don't you think it's selfish on your part to hold out information that others can be possibly helpful to others? Or is it possibly you don't have any good experiences to post? If you're successful with women, you should careless as to why a few inexplicably lose interest.

Ive read in this forum that guys get rejected A LOT. So lets say I meet 10 women, and 8 reject me at some point,

Actually those are pretty good numbers. Let's that you holla at ten chicks in a month about you get numbers from the other two. One flakes out on you, you f*ck the other one and you continually do this for a year. That's twelve new pieces of ass. A lot of dudes on this site would be quite happy if they knew they were going to f*ck twelve new chicks in a year.

its the normal way so why are you so surprised?

No, it's not. Everybody has to go through the learning curve and it's important to learn from those mistakes. Show a dude that's getting a lot of p*ssy, I'll show you a guy that has gotten shot down a lot.

I can be doing some things wrong,

You doing many things wrong:

1) Spending too much time on the phone with random strangers.

2) Asking the same question over again.

3) Not taking the advice given to you on the site.

4) Trying to figure out why one SPECIFIC chick lost interest, instead of realizing that it's something in YOUR behavior that's causing these women to lose interest in you.

I ended up making out with one of them, who had a lot of bad stuff going on (
ex husband around,

Strike One

a small kid,

Strike Two

work swifts etc

Strike Three

I should communicate/text less.

Why you adverse to talking to chicks on the phone?

However, I also posted about another girl that wanted to hang out with me but I was not very interested, so I rarely texted her, I even declined one date offer. So some days later I suggested to meet and she ended up flaking, so people here told me that it was because I did not communicate with her in a whole week and I just texted her to set up a date instead of asking how she was doing etc before asking her out. See? confusing advice here on this aspect.

Actually it's not confusing at all. If you built enough rapport with the chick she would have been happy to hear from you and would have went out with you. As I said before, you need to figure out why, how, and when women are losing interest in you, once you've figured that out, when you can work on remedying the situation.

Insta dates you say... right...I do not know ANYBODY that met her FB, FWB, or girlfriend this way.

Then go what your boys are doing and you'll eventually get a girlfriend.

People normally get the number, they exchange some texts and agree to meet.

Normally, guys don't go to online message boards seeking advice on women.[/b]

You say no phone conversations longer than 15 mins. Ok, I do not call, I normally text so...anyway, I know several guy friends that do talk on the phone for 15 or 30 (no more than this, though) and it does not mean they screw thing up, but ok.

However, texting chicks doesn't seem to be working for you. If you're going on job interviews and you're getting rejected for displaying low confidence in addition to being introverted, why would you continue to going into a job interviews displaying low confidence and in addition to being introverted? Seems to me that would only perpetuate your problem.

As I said, I need to text less but I just texted this girl on Wednesday because as someone said above, she told me on Tuesday why I did not contact her the previous days,

You should have told her, "Because, I have a life I'm leading. The important thing is that I'm calling you now. Besides, you have a phone, you could have called me. Anyway, you need to stop being difficult and naughty, what's up?

so I understood that I needed to contact her a bit more,

No you didn't. You contact chicks when you,

1) Feel like talking.

2) Are trying to set up a date.

you know?

No, I don't know.

and I also did this because of this other girl I just mentioned before, the one that ended up flaking on me and (as I said) I did not want to make the same mistake again.

Again, what are you doing to cause these to disrespect you and not take you seriously?

But it seems it really depends on every specific girl/situation.

Dude, I have serious approach anxiety. If come onto this site talking about how my approach anxiety is stopping me from talking to chicks. Everybody would tell me to strictly observe the 3 Second Rule and do a Newbie Drill. What you're experiencing is very rudimentary sh*t that doesn't require any specialized answer. Why Chick A isn't specifically going to be the reason why Chick B lost interest. The only common denominator is what YOU'RE DOING to cause the lack of interest.

 

[pyros]

Maximus Rex,

the majority of guys here do not post about successes.
Anyway, thanks for making me feel better really...lol
As I said, if I hit on 10 girls, and out of this ten 8 reject me at some point, you're saying that it IS BECAUSE I AM DOING SOMETHING WRONG, FOR SURE. Thanks for blaming me, nice. So it cant be just because they do not have any interest, or because they're *****es, or retarded in some way... and it would not make difference if I acted in a different way or not? I do think SOMETIMES this is the case.

I do not have long conversations on the phone with girls I just met, why do you say that over and over? I never mentioned anything about talking on the phone with any specific girl. Besides, I do not call them if I do not really know them, I text like many guys, unless its something crucial I need to tell them.

I read the advise ppl give me here and normally I try to implement it.

P.S.
Your experiences seemed to be peppered with the same questions.

Again, you think Im some kind of freak living in a cave with wifi and a laptop so I have nothing else better to do (apart from getting mushrooms and watching out for bears in the surroundings) than to make up stories? really?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Maximus Rex,
the majority of guys here do not post about successes.

1) Most of the guys on here are newbies that suck at hollerin' at women, therefore, they really don't have much success to speak.

2) F*ck what everybody is doing, it's you we're talking about. It's you with the maintaining the interest problem.

Anyway, thanks for making me feel better really...lol

You're welcome.

As I said, if I hit on 10 girls, and out of this ten 8 reject me at some point, you're saying that it IS BECAUSE I AM DOING SOMETHING WRONG, FOR SURE.[//quote]

Yes, because ten or more chicks are is a big enough of a sample to figure out what the common denominator is in the interest. Before I discovered, Louis and Copeland's How to Succeed with Women, The Tom Leykis Show, The Game, and American Pimp, I would get a chick's number and like clock work, she would inexplicably lose interest in roughly three weeks. That's a f*cking pattern dude. After I was exposed to the material I was to make necessary adjustments and I started to see different results.

Some chicks are wacky and they'll do some random ****, however, there's usually a reason why she stops f*cking with you. You claim that you're successful with chicks, maybe if you posted ALL of your interactions with women, you would probably start to see common denominators in your success and failures, or maybe somebody else would be able to point them out to you.

Thanks for blaming me, nice. So it cant be just because they do not have any interest, or because they're *****es, or retarded in some way... and it would not make difference if I acted in a different way or not? I do think SOMETIMES this is the case.

If that's the case you need to change the women you go after and the places that you frequent. Also you need to figure why you seem to attract retarded b*tches with little or no interest in you.

Besides, I do not call them if I do not really know them, I text like many guys, unless its something crucial I need to tell them.

Why do you have an aversion to speaking to women on the phone?


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Your experiences seemed to be peppered with the same questions.

Again, you think Im some kind of freak living in a cave with wifi and a laptop so I have nothing else better to do (apart from getting mushrooms and watching out for bears in the surroundings) than to make up stories? really?

I just found it rather odd that you were asking the same thing over and over. If you're successful with women, it isn't worth your time and effort trying to figure out why certain flake or lose interest.

 

[pyros]

Hi,

this girl hasnt contacted me. Last time was on Thursday, today is Sunday, do I contact her on, maybe, Tuesday? do I give her a second shot?


Thanks.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Hi,

this girl hasnt contacted me. Last time was on Thursday, today is Sunday, do I contact her on, maybe, Tuesday? do I give her a second shot?


Thanks.

I don't think that's your call to make any more tbh.

The ball sounds like it's firmly in her court.