i'll keep it as short as i can.
i've been seeing this plate for two or three months now. she's 21 and going to school in a college town. that makes it very convenient to crash at her place since i can go to parties, meet other girls but don't have to worry about where i'm gonna sleep if things don't pan out.
i met up with her two weeks ago and she was with two of her girl friends who for whatever reason didn't like me. they had been texting me from her phone the night before, with stuff like "come over tonight, you're missing out" and shlt. seems like they were testing to see if i was a "good BF" by making sure i would stop what i was doing to drive 40 minutes to see her.
of course i didn't, so the texting got more direct "come over and **** me"
i still didn't go, and responded with "we are hanging out tomorrow" which was the plan anyway.
we met up the next night, and she was with her friends drinking. they were giving me some serious attitude, and making her feel bad too. i pulled her aside and told her that i didn't come out to deal with a bunch of drama, i came out to see her and have a good time so she needed to either lose her friends for the night, or i'd leave. we had a good time after that.
next week i wanted to hang out with her but she responded saying "i'm hanging out with my friends tonight" which i took as an intentional diss, so i was ready to just drop her but she changed her mind a few hours later and sent me a picture of her in a sexy dress telling me to come over. i was already in town, so i went, and it was all good.
pretty much it seems like she doesn't want me hanging with her when she's with her friends because they don't like me. i'm fine with that, since i don't want to hang out with her friends anyway.
i hadn't said much to her between last week and last night, so when we met up she just talked and talked. she made a "funny" comment about her friends telling her i raped her.
hold up, wtf. yea, since she was already drunk when we hung out her friends said i raped her. she was smiling telling me the story, like clearly she didn't believe them, but it got me worried because if they can put these ideas into her head now, it seems like it's asking for problems down the road. just to clarify, she had been drinking, but was not drunk.
i kept a poker face and acted unfazed, but i'm wondering how to handle this.
i'm thinking instead of just dropping her it's better to tell her things aren't working out between us.
i need some opinions on this situation. seems kind of serious.
i've been seeing this plate for two or three months now. she's 21 and going to school in a college town. that makes it very convenient to crash at her place since i can go to parties, meet other girls but don't have to worry about where i'm gonna sleep if things don't pan out.
i met up with her two weeks ago and she was with two of her girl friends who for whatever reason didn't like me. they had been texting me from her phone the night before, with stuff like "come over tonight, you're missing out" and shlt. seems like they were testing to see if i was a "good BF" by making sure i would stop what i was doing to drive 40 minutes to see her.
of course i didn't, so the texting got more direct "come over and **** me"
i still didn't go, and responded with "we are hanging out tomorrow" which was the plan anyway.
we met up the next night, and she was with her friends drinking. they were giving me some serious attitude, and making her feel bad too. i pulled her aside and told her that i didn't come out to deal with a bunch of drama, i came out to see her and have a good time so she needed to either lose her friends for the night, or i'd leave. we had a good time after that.
next week i wanted to hang out with her but she responded saying "i'm hanging out with my friends tonight" which i took as an intentional diss, so i was ready to just drop her but she changed her mind a few hours later and sent me a picture of her in a sexy dress telling me to come over. i was already in town, so i went, and it was all good.
pretty much it seems like she doesn't want me hanging with her when she's with her friends because they don't like me. i'm fine with that, since i don't want to hang out with her friends anyway.
i hadn't said much to her between last week and last night, so when we met up she just talked and talked. she made a "funny" comment about her friends telling her i raped her.
hold up, wtf. yea, since she was already drunk when we hung out her friends said i raped her. she was smiling telling me the story, like clearly she didn't believe them, but it got me worried because if they can put these ideas into her head now, it seems like it's asking for problems down the road. just to clarify, she had been drinking, but was not drunk.
i kept a poker face and acted unfazed, but i'm wondering how to handle this.
i'm thinking instead of just dropping her it's better to tell her things aren't working out between us.
i need some opinions on this situation. seems kind of serious.