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    girl im not attracted to

    Don't let people set you up on blind dates that you don't want to go on.
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    I was about to set up a date this friday and her text turned me off

    She's just trying to get you to take her somewhere else, or get a reaction out of you. Disregard and take her to Cosi. Go in with a good mood - don't disqualify her already. If she brings up the "real restaurant" thing again just tease her. Worst case you have a bad date and a story to tell...
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    Questions on first Date (Fastest way to know)

    If I'm thinking LTR which I am normally not, but I guess always trying to qualify for: -Ask about her parents. See if she has a good relationship with her father. If not, this could be a red flag. -Ask what she likes to do with her friends. If it seems like all she does it go to bars/clubs -...
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    The guy who chases a ton of women...

    Easy - low effort. Whenever I meet a girl that's attractive and I'm interested I will ask her out early on. If she's not interested then I know right away. There is usually no effort or "worrying" what she will think. That guy just does it at a higher intensity. At least he's approaching women.
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    Hooking up with two girls that know each other

    Quick story - dated a girl for a month or two (Girl 1) , now dating another girl (Girl 2) that she kind of knows. They don't like each other. All in person conversation G2: Did you sleep with Girl 1? Me: We dated G2: Yes but did you sleep with her? Me: Why are you asking me this? G2...
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    Bieber Game

    Haha is this legit? He can easily do this without care though - there have got to be thousands of chicks hotter than Selema Gomez ready to throw their sh!t at Beiber and he knows it.
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    How do ugly guys get girlfriends

    Just charge it to the game. Sometimes I admit I get a little frustrated when I meet a chick that seems into me and she has a boyfriend, and a few weeks later I run into them and find out I'm WAY better looking. I remember in college one really hot chick seemed into me but she introduced me...
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    when you reject their LJBF attempt...

    Yes - once I completely pulled back and she changed her mind and we dated for a bit. 99% of the time I just ignore them forever and say a quick "hey" or whatever.
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    Starting to regret dropping a plate. Help me out.

    She already rejected you. She told you she was in a relationship. Next. You already told her to call you when they break up (something I always do). You never know - in a few months you might get a text or a call, but don't count on it. Time to find more chicks.
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    We both made out with the same girl.

    Are you serious? Why do you care so much? If me and one of my friends are interested in a girl, we see it as a competition to see who can F first. One chick banged my friend, then me, then my third friend, then back to my first friend - all within 4 months. She's definitely relationship...
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    How to smooth out schedules and keep it fun and not stressful for the girl?

    This is ALWAYS what I do - even for the first date. If she's interested she will give more than one day, then you can schedule.
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    What to do when your woman flirts with other guys in front of you?

    If she's just flirting, then I would start flirting with other girls too - but I'm usually already doing this and I don't get jealous easily. She has to know that she should not be doing this because it's unacceptable to you. IF THIS IS THE FIRST OFFENSE: If she's touching another guy in...
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    She got mad because of my response. What to do?

    First - why are you asking for a photo if it's your first date? Second - plow through - text her back, something like "hey im going to be about 15 minutes late tonight". See what she says back. If she doesn't respond, it's over. If she meets up with you - DONT BRING UP THE PHOTO. If she...
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    How do you communicate with non-talkative girls?

    You're forgetting something important. Who cares about her? You have the wrong mentality - you are trying to make her "open up" or "like you". Did you enjoy the date? It sounds like you didn't because you're here complaining about her. If you didn't have a good time, don't subject yourself...
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    If she never texts you is she not interested?

    Are you asking if she's not initiating is this a problem? Or does she not text you back? If she doesn't text you back and is not meeting up with you, she's not interested. If she's not initiating texts, it doesn't mean she necessarily doesn't like you. A lot of girls I've met are shy at the...
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    Mentored co-worker past couple years...

    Who cares what he said? Don't let it bother you. If your woman says something, just agree and amplify when she complains in a teasing manner. Don't change how you're acting and don't react to it.
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    Did I blow my chance?

    You're worrying too much. You just typed 5 paragraphs about this girl. Ask her out. Worst case scenario is that she says no. Then what? Who cares. Onto the next one.
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    How does "No Fap" help you get quality chicks?

    I never got this advice. It has no effect for me either way.
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    Is it wrong for me to be angry?

    Dude - don't get angry because girls love to have sex. That's a bad mentality. You're not settling for leftovers either. Also don't worry about your past. I found this site at 27 - some don't find it until much later. You are in your mid-twenties. There are SO MANY WOMEN available it's...
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    "We can still be friends"

    Whatever works for you. It's not about her, it's about you.
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