girl im not attracted to

joe45

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would you date or keep seeing a girl your not attracted to at all in physical looks. my parents introuce me a girl and i saw her pic and i was like umm nope. not my type looks wise and we know her through family friend
they saying her pic is just pic and in person might look better but i doubt it as why wyould u send a crap looking pic to me.

they push me to go meet her and see since they have a mindset they say she be the one and marry me and good girl, wont waste money, dont wear makeup and not party girl wont cheat and all this from one pic they believe they know a person just by looking at her lol . so whats so bad about girl wearing makeup they say its waste of money and will spend all my money and we wiull argue about money

also we are chinese and she chinese
 

Yewki

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Honestly, even if she looks unattractive in the picture, there's still a chance you'll like her in person... it's rare but it happens. Also, if you don't have a whole lot of experience with girls, you should probably take it just for the sake of experience anyways.

Generally I agree with you, but if you have no other plans might be worth your time.
 

DragonBlood

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Sounds self-defeatist. Go for the experience, maybe the lay if you change your mind. But above all dont ***** out of a free date.
 

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As I guy that passed up on opportunities like this from friends, I regret not doing this. Even if you don't like the girl, you need the experience. What happens if 6 months down the line, you meet a girl that you really like and you two have great chemistry but then you **** it up because you have no experience dating at all? You'll be kicking yourself in the balls all day and night that you ****ed up that opportunity.
 

Dgwizdal

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Some faces are not photogenic but look good in person. If she is a warpig - there's no mistaking that.

On the basis of the prior - I would go. Use it as practice and a catalyst for improvement in your game - you'll probably find that since you actually don't give a f*ck, your frame and game will be more on point than ever. Read up on tactics and field test them - hot/cold, push/pull, neg, hook, etc (assuming you're a rookie.)

Take that mentality and what you learned from the experience and bring it to the next date you land with someone.
 
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