Jariel said:
I think it's fair to say that I'm a very charismatic guy and when I engage women in conversation, I can really make the chemistry happen. But a lot of the time I come across girls who are hard work and don't know how to hold a conversation.
Usually, if a girl is hard to talk to and has no depth, I just next her and figure it's not worth my time. But some of these girls are hot, their actions indicate high interest and would be awesome to bang.
So how do you escalate with a girl who has nothing to talk about and is unable to keep a conversation flowing? It's just one of those barriers I've never attempted to overcome or worked out how.
Most who show "interest" and don't talk much may not be truly interested but for attention and may talk like crazy with some other dude or even their friends. But...
If hot AND you are 100% POSITIVE there's interest in you on their part but they aren't talkative it's most likely due to:
They are insecure and have only "communicated" with the opposite sex through their looks alone leading to their insecurity. (They only see guys as wanting them as fvck toys their whole lives).
You communicate with escalation and touch as well as more "telling them what to do". "come here" etc.
They also might be shy and if hot are used to only being felt up grabbed, kissed etc. so their "learned" communication "skills" are only "spoken" by them standing or sitting there expecting a dude to either do all the talking and then feeling them up etc.
Which most likely equals to them being fvcked in the head. So tread carefully.
There are cases of extremely hot chicks who are shy and are actually not bad chicks at all. Nothing like the above I'd mentioned. Maybe raised very strict or traditional especially if both parents have the same exact background or were born elsewhere but moved here even though their children were born here. (I know a lot of people of various ethnic backgrounds who the parents are both Italian, Portugese, Black, Hispanic etc. and they raise the kids properly.)
One example is a chick I know who's hot as hell. Portugese chick I think like 23-24years old. Legs azz face everything fine. Chick is a sweet heart. Word is she's a virgin too. A few dudes have talked about her and all know she's very quiet until she get's to know you.
I know her from just talking to her and her hot cousin who both work at my part time. Once they get to know you they talk like normal. So it depends.
You might want to ask what nationality they are and if their parents were born here etc. to start off and probe what kind of chick she most likely is.
If the parents are strict, if the parents came from overseas, etc. She may have been raised properly and by strict parents and is shy but also has her morals/religion (not bible thumping whackos. Just church going Catholic etc.) drilled in by her parents etc. so even if she likes you she's "afraid" or doesn't want to appear like some slvt with whatever was instilled in her mind by a good upbringing. These same chicks if hot get hit on a lot so they are also the types to be suspicious even if they like you that you aren't some dirtball like the rest.
They may open up eventually and go further if they like you enough and feel they can trust you.
. The other 90 percent of women chew my ear off with fluff talk while dancing which is distracting lol.
