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I would meet up with her. Worst case you have a beer with a girl that you're not really into and you never talk again. Who cares about the rating scale, if I'm attracted to her then yes I would. There are girls my friends thought were cute and I had no interest in, so that scale really...

Just as a follow-up, I got a text today from the girl asking if I was free next week so pulling back worked for me.

Yup no contact is for you to move on, not to "get her back". Sometimes attraction has an expiration date and it looks like it's already passed.

Nice work. I hope you just cut her off and never spoke to her again. She lied straight to your face.

If you get a smile from a cute girl, you HAVE to say hi. Otherwise, yes everyone is correct. If they look away they are probably not interested, looking down they are shy. Don't be afraid to make and hold eye contact. I do it all the time. Let her catch you looking. Then if she smiles or...

I don't think so. You are rewarding her for doing a great job. If you're buying a girl flowers to try to win her, then it's beta.

I think you should not care.

Here's what I would do: Remember how you feel right now at this instant. The next time you see a girl that you should approach and you start to hesitate, THINK BACK TO THIS MOMENT. Think how if you could have done it to this other girl you would have, and how much you regret doing nothing...

I've had this "problem" before. It's easy. Both game the girl, but you back off and play it cool. Let him text her all day and F it up. Then swoop in and get her out and sleep with her. My friends know any girl that we haven't exclusively dated (as in "girlfriend" title) are all fair game...

I'm in the same situation with a new girl, actually. I asked her out and she said she was going to be away, but didn't counter-offer. Haven't talked/texted since then. Right now I'm chalking it up to rejection as well, but if she reaches out I might try one more time. I usually give them two...

Sounds like she was having fun. Better than crying, or leaving.

This was the best thing I did last year when I first signed up. Helped a ton. All new guys should try to do it. It's like boot camp.

Don't be jealous because you have nothing to be jealous about. He's doing everything "wrong" and she doesn't see him as a sexual being. If you don't want her hanging out with him, just tell her you don't think it's appropriate for her to hang out one-on-one with a guy that has feelings for...

How is this weird? She's just being silly. Do what I do when a girl does silly things: Ignore her until she reaches out. If she doesn't... next.

Haha me too. I love it.

Plow through any questions or hesitations on her part, especially any sh1t tests. Don't act confident. Be confident. She is replaceable.

Sure, but only if I see them in person. I met a girl who flaked (and I nexted) then I saw her in person at a mall. She said she hadn't heard from me. So I said OK let's go out. We went on one date but she was boring, so I didn't pursue. I think it's OK as long as you don't waste a lot of...

This thread is awesome. I would normally comment that you should not date a coworker because then you see them all the time (especially fun when you fight). But dude - she lost a bet and had to buy lunch for someone. Don't get jealous of some other guy for that. Who cares what she does...

It sounds like she just needs a little space. Don't "next" her or NC her. Just wait a week and see if she reaches out. If she doesn't, contact her and see if she wants to do something. If she doesn't, THEN you can next her. You would not be worrying about this one girl if you had two more...

Yeah return it. It's not yours and it's not like you stole it so that you could talk to her. It's not a big deal to do something like this unless you make it a big deal in your mind.