Is this cool in any universe?

[thatfeel]

Is it cool in any universe that my gf bought lunch for some dude here at work and they're eating it together in her office. Age dynamics unfortunately dictate and limit how I can interact with her, given that I'm 23, and she is 49. This means she can't come back to my office for extended periods of time similarly, because people already know I've hit on her hard. But this other guy is 28 and a fat fvck.

Granted, he's a fat fvck. And she made a bet with him that someone would call in sick on a particular day and she lost(which is why she bought him lunch and now they're sitting in her office together laughing it up).

but still..

That + the fact that she always has these other beta orbiters around her age hanging around in her office all the damn time kind of rubs me the wrong way.

 

[Lotus Effect]

You don't ask us!

In fact you should not even be adressing this kind of sh*t mate!

If you are questioning this, is because deep down you know this sh*t is wrong! So there is no point on asking if this is "cool"!

It is unacceptable to you and that is what matters!

 

[Night-hawk]

As stated above.

It's harmless until you find a way for it to harm you.

Don't repress it though until later you decide to get all drunk and unleash your aggression with a fist through her cubicle. Haha.

 

[JohnChops]

wait your Gf is 49 and youre 23.... and you are mad because she is eating lunch with someone. are you sure you two are going out, lol seems like youre some kind of stalker here.

dump her, go for younger girls. why do you want some 49 year old girl ....

 

[papawapa]

whoop dee do

she lost a bet and had to pay up.

if you are a man this should not bother you, but since it is rubbing you wrong it tells me you are an insecure boy.

 

[Trixx]

What's the big deal? It's lunch. Don't be so insecure.

 

[thatfeel]

whoop dee do

she lost a bet and had to pay up.

if you are a man this should not bother you, but since it is rubbing you wrong it tells me you are an insecure boy.

this is what i needed to hear, thanks.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're Asking the Wrong Question

I'm 23, and she is 49.

Is it cool in any universe that you're f*cking with a chick that's 26 years your senior and she isn't paying you or accentuating your life in any way. This thread is also another why workplace romances are a . What this chick is doing is hella disrespect and call for an immediate checking, but how you going to correct this behavior without causing a seen in the office. You need to freeze her punk a$$ out.

 

[thatfeel]

Is it cool in any universe that you're f*cking with a chick that's 26 years your senior and she isn't paying you or accentuating your life in any way. This thread is also another why workplace romances are a . What this chick is doing is hella disrespect and call for an immediate checking, but how you going to correct this behavior without causing a seen in the office. You need to freeze her punk a$$ out.

Haha, yeah you're right, I wish I could call for an immediate checking right then and here. But. Office dynamics + age difference = big no no to do that. I already know if I bring it up later I'll simply get childish remarks. What do you suggest Maximus Rex?

 

[tomtom16]

Since this is in the Don Juan section of the forum, I will address the situation from that aspect of things. First of all, jealousy has nothing to do with the other person. If you feel jealous, it means that you don't feel you are worthy enough of keeping her. If she is 49, I am willing to bet that the jealousy of a 23 year old will eventually grow tiresome. Having lunch or chatting with men doesn't mean she wants to be with those men. If you are the man who fulfills and provides what she needs, you won't have to worry about a thing.

 

[DragonBlood]

She is 49 What are you DOING??????

This women can never take you seriously, it sounds like you dont either. Bro at your age 30 is the absolute highest you should be hitting. I dont know how you can feel jealous, this women is lucky to even have a murmur of your attention.

Whats going on here? Why are you not spinning/approaching?

 

[Uncharted]

This thread is awesome.

I would normally comment that you should not date a coworker because then you see them all the time (especially fun when you fight).

But dude - she lost a bet and had to buy lunch for someone. Don't get jealous of some other guy for that. Who cares what she does? She's just a silly girl.

Get over it.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Rex Doesn't Know

Haha, yeah you're right, I wish I could call for an immediate checking right then and here. But. Office dynamics + age difference = big no no to do that. I already know if I bring it up later I'll simply get childish remarks. What do you suggest Maximus Rex?

I really don't know what to advise, because this can be a potential cluster f*ck for you. All it takes is for her to start feeling some kinda way and report you to H.R.

I suggest that you ask nismo-4 or one of the other mods, PrettyBoyAJ, PlayerHer Man, or you write Harry Wilimington at www.stoplosingwomen.com, he might address your issue on a future podcast.