You need to figure out the answers to some questions to know this...
Do you consider yourself in the same league as these women? If she's a 7 or an 8, do you consider yourself to be a 7 or an 8? And if you don't does your game increase your desirability to that level?
Well I figured I was in their league or they wouldn't have agreed to go out with me in the first place. I also know that I have dated "out of my league" a couple of times but not lately. It's like I had a time where every girl I was dating was easily one or two levels above me, but now lately I'm having a hard time with girls equal to or a level or two below me. It's like I forgot wtf I was doing or something, like I lost my touch and I can't get it back to save my life. I don't THINK my game has decreased, but perhaps it's slipped and I didn't realize how bad? My game shines if a girl gives me an opening to show it, I have never had tight enough game to pretty much kick the door down if you know what I mean. If I can get my foot in the door, she's mine and eating out of my hand. It's getting to that part that's been the problem.
Has she expressed any interest in you at all? If she has how have you responded? Some women don't give men many opportunities to escalate because they want a guy who shows maximum interest. If she flirted back or got extra touchy one night and you failed to escalate, her interest level may permanently drop because you didn't go out and get the prize when she offered it the first time.
Well the first date we went on there was SOME light kino, but nothing out of the ordinary. The weird thing was at the end of the date I went in for the kiss and she turned to give me her cheek. That was a bad sign to me but I thought whatever. The weird thing is she contacted me several times after that first date. Initiated contact, I didn't. Problem is the second date she did the same d@mn thing, went in for the kiss, she turns away. That's when I said in my mind "fvck this broad".
What type of activities is she inviting you to do? Is she asking you to come walk her dog with her or to clean her garage? Or is she asking you to go out with her to a party or club or bar? If she asking you to do menial tasks with her, then she isn't interested in banging you, but if she is asking you to go out to a bar together, then there may be hope that she wants to drink with you and let things happen.
Well we've only been out twice, and the second time she asked me to come out to a bar with her friends for her friends birthday. Her friends all liked me (except one I think, but this girl was a h0ebag and hanging all over random guys all night). The rest of her friends actually talked to me all night and even talked me up in front of her. We had a good time, danced, drank, all that. Problem was at the end when I went for the kiss she turned away.
Finally...why is she telling you that you can still be friends? I'm assuming these aren't women who were your girlfriends so why is this conversation coming up? If you are telling these women how much you like them and want to be with them then you have lost the game before it began. Women don't like when you show your hand so early, it makes you look desperate and clingy. Flirt with them, use kino, and escalate sexually whenever possible, but never tell them about your feelings for them and your intentions, let them think that you're just a fun guy and they will want more. If you spill your guts out they're going to back off.
