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I have to agree Knicknack. Time and time again I read the advice "stop worrying about what she wants, how about what YOU want for a change?"...this is one of the main points about not supplicating. The fact that she is a single mother is actually irrelevant in retrospect. The proper...

Why though? I see guys getting used all the time. I have been one of them before too. So I figured I might as well abandon all the pretenses to ethics and just start taking what I want.

I've seen this topic come up a few times before. I have no desire whatsoever of becoming "involved" with a girl that has a kid, but I am in somewhat of a dilemma over this girl who wants to go out next week. She is really hot, but has a daughter. I have this vague premonition about single...

I think part of your problem was being hesitant, whereas he asked her out on the second day. Even though you still got a bit of action, in her mind she probably perceives him as the more aggressive (i.e. manly) one. We've all had this problem at one time or another. Women, especially in her...

I think the salient point is this: modern men need to learn to go with their instincts. Millions of years of evolution made these instincts what they are, and we're allowing a bunch of ivory tower academics to condition us against them? It's cultural emasculation, and I see it manifested...

There's really only two good reasons to hang out on a regular basis with female friends: the social proof factor around other girls, and being introduced to her girlfriends.

What's so surprising about that? I've known girls who go on dates with guys they don't like, just to get a free dinner. As for buying them drinks, you can get the same result much easier by just dropping a five dollar bill into the toilet.

I don't know, I don't think it's a good idea to ask about a girl's status first. It comes across as "I might get the guts to make a pass at you, if you give me your tacit consent first". A man goes after what he wants, and if she has a serious borefriend she'll tell you after you've made a...

...or hide the keyboard, or something. This is my variation of people who make sloppy phone calls to ex-girlfriends when they're drunk. If tying one on at home I have this ridiculous tendency to write emails! Oddly enough I can still write pretty well when drunk, I just later hate what I say...

Damn I thought I had been out with some nutjobs, but this one makes them look sane. For the sake of all men you need to get away from this one. Why bother trying to "make it work" with someone like her? It's like the concept in Frankenstein - he slaved away, surmounting all these barriers to...

Well if you want, get together with her again sometime, but definitely make it sound like you have an unexpected opening in your busy schedule. If she pulls that c0ck-teasing game again, bounce her off to Nextville.

Don't bother with these ****-teases. Sounds like she is using a lot of ASD (Anti Slut Defense) to compensate for her former slutty reputation. Chances are she likes getting your attention though, so I'd quit giving her any. After a while it might start to bug her enough that she comes on strong.

I'm interested in the suggestion of calling her in a week. Why should I a) call her at all and b) apologize for not doing it sooner? I thought both of those things are contrary to everything DJ. The ball is in her court for good or bad. She hasn't called yet, and I don't really look for her...

I hope you keep that in mind when you have dinner with her. She may not know what she wants, but I'll take a stab at it. She wants attention, she wants to have her ego stroked. When you told her it was over, it did not go the way she wanted. Now she is craving that attention and ego...

I'm in a similar situation, though this chick only had a BF for 5 months so it wasn't long term. She is needy though, so had assumed it to be more than it was. I finally went out with her on Saturday even though I knew the whole rebound risk was there. I'm going to try and go out with her...

I went out with this chick last week, had fun, thought it went pretty well. Took her home and she passed the kiss-test with flying colors. So anyway I called her early this evening with the idea of setting up a second date sometime this week. She answers and is sounding all cheerful, we talk...

Yeah, we went bowling. Usually I have good luck with this sort of action date, but the place was dead, so I didn't get quite the same effect. Usually I at least kiss them by the second date. I think my inaction with this one is due to a combination of factors: I moved too quickly with another...

Don't call a girl when she tells you to. You have other things going on and are too busy to call at her convenience. "Maybe" is usually ******** for "no." I'd stick her on the back burner. If you're still interested in her, give her another chance in a week or so.

It's most likely ASD. I wouldn't discount her immediately. I have complained about this sort of thing to my sister (one of the only females I will accept advice from) and she insists that a lot of girls are almost methodical about what they will do and at what point in dating. Some of them...

I have to agree with those who say AIM kills mystery. I use it fairly often to talk with friends who have moved away (beats paying for long distance calls anyway), and have talked to girls quite a bit too. I can almost physically feel my level of mystery declining when I talk to girls online...