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I have been on 5 dates with this woman (been dating others too, naturally), and we've made out on 4 of those dates. The most I have been able to do so far is get my hand in her panties and feel her up pretty good. She won't let it go any further though. She wants to do something in a few...

If these pheromones are supposedly natural, shouldn't your body be producing them already?

Well, it's not all as bad as you think. My sister knows a guy who didn't get laid until he was 32. I'm 25 and I wouldn't classify any of the girls I have messed around with in the past as "serious", even though I might have thought so when I was 18. In fact I'm in a position now where I have...

One of my friends, basically a natural when it comes to women, went through a few periods where he was sexually involved with unappealing women. I was always perplexed by it, because he usually had attractive girlfriends. He tried to explain it to me, basically boiling down to maintaining...

Call it fatalistic if you want, but all life on Earth can be summarized as competition between genes. Humans are no different. We can attach a lot of lofty notions to it if we want, but really our drive for success, one-upmanship, etc, all boils down to a subconcious desire to make sure our...

Raising some other man's kid? That's negative Darwinian fitness!

ZeeOwl has some good advice. Keep contact minimal from now until your date. I have met a few online girls before, and if I talked to them too often before our first meeting, it just felt like things got too "familiar" and that feeling usually carried over to the real world. Mystery works well...

I find that, in general, women are much more banal and uninteresting from an artistic or intellectual point of view. Most human advancements throughout history began as highly abstract concepts in the minds of a few brilliant men. I am almost beginning to think there is something evolutionary...

Just don't act as if age has any bearing. She will probably have some insecurities about that, so all you need to do is defuse them and make her comfortable. I'm 25 and one of the women I have been seeing lately is 38. Another one is 32. Both of them early on made some comment like "I was...

I don't rely on email. I have met several girls from there, and hooked up with a few of them. This is the first one to go beyond a few initial emails, and I don't see the point of an endless email exchange. If she were interested she would've at least made some kind of reference to my...

I have talked to a few girls from online, from match.com, and thought I would see if you guys have any techniques for gauging IL through email. Obviously the purpose of email should be to get her number, so that you can more properly setup a real date. But I think you can sometimes tell before...

As an update, she sent me an email that same night, but I did not see it until the following day. In the email she basically showers me with compliments, telling me how attractive I am (3 times), that I am intelligent, easy to converse with, etc, etc. She also said "I was just giving you a...

How about "Hi, what's your name?" Pickup lines are so cheezy, don't be that guy!

The oldest woman I have dated is 38. That's a bit older than I prefer, but she looks good. I like to be stimulated more than just physically, and older women tend to have an air of class and intelligence that is lacking in the typical 20 year old moron. Anyway, they don't all have saggy...

Young girls are excruciatingly banal. I'm 25 and prefer them to be no less than one year younger, but preferably older. I've been out with a number of 20-22 year old girls in the past few months and it only confirms my opinion that the older ones are better. I did get a pretty good lay from...

Don't call/text/email anymore. You've made enough effort, if she is interested let her contact you. I was talking to this really cute girl recently, somehow the conversation got onto bowling, and I suggested we should go bowling sometime. She said she would like that and gave me her number (I...

No that's the point, I -wasn't- an AFC and she tried to bust my balls because of it. She kept talking about "not being into games" and all the other inane crap they say, but she seemed genuinely offended that I put my external priorities first. What the hell does she expect, a marriage...

Tonight I had my third date with this woman, we made out on our second date and also on this one. But during the makeout session, she surprises me with a question along the lines of "so why are you interested in seeing me?" and I said because I enjoy her company, but she pries a bit more and I...

Hey guys, in addition to the more usual approaches, I have been having some fairly good luck with sites like match.com lately (few makeout sessions and a lay). I am curious though if the rules of the telephone should also apply to IM. I am talking to a few who expressed interest, initiated IM...

I can identify with you too well. I am 25 and my mom still expects me to call home every day, even though I have lived on my own for a few years now. I know she doesn't mean any harm, and is concerned about my well-being and all, but I just can't call home to mommy every night obviously, lol...