Getting the Sophisticated "Older" Woman

[intel200]

Im 23, she has a son that is 23 or something. When we talk, there is usually lots of smiling and grinning. She is stunning, seriously. We share interests such as travel, learning new languages, and investing. She has hinted that we should travel together one more than on occassion. She says she travels "alone" so I figure she isnt seeing anyone. I think there is potential for me to atleast ask her out. Any advice before I proceed?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by intel200
Im 23, she has a son that is 23 or something. When we talk, there is usually lots of smiling and grinning. She is stunning, seriously. We share interests such as travel, learning new languages, and investing. She has hinted that we should travel together one more than on occassion. She says she travels "alone" so I figure she isnt seeing anyone. I think there is potential for me to atleast ask her out. Any advice before I proceed?

Respect, romance and affection will work wonders....

 

[intel200]

Im gonna ask her out today if she says she is free this weekend. I will keep ya posted....

 

[ZeeOwl]

Yep. Francisco has it right on. And no game playing. They don't dig that anymore at that age. Think it's immature.

 

[BobbDobbs]

You can be more direct. Also, she might hestiate because of the age difference. So her IL might be high but when really asked she might balk. I'd say in that case it is okay to try again a few times. Break down her resistance.

 

[NewMan]

Great advice.

 

[Halo]

Just don't act as if age has any bearing. She will probably have some insecurities about that, so all you need to do is defuse them and make her comfortable. I'm 25 and one of the women I have been seeing lately is 38. Another one is 32. Both of them early on made some comment like "I was afraid you would think I am too old for you", but I just blow it off by saying I don't pay any attention to age. Throwing in a little C+F at that time helps a lot too. Anyway good luck with it. You'll find they're much more interesting than the typical moron in her early 20s.

 

[GirlCrazy]

Older women seem to have this fantasy about teaching the young inexperienced guy "the ropes". You should play into this fantasy and make little comments about how much she could teach a young buck like yourself.

 

[Dell SkyCat]

Let her think it's okay. After all, It is a good thing. There's rapport and compatablity between the both of you. Just 'accidentally' turn on the E! and let her see Demi with her young devil Ashton Kutcher ... and AFTER that... Let her have the lastest gossip on Justin Timberlake and Cameron diaz..

But seriously, I highly suggest you go for it! Keep us posted. I'm very interested to know how it will progress GOOD LUCK!

 

[toot86]

forget. It

When you threw in the word Sophisicated infront of the "OLDER"

I knew you were a guy that just was happy to get what he could ..

Strive for perfection dont settle for less ..

I can tell you right now the girl is going to go gag ga over you..

you are probally good looking and very succesful.. But just dont want to challenge yourself to get younger pus

.

 

[Dell SkyCat]

Go for it Intel!I wouldn't do it ONLY for the pus though, I say go for it because you mentioned you can both talk about these things that interest you both. Ofcourse you can do the same with any other women your age range. But If you only want to some go ahead, make Stifler's mom happy.

I'm curious now how much of an age difference is there between you 2?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Halo
I'm 25 and one of the women I have been seeing lately is 38. Another one is 32. Both of them early on made some comment like "I was afraid you would think I am too old for you", but I just blow it off by saying I don't pay any attention to age.

I use to get into the same conversation with older women. I usually tell them with a wink, not to worry and that I was sure that I could keep up with them.

Stroking their ego while giving them the nod that they could open up and NOT act their age always did well for me.