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Tonight I went out with this chick for the second time. She's one of the hottest girls I have been out with, but I know you should treat them all the same. A few weeks passed between our dates, due to a variety of things, so in some respects it felt almost like another first date. We didn't...

Well, I bit the bullet and called her today (5 days later). Got her voice mail again, so I figured what the hell and left a message. No response so far. I didn't have anything to lose really. I went out with a hotter chick tonight so I don't care too much :).

If she's younger than the age of consent then you can definitely get into trouble. Be careful man! Also never underestimate the vindictiveness of females. If your relationship ever sours she can easily use this against you.

First of all, I hate leaving messages. I hate talking on the phone in general, and hate talking to a recording even more. But considering I had been on a few dates already with this girl, and she usually responded to messages pretty quick, I was getting somewhat more comfortable with it. We'd...

I guess my gut feeling was right with this one. We had previously talked about going to this art fest going on this weekend, so I called her Thursday and got her voice mail. I left a message telling her to call me and we'd check out the festival one night. Still nothing back from her. She...

I say there's a flip side to the argument that you need to have game -before- meeting online girls. In fact, I think the opposite is true for most people. Online girls are useful for developing skill in the first place, that is later useful with girls in the "real world." There's the...

Last night I went out with this girl who I've been out with a few times before. We've kissed a lot but that's all. Anyway after our date last night, I asked if she'd like to come in for a few minutes, but it was already late and she had a long drive so she declined. We kissed some, and I felt...

The phone is always crappy for me, so I try to use it very minimally. My take on your questions: don't call twice in the same night, don't call when she tells you to (you're a man afterall, not her lapdog), and if she has high IL it's probably because you DON'T make yourself so available...

Sartre's "Humanism of Existentialism" is one of the most influential things I have read. Some call existentialism bleak, but Sartre points out that it is the contrary. Your "destiny" depends on you and you alone, and adopting that attitude right there is the mark of men. Before, I was one of...

Mary's boyfriend may not treat her well, but he evidently pushes some emotional buttons, and for women it's all about "feeling", even if it happens to be negative. It's also possible that he shags her quite well, so she's willing to put up with all his undesireable qualities. I'd just show...

I am sort of a telephone-phobe myself. This isn't really just relating to girls, I just hate using the phone in general. I much prefer a face-to-face meeting whenever possible. But, since calling girls is a necessity, I will echo what another poster wrote in another thread. Stand up and pace...

An update: I never responded to her email asking if we could reschedule, and didn't call or anything either. Tonight she sent me another email reiterating how sorry she is, and saying she hopes I will let her make it up to me. I'll let a little more time go by and respond to her, but I will be...

Just be sure they are made for the prevention of disease and pregnancy. Some of the "novelty" rubbers aren't specifically made with that in mind, so I would be leery of them. I prefer to use a brand that is made in the USA also. I am just skeptical of quality control in places like China or...

No, she's 32. A fair bit older than me. Also, in her email she said she wants to reschedule, and asked me to call her. I just will not do that. She cancelled, yet I am supposed to be the one calling to reschedule? I think not.

Well, I called her yesterday to see what time she was wanting to have dinner tonight. Got her voice mail so I reluctantly left a message. She never called back, instead she sent an email earlier today saying she would have to cancel because her sister needed a babysitter. She said she...

Frat parties aren't the place to meet anyone period. Unless you just really enjoy drinking warm Natural Light. When I lived in the dorms we always had way better parties than any of those jock straps were throwing. I guess it depends on what you want. You'll definitely find physically...

I really understand both positions on this issue. When she first mentioned to me that she was going out with some other guy, I immediately thought that I might be descending into the Friend Zone. On the other hand, I didn't want to act pissy about it because I thought that would come across as...

Well, I agree it's not weird to let someone know where you're going and who you're going with, but I do think it's a bit odd to choose someone you just went on a date with a few days before as your "confidant", so to speak. I am leaning towards thinking she wants to test/raise my interest. If...

I met this girl through match.com and went out with her a few days ago for the first time. I had a good time and I thought things went pretty well. We talked about going bowling next week maybe, and at the end she was saying something like "we should do this again sometime" (whether genuine or...

The thing is, I have been in her apartment (or she in mine) on all but the first date, making out on the couch. I've had my face in her breasts and my hand in her pants, all of which she seemed to quite enjoy. That's why I am a bit perplexed, and starting to think she's trying to use sex as...