SOS save my mind

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Hello Dj Masters
I have a weird situation. There are 2 woman that I know, one will be Mary and the other will be names Scarey "which she is". Anyway I want Mary but she has a serious Boyfriend, who doesn't treat her good. Well Mary told me that if it wasn't for her boyfriend me and her would be f-ing. Well Mary does all the stuff like responds well to my Kino, laughs at my jokes seems happy around me, even has told me that she is in to me. Now she will invite me over for parties etc but her boyfriend is there but her friend Scarey is also there. Now why would she invite me to a party when her boyfriend is there? Well I refused to go with her boyfriend there. So then she would invite me when her boyfriend is not there but Scarey would be there. Now I guess some people will say if Mary wanted you then she would dump her boyfriend for you. Well He supports her and I don't have the means to support her.


Now a friend of mine suggested that maybe Mary is trying to set me up with Scarey. Now Mary never said why don't you go out with Scarey. Scarey never seemed to be interested in me and i didn't ever pick up signs that she was now she will seem friendly to me a little but that's about it. So the question is what the heck is going on here? Is it possible that Mary is trying to set me up with Scarey? Mary knows I want her and that Scarey scares me and that i would never go out with scarey. What is going on here?



Another thing is when Mary told me she wanted to do me up Brooklyn Style aka have sex She said I told Scarey. Then when she told me she was into me she also said I told Scarey and she can see my point. Then She told me " I was telling Scarey that the only thing i will miss when I leave is being around you". Now why in the heck does mary always say I told Scarey when ever she tells me she wants to f me or is into me or that she will miss me??? to me this makes no sense, am i missing something here?


Now I have not seen Mary for a month now. Now all of a sudden Scarey says to me that her and Mary was at the place we work at. Now I didn't know if that was some kind of hint for me to start whinning and say why didnt she call me so i can see her when she came in. Which in my past I sure would of been whinning. But I kept it under control and just said oh really and changed the subject. Then the next day that I seen Scarey she said me and Mary tried to call you the other night but Mary lost your number so I have to get it again. Is this anything or not??



If this is all ******** then more power to you masters. I am clueless even after reading the bible . So please help me out.
 

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Um.. Mary has a BF and you haven't seen her for a month. NEXT.
Scarey may have IL but if she scares you then.. NEXT.
 

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Mary's boyfriend may not treat her well, but he evidently pushes some emotional buttons, and for women it's all about "feeling", even if it happens to be negative. It's also possible that he shags her quite well, so she's willing to put up with all his undesireable qualities.

I'd just show up to one of her parties with another chick and make a point of talking to as many chicks there, whilst giving minimal attention to Mary.
 

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Originally posted by HuggyBear
Well Mary told me that if it wasn't for her boyfriend me and her would be f-ing.
My experience has told me to STAY AWAY from girls like this.

Think for a minute. Why would she say this to you?

STAY AWAY

She must not really want you that bad, or that boyfriend would be history.

STAY AWAY.

No, she enjoys the little image in her head of her being a s1ut.

STAY AWAY.

She probably is attracted to you, but you are probably nothing special to her.

STAY AWAY.

Most importantly, she is still in the drivers seat.

STAY AWAY.

Women usually can't make up thier minds. This is not an insult, it is the TRUTH.

STAY AWAY!!!

She will jerk you around, and you will pass up opportunities with other women.

PURSUE HER AT YOUR OWN RISK!!!

If you (by some strange miracle) make yourself into a guy that would be able to 'get her' in some way; then you would be able to get better women.

n-n-n-n-NEXT
 

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Re: Re: SOS save my mind

Originally posted by icepick
My experience has told me to STAY AWAY from girls like this.

Think for a minute. Why would she say this to you?

STAY AWAY

She must not really want you that bad, or that boyfriend would be history.

STAY AWAY.

No, she enjoys the little image in her head of her being a s1ut.

STAY AWAY.

She probably is attracted to you, but you are probably nothing special to her.

STAY AWAY.

Most importantly, she is still in the drivers seat.

STAY AWAY.

Women usually can't make up thier minds. This is not an insult, it is the TRUTH.

STAY AWAY!!!

She will jerk you around, and you will pass up opportunities with other women.

PURSUE HER AT YOUR OWN RISK!!!

If you (by some strange miracle) make yourself into a guy that would be able to 'get her' in some way; then you would be able to get better women.

n-n-n-n-NEXT

I have a funny feeling you are implying to stay away from her:D .
I think what i was looking for is whether to believe her or not. I have been screwed over so so many times. I never trust anyone and I am trying to change. I made a fool of myself with her already when she told me she wanted me i said you are a lier and argued with her. I feel real dumb.
 

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you shouldnt be trying to change anyone
 

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Originally posted by dbot
you shouldnt be trying to change anyone

I Meant changing myself, not her.
 

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Ok sorry about this analize **** but but but but. This Mary broad just called me, after not talking to her for a month. She asked me to come over now i didn't go "obviously or i wouldn't be here to ask this". I wanted to go bad but I think i did the right thing by not running over there. anyway we talked for a while and she mentioned her daughters birthday party was Sunday and asked me to come and she said "Scarey Will be there" I said what does she have to do with anything. She just ignored me and talked about other things. So she just said when are you going to come and see us had her daughter get on the phone and ask me when am i going to come to see her and yada yada. Now like I said in my orignal post in this thread I once was told by somebody that Scarey has a crush on me. I went to Mary to ask her and I basicly was freaking out becuase Scarey is a nice person but she is a negative -10000000 on a scale of 1-10. Mary Laughed and said that if Scarey had a crush on me she would be the first to tell me because she knows how that would freak me out.I AM SCARED OF SCAREY!!!!! Can Mary be trying to set me up with scarey? She never says why don't you go out with Scarey. I know one thing somebody will say is she has a kid you don't want that well i don't care i like the kid.



Ok now tell me if I am grasping a straws here. Now I know woman remeber everything, But Mary is like call me sometime you still have my number right. anyway she gave me her number and i gave her mine months ago in a resturant when we was out eating. Now I said I never had it and she said yeah remeber we was at such and such resturant and i had this receipt that i wrote it down on etc etc. she rembered every detail. Now is this good for me or is this nothing?
Please Please Please help me out with this





Ok this next line should be in the bible!!!
"If you run into Scarey don't date her touch her or look at her!!!"
 
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