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Right there that told me she wasn't interested in you. Women make sure they pay their portion when they seriously don't want to imply ANY obligation on their part. And they only do that when they're totally not interested. So her subsequent yapping continually on her cell to avoid you comes...

That was the first mistake. Don't ask them out when you meet them. Just get the number. What happened after that is hard to say, but it seems to fit the type of woman who leads you on to get attention strokes but not ever really meaning to go out with you. And so I suspect that her "are we...

By "managing", I mean managing yourself concerning the woman's ups and downs, not managing the woman herself. That is to say, in your particular case Juando, a woman who has some moodiness. Not a head case like Jophil may be describing! So "managing" is simply like knowing what dance steps...

But the first several dates are not about seeking to avoid activities she may find boring. It's about seeing if she's flexible and willing to go along with your date ideas in order to be with you. It's a weeding out process. It's okay if she's thinking, "Baseball? That's boring! But he is...

The majority of divorces are initiated by, and relationships terminated by, women, not men, so it's not like that this is a guy thing. But hey look: First, she told you she couldn't date you because she was busy. Then she told you she couldn't date you because she as walls from 3 LTRs. So that...

You didn't get the messages because she actually didn't leave any. Maybe she didn't even really call. If a woman says to me, "we're spending too much time together" or anything like that, I immediately disappear and make her wish come true. Then I don't bother returning calls or emails because...

It doesn't matter if she likes baseball or not. This is one of your first dates with her, in which you're evaluating her as a compatible person, and the idea is to see if she wants to be with YOU and go along with YOUR ideas. If she objects to going to a game for a few hours with you on a...

She's not on Anti-Depressants, is she? Red Flag if she is. If she's got a generally negative outlook, it could be the product of a depressed mind. Depressed people filter things in the negative. They can bring you down. Stay away from them and find emotionally healthy people to be surrounded...

You met her Sunday, escalated to having sex that night, she stayed overnight, you asked her to "call you later", and as of Wednesday, which was just a couple of days later, this included a "long string of text messages" and a "really great phone conversation". So my question is, what do you mean...

Odds are she's letting you down. I say that because in her conversation telling you how her manager was standing nearby and how they're not permitted to give out contact info and how they're so busy tonight and yadda, yadda, she could've just simply rattled off her digits instead. Also, if she...

I hoped you used condoms, and then after their use, destroyed them and their contents, because she may have been looking just to get pregnant and, coming upon your Facebook and remembering you being the AFC type from high school (I'm guessing), said things to turn your head and secure what she...

Everything you've written signals that this relationship should be put to rest. From her disclosure that when push comes to shove, she'll cheat rather than be upfront and end things honestly to her now mentioning her interest in another man. A guy who she told you cheats himself. A man...

A compilation of male shaming tactics from http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2007/03/01/the-anti-male-shaming-tactics-catalog/ (great article! They also give advice on how to handle these) * You’re bitter! * You need to get over your anger at women. * You are so negative...

The "right" girl wouldn't be continually breaking up with you. A girl that breaks up with you is someone who doesn't value the relationship. Women value relationships, they don't look to terminate them. But they can terminate the ones they don't care about losing. She knows that you'll take...

These existed way before feminists came on the scene. If anything, it can be said that feminism has sought to stamp out the traditional "prince charming and the maiden live happily ever after" scenario. Women want to be romanced by men they want romance from. Our modern day Romeos shoot...

Good question! Let's ask Bill Clinton.

So tell me why you think that all of a sudden somehow miraculously, her years of ingrained behavior and patterns and all her emotional issues and baggage will dissipate and change? You're speaking through the blind optimism of your own desire. Well, everyone has good parts and bad parts. Even...

When a woman does or says something that doesn't make sense to you and gives you one of those WTF?? moments, it's not that "women are illogical" or that "they don't make any sense" or that they're having a emotional moment or being absent-minded or anything else but the simple fact that...

I think you should drop the "ransom" topic altogether and move on to something else. If you want to keep attraction high, be unpredictable. Don't try to keep milking the same joke. That gets tired quick. Especially when it's not even that funny, sorry. She didn't laugh her head off when she...

Because, since she has a boyfriend, she doesn't have her b1tch shield up, and is free to show that she's attracted to other guys and show it by smiling at them, giving them compliments, etc.