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By 27, I believe my number was nearing 100. That's when I lost count. You have to also keep in mind that I started having sex in 1972 when I was 18, and things were quite different then. 100 sounds like a lot, but it's only about ten girls a year.

"Supper clubs"? In NYC? Maybe in the 1940's or 50's... what constitutes a "supper club" nowadays in Manhattan?

Maybe that's a good place to start doing something different to see if you get different results: Conversation. Conversation kills it for so many guys! You have a completely open conversation and without realizing it, you've said some things that she doesn't agree with. And that's when she turns...

If the nature of the friendship is because she needs and seeks male attention, then it's a flag. This is the kind of stuff you need to figure out about the women you date prior to getting into relationships with them. There are women who have females as the majority of their friends rather then...

That you know about. The other times when she got in 20 minutes at Starbucks with this guy or that guy, the times she was out shopping and called another guy to meet up with her while she shopped, yadda, yadda... I'm not saying this is what happened but I'm just trying to edify you that a lot...

Harry, I think you have it almost right but there's another factor about these guys you mentioned. Yes, some of them rushed into marriage with a person they didn't really know. Yes, some of them may have married the wrong person, turning a blind eye to the flags when dating or being too naive to...

Sounds more like you're the one being spun by them. I think what happens is that you're basically creating sexual relationships, and what happens is that, outside of the sex, there may not be any other factor where those particular women want you around nor has any bond or attachment that may...

It's unproductive is what it is. Say she's cheating on you. So you ask her questions - and she lies in her answers. What have you accomplished? You still won't know if what you're hearing is truthful or if it's partly true but she's omitting certain facts. If she is cheating, now she'll know...

She's interested enough to see you again, most probably. Assume that she's sitting on a fence interest-wise, okay? Call her in a day or two, and invite her out to something fun. It doesn't have to be for a Saturday night, in fact, make it for a Sunday afternoon or a weeknight instead. Let her...

"what's a good, secure response that says all the right things?" Doing anything AFTER she flakes is like closing the barn door after the cow has left. It's too late. A woman who flakes isn't that interested. So, if she doesn't care, then why would anything you say mean anything to her? You're...

Maybe you're working too hard at it or going about it in not quite the most effective way. In fact, you shouldn't need to work at it at all, most of raising a woman's interest is done passively.

You're encountering mildly to moderately interested women. A woman sufficiently interested has the attitude "I don't care what we do, it's more about being with you". A less interested woman is more interested in what activity the date is about as that's what she's more interested in. She may...

"Mixed signals" is a sign of low interest. The way to decipher them is look at the actions more then the words. But that she didn't flake and dressed to impress was BEFORE she lost interest and expressed it by mentioning the other guy and ending the date with a hug instead of a kiss. So, you...

Hey, it was my birthday too! Let me tell ya, it never ends. This is the journey, it's ALWAYS evolving. You've kissed a model in the bathroom, I kissed a model in a corner of a Chelsea lounge. They're gone the next day. You want something more. She's impossible to find. You have someone great...

More than thoughts. Actually, it's first hand knowledge because I'm in the wedding industry. The industry caters 99.999% to women. That's it in a nutshell. It's all about the fantasy. These brides have had an idea of what their wedding should be like since they were 5 years old. So vendors do...

I picked up a copy several years ago. It is kind of new agey when you read it, but if you can get past that, David Deida does deliver the concepts we've come to know and love. His stuff is mainly aimed for those in loving relationships and bonded, and what's also cool about the book is that he's...

If she thought THAT was insulting, then thank your lucky stars you're man enough to end things with her at that point. I met a girl with a sea shell tattooed on her leg and I said, "if I put my ear next to it, will I smell the ocean? And she was insulted! I'm just kidding, that never happened.

What do you mean by "work in your favor"? What is it you're trying to achieve?

Thanks. That probably serves as an answer to something about my ex-wife that raised an eyebrow (one of many things...) She was a woman who I kicked out because I discovered that she was seeing an old ex-boyfriend and lying to cover it up. Yet, though she went immediately to live with him, and is...

Just wondering if some aspects of Cluster B can manifest in a person without the person necessarily being Cluster B. That is to say, my ex sure sounds like it applies to her, but not entirely. So it makes me wonder if perhaps this becomes a convenient label to label women with, if indeed these...