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I think what happened with the movie is this: you piqued her interest, but then when she actually saw it, she started wondering WHY you'd recommend a RAPE movie, as in "do you have a perverted rape fetish of some kind?" Got to realize that people associate feelings with you. For example, if...

Opening a window, sticking your head out of it and publicly yelling "JERK!" in a very serious way does show how she handles her anger. All that's rather intentional and not a lapse in judgment (although it's not GOOD judgment). That's her. And it's most probably the tip of the iceberg too. If...

He's not over one-itis. He merely re-assigned his ongoing one-itis to the new gal. As per Vlad's quote: "I'm feeling another 'oneitis' kicking in." Anyhow, Vlad, all this energy going into figuring her out... just leads to a slew of conjecture. How about instead you deal with the bottom...

Latinoman, you're saying that losing your composure over a woman's eating habits gets you laid more? Or do you mean that you need to act like an immature jerk in order to get sex? Or do you mean that you seek to have sex with women who do things that annoy you? Of course not. Hope not. You...

Matt, Jitterbug has this right. A girl that's genuinely busy for the date you have in mind but who really is interested in you, doesn't take a chance on losing Mr. Hottie. They WILL counter offer with a specific date. I'm going through this now with someone, I've gone through this before...

Welcome to "How Women Think 101". She was supporting your decision about the floor color. This is like when a woman asks you, "Should I wear the red dress or that brown dress?" And you KNOW she likes the red dress. So why is she asking you if she already knows what she'd prefer to wear? Not...

In a great relationship, there are no "usual fights" ever. The couple gets along without fights, believe it or not. I tell ya, anyone that uses the "break up" card so easily doesn't really value the relationship they're in. That is to say, she's not fearful of losing you, so she doesn't truly...

I understand what you're trying to do, but if you want to create "excitement", telling someone you have a secret isn't so exciting. What's so exciting about that? If you want to create "mystery" and be on their mind, then it's better to just make the date and then DISSAPEAR until the appointed...

As the third person in it is the one that will lose. Here's the problem with that: you MAY develop feelings for her in time and get attached, even though you now think you won't. You can't play around with fire and not ever get singed. You guys think everything's a "test". Instead, a lot of...

My vote goes to #4 and #5 as being the big flags. Messy house = messy woman. Live with her and your house and life will be a mess too. Cursing? No vocabulary skills and a base character. Calls you names? Why did you stick around for more abuse? Oh, because... she has a hot body! Oh! Give up your...

This seems backwards to me. "Rapidly"? I wouldn't say "rapidly" but as the decades go on, there are less men then women. But that makes good men the rare prize, not the women. The women realize the pickings are getting slimmer. A few paragraphs down I'll explain what I mean by "good men"...

edger, don't take this the wrong way, but the common denominator in all your experiences with trying to land older women - is you. So, maybe it's something about you? Look, there's some guy in my town I've seen him out on two occasions. Let's call him Mr. Hottie. This guy is, I'm not sure...

Sounds to me like you mismanaged this. And you lowered her IL too. Making dates at the last minute for a few hours later is bad practice, even worse if you're dealing with people who actually have obligations and responsibilities to tend to, like kids, homes and jobs. Of course she can't make...

What "relationship"? You're NOT in a relationship. You've met three times and haven't even ever kissed her and she's basically told you she doesn't want anything more. Something like THAT needs to be formally spoken about in order to opt out? Get real. There's nothing to talk to her about...

"I think Obama offers an untainted perspective that we as a country haven't seen since the Kennedy administration, to which I may add", she continued, "along with the vigor and hope for new direction and growth that we as a nation experienced under FDR." She sighed, turning her round hazel eyes...

I'll be serious now. Obviously you're uncomfortable about this, so, don't go for it, because if you do, you may go around feeling guilty. But maybe her mom is nice? Does she have an older sister? And then again, there's always next year's birthday party. Aside from this situation, who are you...

Right after I turned 50, I was making out one night with an 18 year old. I didn't know she was 18. She didn't know I was 50. That makes it even. You mean you're between rock hard and a wet spot. A gal pal of mine has a 17 year old daughter who is simply drop dead gorgeous and my gal pal is...

Let me tell you what you're doing here... you're being blinded by your own infatuation and crediting this person you've only met three times with being so wonderful because of it. You think she's "special". And THIS: we are very sexual when we talk on the phone and text and probably when we...

Some do it unconsciously, some purposefully, but in any regard, when they do have high interest, they're less prone to "play games" because they DON'T want to chance losing you through the cracks. Doc's adage "they help you when they like you" comes into play here. It's like this: say you have...

I'm not so convinced this is a matter of introvert vs extrovert. Seems to me that there's always that "if it weren't for me, no one would get together. I'm always the one doing the organizing!" factor. Most people don't take the initiative. That being the case, even an introvert can do the...