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^^^ Thanks, but, I asked potato because I was curious as to hear potato's answer to that. *Post responded to was deleted.

Literally a wink and a smile making some guys profess love and a desire to take care of the woman for her entire life? Maybe some lonely saps may get infatuated, but otherwise this is an exaggeration. So, if you're going to spin exaggerations as replies, then this discussion will never get...

You're talking about making a connection with a woman on some other levels and being a gent perhaps and that's all well and good. But I'd shy away from sounding as if your mode of attracting women works well only because it seems from your story that you have a succession of women who love to...

Don't move for her. If anything, she should move for you. But at 16, really, you don't want to make any long range decisions with women. It's the time for you to build your own life, find your purpose in life and and become a man. DON'T get sidetracked and derailed because of devotion to a girl...

All right, then mentally put on the perspective that she's your kid sister or Plate #2, so the shine of her newness doesn't affect you. One of the things about human behavior is that how you feel influences everything you do. That is to say that your "appreciation" of her will spill over into...

No, I think she felt uncomfortable with the whole idea of having you over, you're practically a stranger to her, it was the first date. She practically said so. Your post states several instances of her strong objections ("feel like an invasion") yet your mindset was probably that these were...

Tick, it's insightful of you to know what you think and feel when your calls go unreturned; it's a good first step in changing things for you. What you're describing are your self-esteem issues. Let me give you a key in turning this around for yourself, okay? The thing about this: Is...

Vulpine +1 It worked for you too in that it revealed the kind of women you were with. Assume that she is. I think the "problem" is that #3 is "like catnip" to you. Maybe if you could try to bump down your interest in her some you'd feel more on an even keel and be able to be with her as you...

Mike, 90% of guys would've impulsively called her the very next day (which would've been Saturday) and overwhelm the girl with their pursuit. By holding off some, it gives them an op to pursue us, and she's taking the initiative. But now that she's called you, common courtesy dictates that you...

True. Yet, it's not "moral" to be dishonest. That's "immoral". There are certain accepted standards of morality that we, as a civilized society, ascribe to. Regardless of personal ethics (or lack of), I think we can all agree that it is more upright to let someone involved with us know that...

The best way is to tell her to pack her bags, lick your wounds privately and move on with your life. Claiming she wanted to keep your relationship a secret but then she told some co-workers? She can't be trusted. Talking about the other man (as pointed out by another poster), red flag...

Yeah? Woman may have broked up, huh? Listen, I know what games women play and I have my ways of figuring out if it's really me they're interested in or if they have some other agenda. I'm not as gullible as you may think I am. That's a very immature response. But now I've gotten the sense...

It makes sense that she may have continued, albeit even if she was teetering on losing interest but giving it some more chances, but when you waved expecting her to make the approach, well, that was it. She's gonna find a guy that steps right up when she gives him the eye. Simple as that...

Thinking some more about this... Edger, you've got hot women at NYC clubs looking you over and giving you the come-hither eye; hot women pulling you onto the dance floor? Well, if you're not gonna use it to your advantage, how about I borrow your face and body sometime. I promise I'll return...

So it seems to me that you agree that a guy that acts very aggressive risks being seen as a pig, you're just saying if the woman is attracted to the pig, that she won't see him as being a pig. But women do complain about their dates who paw at them, right? Well, these are guys who they were...

I'm not so certain that your take on these gals is accurate. Granted that, in the club scene, women look for attention, but from your description of the events I see reason to suggest other factors going on. Maybe it's worth a consideration? >> I catch her eyeing me..not once, not twice, but a...

You're seeing this as unsatisfactory because you didn't have sex by the second date? Is sex what you mean when you say "I end up hooking up with very few of them"? Because it sounds to me that things were rolling along almost fine... she couldn't see you saturday but she counter-offered with...

Yes you do want to close the deal on that initial phone call, but if she says whatever date/time you set isn't good for her, actually, instead of pushing ("Well then is Tuesday better for you? How about Wednesday?") which can makes you come off as needy/lonely/no other options, what you ought to...

Which in Woman-speak means "Not with you." You don't ask a woman if she wants a relationship with you - she has to ask you instead. Otherwise, you put her on the spot, and if she's not wanting it at that moment, she's either going to dump you or let you down gently. Let's hope so! My advice...

If she was really interested she wouldn't have flaked. It only seems suddenly at the end to you, which is why it's confusing, because you want to hold onto the belief that she was interested all along... which of course makes it confusing if that's what you want to think. And some guys just...