Need advice from older people

[Italia]

First of all I did not know exactly where this thread should be placed but I think the best answers I need will come from an older and WISER readers.
Anyways, my problem is that I am not sure if i shoud move back for my girlfriend(I am 16) I moved in with my older bro for personal reasons but my mom lives back at my old place(Where my GF lives) The thing is we cant see each other as much as we want to. We love each other ALOT, so much that im thinking about moving back, though I do know about the consequences and risks for going back... I am not sure if im making a VERY VERY big mistake for doing something way over my head... But I just cant get the very thought of that maybe we COULD of had something big if I pursued my gut feeling.
She told me that all of her friends say that we will get married and she told me that she would not be suprised if we do... Iunno if thats rubbish or what but yeah..
I know that YOU the adult will be reading this and will be displeased by my logic or thinking.. But please just hear me out.. Am I making a HUGE mistake or should I just go for it? Please give me some good advice, Thanks.

 

[window]

For you I would recommend Tom Leykis...see the thread and listen to his stuff. Your gf lives with your mum...wtf, somethings not right here ? You are very young. Don't move back. Tell your gf if she's still around when shes 23 then you'll marry her. Dont even think about marrying her until then and DONT have any children with her until you personally have grown into a MAN. i.e at least older than 23. Focus on yourself and what you want to do with your life. What type of work do you want to do. This is very important as you'll be doing it day in day out.

 

[Mr. Me]

Don't move for her. If anything, she should move for you. But at 16, really, you don't want to make any long range decisions with women. It's the time for you to build your own life, find your purpose in life and and become a man. DON'T get sidetracked and derailed because of devotion to a girl. So you wouldn't move if not for her, so don't move. You moved in with your brother for a purpose. Don't give up your purpose for a woman.

All that garbage she's feeding about her friends saying you two will marry some day... it's nonsensical. It sounds like she's trying to get you on her hook - without committing herself.

 

[sodbuster]

Women who were HOT at 16 and I would have given my left nut to be with when I was 16, turned into women I wouldn't do with a strangers **** now. When you start getting a little older, other things become more important than just wanting sex. YOu have to live with her for 40 or 50 years,take your time on this.

I'd at least play hard to get,make her want you more, and wait and see if she starts growing as large as a cow before you marry her.

 

[mintxx]

What? Are you living in a slum in Mexico City? You need to broaden your horizons, it's way too early for you to ruin your life. Unless of course she sh!ts gold bars after taking it in the azz. Fvck, way over your head is right.

 

[Ballie]

Hey Lightie, listen to Sodbuster. Him and I have been through this marriage sh!t. Fun in the begining, but after kids..........I at least waited until I was 27.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

If you're 16 years old...do you really think you're going to spend the rest of your life with this girl? Honestly my friend, I'm 31 with many married friends around me, and the days where guys married their highschool sweet hearts is long over. The one's I can think of who did marry their highschool sweet heart are already divorced. I can think of 4 off the bat.

At 16, my advice it to not rack your brains up too hard over this girl. Focus on school, sports, working out. There are tons of girls in highschool waiting for your to bang. Let's not forget to mention all the college tail that's out there.

I also hear that guys who get married in their 20's suffer from this debilitating disease called "one-gina" ...haha...

 

[Sinistar]

I think we should know a bit more - where is your father in all of this?

You're going to hear this again and again "You're just 16...". But what really does that mean? It means that if you get so entrenched in a relationship this early on you have a very high likelihood of being one of these guys that come back here at 23 or 28 or 34 and talking about how their woman left them and are all broken. Actually, when those guys come here they are still really the age at which they started that immature relationship. And so is the woman.

Why not be different. Learn all about women. Experience them, date them, get into light relationships with them, learn what its like to dump and be dumped. Learn how they naturally play the game. Learn how indirect and covert they are. Discover how they are all insecure (even the hottest ones). Learn that there are so damn many out there and that there will always be another one around the corner. If you can keep this focus, you'll have the advantage many of us did not at your age - you will be unplugged as you become a man. And when you are older you'll know when a really good one has crossed your path.

Also remember, you are at an age where the "matrix" easily sucks you in. Right now you are absorbing movies and music which are programming you into this mode of wanting to be with your girl forever, young love, going to great lengths to be with her, blah, blah, blah. This is all emotional programming for the emotionally young, naive and weak.

Buy you are here aren't you