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>> did that. I said let's do mexican in Yonkers. but at the last minute she got cold feet about driving to an unfamilar town, and she asked me if I wouldn't mind coming to the Bronx. I said sure, no problem, but I dont know what's over there in your town, what are our options? so she suggested a...

>> I would always ask her what she wanted to do. I was very easy going and agreeable. >> Women don't want a guy that asks them what they want to do, unless they're control freaks. You lead. They want a man with a plan. Of course, listen to what she says she likes, as that will give you some...

1. Playing the Martyr, Drama Queens, Attention Seekers, Selfishness, Not being flexible, Prone to Temper, Any show of disrespect, No sense of humor. And of course, low to mid interest level. 2. Some character traits may never change, especially if they're way serious and deep rooted, so why...

That only means that, contrary to what you believe, you must be an attractive man. Those types of women have to do the approaching, since no one approaches them, and they will approach men that look attractive. It's the curse of looking good. You also seem to have no problem getting the first...

>> lets try to keep personal judgments and assumptions out of this discussion.>> How about opinions, am I permitted to give my opinion? I'm well read on the subject too and have met some couples in the lifestyle personally over the years. >> I am interested in exploring the idea that having...

I'm sure swingers also have their relationship problems. That's probably why they swing in the first place.

You know, if you've accepted her as your exclusive GF, then you already have committed to her, haven't you? It's not like once you're in a marriage both parties can't get out of it or break the commitment. And women are the ones that file for divorce the majority of times, breaking that...

At a social event last year I was a chatting with a woman who said she was going to start a coaching business for business owners. Any type of business, she would coach. So I asked her if she had any experience in, just as an example, the restaurant industry, and she said no. Then I asked her if...

It's another way of saying women tend to do what they feel is right for them at any given moment, rationalization then kicks afterwards to justify it. We see this also at work in their shopping behavior. First, they feel: "That little red coat is sooooo cute!". Then, they justify the purchase...

And what about what the OP happened to say in post #7 of this thread - it appears the OP did originally tell her he'd pay for her trip. Am I understanding that correctly?:

Here's an idea for the OP. Tell her this whole thing has gotten out of hand and is causing too much trouble between the two of you and so - you decided to get rid of the vacation and so you're going to auction it off on eBay and just pocket the money instead. Almost like what King Solomon...

>> She said it was a joke about the check thing. >> You know it wasn't. That's just said to excuse it away and save face since it didn't fly. No biggie there. >> We take turns with dinner and basically share a lot of our money without thinking about it. >> There's the basis for her thinking...

If you were truly a nice person, you wouldn't be calling me curses and names. I didn't call you any names. When someone says "At least I am a nice person", what they're really saying is, "I'm an insecure person and now that I feel hurt, I'm making myself feel better by asserting what a nice...

Even when you're in a relationship, you're better off if you're not "emotionally attached". Let me explain: First off, emotional attachment isn't about being loving or about having loving feelings for another person. Don't confuse the terms, those are completely different things. Emotional...

You're in a LTR, your room is free, your meals are free, and you tell your woman, the person you supposedly love and want to be with forever, hey you can come along but only if you pay for your own flight. This turns into an argument about you being stingy, and what I don't get is: there's no...

Yeah, I guess Gone With The Wind would've worked less wussy like if Rhett Butler gave a piece of dog sh1t to Scarlett O'Hara instead of telling her he didn't give a damn and walking out of her life. It never would've occurred to them to do that back then, because that was an era when men...

That's right, yet the difference is that you're choosing to not let it get to you. If you simply "must" show her a thing or two, because she's not going to get away with this and you want to give her a piece of your mind! - then you're reacting to your anger. Or, another alternative, which maybe...

Also, consider that maybe someone else attracted her away between the time of your phone call wherein she offered another day and the actual day itself. Maybe she wasn't all that into you to begin with. She may have been having fun originally, but you know these things turn on a dime. One...

But compare the two options. One is to call her out on her behavior, which may be more about venting one's anger, making it known that you've been bruised. Walking away without a word, however, is more about your own internal strength and self-control. You still may be bruised, but you're not...

Whatever happened to the notion of "bro's before ho's"? But warning: if you followed that, then you'd have to live without all this high school level drama.