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Just as a point of information, the authors, Sokol and Carter, were the ones that coined the term "Commitment Phobe" (CP) in their first book. They clarify it's not a psychological term at all, rather it came about as a common description to describe the experience of people who had a...

I imagine that would be the last guy she had amazing chemistry with for whom she broke all her rules. Not to rain on your parade, though. Enjoy the ride while it lasts.

When is your son too big to be carried? When, while you're carrying him, his balls are scratching the sidewalk.

You know, this is also describing (and I'm wondering now if we can connect these dots together) the pattern of "commitment phobes" (and I know some of you discard that notion because of its over use by women shaming men, but let's say for now that we call it a term that's applicable to men and...

Vlad, you know I love ya but be honest, in your case it was more about being Captain Bang a Ho! And the batting of her eyelashes innocently under her bangs as she looked at you. And the way she said "How ARE you?" with such feeling when she hugged you tight. And how she spoke of nights...

But... your actions don't hold up your statement that your GF's more important then this game and she sees that you're reneging on your promise because of this game. She may calm down and seem okay with it, but... she's swallowing her anger to make the peace, that resentment over her feeling...

I wouldn't be so sure about that. Folks that buy clothing for their poodles spoil them like little kids. It's their substitute children and their outlet for their yearnings to love someone. I'm not convinced they'd have the heart to tell poochie why they didn't get him that cute lil beret they...

Life coaching. That's another one. They haven't exactly achieved much in their lives, but they'll coach others on how to reach their goals. I've met several women that do this. Just came upon another. Her web site says: "Coaching is not consulting in that the coach is not an expert or...

Don't mean to whack you out further over this one horaholic, but I would suspect those times she went "gambling" and to Vegas were actually a cover for time spent making that money at the Bunny Ranch, where she probably still works from time to time.

That's what dating is for. Part of dating (in its function for finding a suitable partner) is observing and evaluating the other person. Over time, you get to see the other person in all sorts of social situations and seeing not just how they treat you, but other people as well. Point was, you...

Think about this logically: if everything up to now didn't get her to show up for a date, how will saying one more thing be so powerful, so amazing, as to get her to keep a date? Question: Why would someone flake on a date, then not reply to your next two messages, but then, when you stopped...

It sounds to me like it's not the "great relationship" you say it is, and you may be on the way out or with a low interest woman.

^^^ but first you have to get in some time with them. I just got off the phone with a female friend complaining about meeting guys who say the absolute worst things to say on a first date. One guy mentions how he's on meds, another mentions how he found pornographic photos of his ex with a...

Or highly effective people either. I'm thumbing through the contents of "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" and I can't find "Have Sex With Someone Else's Partner" in there. Not at all. Unless you stretch the meaning of "Begin with the End In Mind".

"I did get the kiss later. " She evidently changed her mind. But when she originally said she couldn't kiss you 'cuz you belong to her friend, that was BS (obviously in light of her later action). She just didn't want to kiss you then. Unless she really is the world's most loyal BFF and truly...

Perhaps you're too close to the situation to see it, so I'll tell you my slant on it str8up: My rule is, when it doesn't make sense, it's because it's bull. A smokescreen, if you will. She just didn't want to kiss you, but rather then tell you that, she tells you BS. is more probably along...

People sometimes survive an 8 story fall without even breaking a bone, but I wouldn't suggest you try it. But the question really is: if I eat your food, how does it make my food back at home taste any better? If I put on your clothes, how does that make my clothes fit any better? If I...

Around 40 and after a month and a half she's saying she loves you? LOL. It's more probably mere infatuation on her part, and maybe she's not mature about these things, but here's the deal: let her believe she's in love but don't you fall in love. Just enjoy the ride. See what happens next.

It's difficult to keep interest level high when someone lives 3½ hours away and it's been 2 years. Out of sight, out of mind. The problem isn't about guaging her IL, it's more about figuring that odds dictate the circumstances helped dissipate it and if anything, you'd have to rebuild it. Of...

I can relate to that. Sex drive is high and all, but maybe it's a been-there-done-it-so-many-times-and-it's-typically-dissapointing-I-don't-see-the-point-in-bothering-most-of-the-time syndrome. The woman opens her mouth and out comes that squeaky, high pitched whiny valley girl-like voice. Ugh...