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    Anyone cathc the Tyra Banks "Womanizer" episode?

    In principle, it's no different then the Tyra show where she dressed up in a fat suit and secretly videotaped how guys didn't treat her like she was a hottie. In effect, she's taking normal male behavior and showing it as if it's a negative. Now, what women will cheer on a topic like that do you...
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    How to respond kindly when someone backs out of a date??

    It sounds like it was about one hour and 35 minutes too long, actually. Then you chatted twice more since? Here's the risks you run when you run your mouth: 1. You may inadvertently say something that turns her off. It could be a viewpoint, a belief, if you curse, if you say something...
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    Anyone cathc the Tyra Banks "Womanizer" episode?

    Hey, I was joking around. I wrote those sitcom blurbs as a joke. Share a laugh. But I'll answer your question about Alice. There's a couple of episodes, one where she's working for a new boss and another where she goes for dance lessons. As I recall, the boss and the dancer were both smooth...
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    My next door neighbor....

    Actually, about a dozen years ago, I had an assistant in her early 30s, married, had three small kids. You wouldn't know it. Hot. Very hot, leggy, slender, long haired blond. AND... it got to where she'd mumble things under her breath when I'd talk about my dating exploits like, "now I know what...
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    attitude on sosuave

    There's a difference between, say, she goes to work in an office and she accepts lunch dates with another man. While an affair can happen either way, she's at the office to work, earn a paycheck, whereas a decision to have lunch with this other guy is... what? Certainly not about work, certainly...
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    what do you do to keep your relationships fresh?

    That is a really excellent point. Having time apart from each other in which to indulge in one's particular passions, interest and hobbies, gives you new stuff to bring back into the relationship to share. Plus, the time apart gives both partners an opportunity to "miss" the other a bit, so as...
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    Anyone cathc the Tyra Banks "Womanizer" episode?

    Sitcoms are always about dysfunctional people. That's why they're funny! We can laugh at dysfunctional people! Just look at the classics, for example: Gilligan's Island: It's all about Control Freaks. Skipper tries to dominate via his authority as Captain, Mr. Howell tries to exert power via...
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    attitude on sosuave

    Outside of AWs, if she's having one on one lunches with other males, be they co-workers or not, then she's there for a reason. And it's not for the food, it's for the company, and by "company" I mean him. Even if it's innocent, it opens a door to what can be a slippery slope. That's the world we...
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    attitude on sosuave

    Exactly. Wrap your brains around this: a guy goes through, let's say, three marriages and divorces. A younger guy will look at that and say, "why should I listen to you? You had three marriage fail. Instead, I'll take advice from a guy I know that's been married for 30 years to the same woman."...
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    what do you do to keep your relationships fresh?

    Having been in several LTRs myself, I'd have to agree with Rollo that they don't need a lot of effort - if they're a good relationship. The ones that require "hard work" are like roads that require repairs all the time; something's wrong there. This boils down to savvy selection of partner and...
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    My next door neighbor....

    The problem is, after the torrid affair fizzles and there's a fallout, you've got a neighbor who now dumps her dog's turds on your lawn, calls the cops on you whenever your radio is playing at night and whose husband is out to kill you. I'll pass on that. I thought doors swing only one way.
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    My next door neighbor....

    You must have quite the sexy next door. My next door only has one little knocker.
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    "13 types of men women should avoid"

    You know, I'm thinking... this means that us evil men can still go after the women who don't have an internet connection or those that do but can't read.
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    Need some help and advice from the older guys.

    You have to love this idea that as long as you believe you're "controlling the frame" that it doesn't matter what else is actually happening in real life, as if that has no consequence, no bearing. As long as I maintain my frame, my house isn't burning down in this blaze, no, not at all. As long...
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    Anyone cathc the Tyra Banks "Womanizer" episode?

    You have to consider there's a huge population of women watching these kinds of shows, and these shows are tailored to get these women to watch. Ergo, many are in tune with this mentality. And that's a lot of women, not just a few. There was a woman I knew who wrote a book about her online...
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    marrying a BPD

    What you're saying is: we can speculate and attribute her not being into the guy for a zillion reasons plus one when we go back into her life history. True. And the thing about finding a basis in her history that may account for her behavior today, is that, once discovered, it still won't...
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    Need some help and advice from the older guys.

    And if she's using you to take her out so that she can be seen, she may also be giving out digits to guys while you're in the bathroom.
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    Another failed relationship...chest pains

    Don't know why that matters, but as a point of information: The majority of guys don't end relationships when they should. They accept and tolerate a lot of nonsense, thinking it's normal, or are happy just to be there, are doormats, afraid to be alone, whatever. Out of that group, when they do...
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    cheating gone wrong

    >> I've made a few calls and sent a few texts hoping for a chance to talk to her but she never responded. >> That's her answer. It's over. You want it because it was a fantasy; not a real relationship, only the "best of" moments, all with a brand new person. That's why the grass seems...
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    Need some help and advice from the older guys.

    What you may have there is a girl who just wants someone to liven up her life, take her out of her doldrums and boring every day existence and save her from watching reruns of Will and Grace. Just file that in the back of your head while you're out with her and see if that's the case or not.
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