Waining libido

[Canadian Catnip]

Hi Guys.

I guess it's all part of getting older. I'm 45 and just recently started to notice that some days I just am not interested in gaming women at all.

I called the post Waining Libido but in actuality I still have a pretty healthy sex drive these days. I'm sexually attracted to women.

I don't suffer from a lack of female attention. I know many women and have a bunch of female friends. I even have a few young women coming on to me and showing interest from time to time. I'm not in any relationship, I prefer to live alone.

I guess I am becoming disillusioned with women on some level. Sometimes I can't be bothered to show them any interest at all.

It comes and goes, some days I want to meet and connect and other days I don't.

Can anyone else here relate to this and give me some advice as to weather it's just a change of life or is it a phase or what?

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

Get your testosterone checked by your doctor. If it's low there are medications to help bring it back up. It likely won't make you feel 18 with raging hormones but should have some positive effect if that is actually the problem.

Oh yeah - disclaimer - I'm not a doctor giving medical advice.

 

[decades]

take advantage of it. When you conserve your "juice" you feel better and relate to others better. Instead of worrying about it, relish the opportunity to work on yourself so that the next time you feel "up to it", you can go at it with more energy gusto and vigor.

 

[Franky Four Fingers]

The silver lining to this is the less you have a drive for it the more you get of it in because you are thinking of it less and therefore being more comfortable around hotter women. Generally speaking or course.

 

[Mr. Me]

I can relate to that. Sex drive is high and all, but maybe it's a been-there-done-it-so-many-times-and-it's-typically-dissapointing-I-don't-see-the-point-in-bothering-most-of-the-time syndrome. The woman opens her mouth and out comes that squeaky, high pitched whiny valley girl-like voice. Ugh. Or they have issues. Or they want babies.

Give me a class act. An intelligent, thoughtful, stylish, FEMININE woman (who doesn't want to have a kid). Do they make them anymore? It's then that I'd be more motivated.