She broke up with him 2 or 3 weeks ago for cheating. Im flirty with every girl, including her. I've noticed her kind of after me lately, and even a couple months ago she said "I've Im ever single, we're soooo making out." I reply, "well, you're dating so and so, you'd be off limits." Anyway, whenever she tried to escalate lately, (after the breakup, not before) I kept saying, "you're so and sos ex, I cant do that, at least not yet." She got a little mad a couple times "He's an a**hole, he cheated on me, fvck him!"
Well, we're a somewhat small social circle, and everyone is friends with him. He owns a tattoo shop, and a really nice guy, but a DOG with the ladies. They dated for two years, I think, and she's living with him till the 1st of the month, when she can get her new house.
So last night, everybody went to this really rad punk-rock christmas opera thing, then everybody went back to our home bar. I end up sitting next to her at he bar. Her ex leaves, and things escalate a little. I tried to resist (not really hard, though), but Im only human, and have been in a dry spell. This bar is drama central, also. Nothing happens there without everyone hearing about it. So, Im trying to get her to ease up, but I was in a good mood, and the devil on my right shoulder took over. So, I cave in eventually. My resistance was turning her on. She say she wants to make out with me, but she wont have sex with me. Im like, 'yeah right!' So I tell her NOONE can know about this, and you know how this place is. I tell her I'm going out the back door and home, and if she goes through the front door and to my place I'll let her in. The display in the bar wasn't MUCH more than we normally are.
So she comes in, we make out, jump in bed, and discussing how noone can find out, blah blah blah, Then she says how our friend, who is an artist at her ex's shop, was earlier asking her why I was sitting on her lap for a minute. Im thinking "great
" So we plan for DENIAL. She was adament about not having sex, so I start to do a 'freeze out' and she says she should probably go. I reply very casually "do what you gotta do, if you want to go, go ahead" and I reassure her that Im not mad, which I really wasnt. So she leaves, whatever.
So today, I feel really shytty about the whole thing, and plan to put a stop to anything with her in the future, but Im worried this will bite me in the ass, and if it does, I deserve it, but I dont want to lose friends over a piece of tail, and Im not really feeling it, anyway.
I dont know whether I should pretend nothing happened, and deny deny deny, or if I should head the drama off at the pass by talking to her ex, and apologizing. She SAYS she doesnt want him to find out either, "If I was using you for revenge, I would've fvcked the shyt out of you and went home and told him, so dont worry." -but who knows with chicks, right? I see these people almost daily. I think if I get called out on it by anyone, I will say "I was drunk and horny, and nothing really happened, i was tempted, but I stopped it, and I dont want to be 'that guy,' and nothing else will happen, at least not yet." I never even considered this chick a 'plate.' At one point in bed, she asked me how long I've been crushing on her, and I replied honestly "I really haven't been. You're good looking, I'm single, and I'm not gay. Get over yourself." She didnt like that one! I forget what she said when I asked her the same question.
Let me also state for the record: I would only be in it for the pvssy, and yes I know she isnt ready for a relationship, and thats not what I want anyway.
Lets hear your thoughts.
Well, we're a somewhat small social circle, and everyone is friends with him. He owns a tattoo shop, and a really nice guy, but a DOG with the ladies. They dated for two years, I think, and she's living with him till the 1st of the month, when she can get her new house.
So last night, everybody went to this really rad punk-rock christmas opera thing, then everybody went back to our home bar. I end up sitting next to her at he bar. Her ex leaves, and things escalate a little. I tried to resist (not really hard, though), but Im only human, and have been in a dry spell. This bar is drama central, also. Nothing happens there without everyone hearing about it. So, Im trying to get her to ease up, but I was in a good mood, and the devil on my right shoulder took over. So, I cave in eventually. My resistance was turning her on. She say she wants to make out with me, but she wont have sex with me. Im like, 'yeah right!' So I tell her NOONE can know about this, and you know how this place is. I tell her I'm going out the back door and home, and if she goes through the front door and to my place I'll let her in. The display in the bar wasn't MUCH more than we normally are.
So she comes in, we make out, jump in bed, and discussing how noone can find out, blah blah blah, Then she says how our friend, who is an artist at her ex's shop, was earlier asking her why I was sitting on her lap for a minute. Im thinking "great
" So we plan for DENIAL. She was adament about not having sex, so I start to do a 'freeze out' and she says she should probably go. I reply very casually "do what you gotta do, if you want to go, go ahead" and I reassure her that Im not mad, which I really wasnt. So she leaves, whatever. So today, I feel really shytty about the whole thing, and plan to put a stop to anything with her in the future, but Im worried this will bite me in the ass, and if it does, I deserve it, but I dont want to lose friends over a piece of tail, and Im not really feeling it, anyway.
I dont know whether I should pretend nothing happened, and deny deny deny, or if I should head the drama off at the pass by talking to her ex, and apologizing. She SAYS she doesnt want him to find out either, "If I was using you for revenge, I would've fvcked the shyt out of you and went home and told him, so dont worry." -but who knows with chicks, right? I see these people almost daily. I think if I get called out on it by anyone, I will say "I was drunk and horny, and nothing really happened, i was tempted, but I stopped it, and I dont want to be 'that guy,' and nothing else will happen, at least not yet." I never even considered this chick a 'plate.' At one point in bed, she asked me how long I've been crushing on her, and I replied honestly "I really haven't been. You're good looking, I'm single, and I'm not gay. Get over yourself." She didnt like that one! I forget what she said when I asked her the same question.
Let me also state for the record: I would only be in it for the pvssy, and yes I know she isnt ready for a relationship, and thats not what I want anyway.
Lets hear your thoughts.
