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    Nice Guys Who Win-Is Being a Nice Guy Underrated Here?

    Love starts with some infatuation. When the fire of infatuation isn't there or isn't all that hot to start with, the best it gets is a little heat. What you're describing are women who are with a guy in whom they have some interest, some affection, some feeling of love perhaps, but it's not...
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    Beta Male Other Guy, Being Professinal at Work, And a Girl I'm Interested In

    Why don't you just tell him her number is not yours to give out without her consent.
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    Taking it slow?

    And when you grabbed her ass, it meant that you were not so special after all, that you were just like ALL the other guys. Up until that point, you were being cool, patient and in control of yourself. That's what intrigued her about you. Ass grabbing, on the other hand, is not about...
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    How to not be affected by a woman's junk without being a psychopath (not caring)

    It's not that they "give up", it's that they're more adapt to get out if it's not working for them. They get turned off easier then guys typically do, and when they get turned off, it's like you never happened. Guys are generally easier to please. We don't ask for much, we take more crap and let...
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    Have we ever heard from our South American Brothers?

    So I was just doing my workout in my basement, as and per my custom, I had the TV on. Flipping channels, I came upon a Spanish television soap opera, one of those "telenovelas". I like them because the women usually are hot looking. And, today, I'm thinking, hey, even the older women look hot...
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    Mood music?

    Rock music in bed. Also, believe it or not, movie soundtracks are awesome. This may sound like a joke, but check out the theme for "The Mask of Zorro" Had a 30+ y.o. girl once just wanted it to loop all night long. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vt1EVBQnCo Helps if you whisper a little...
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    Doing business with women. Dating women. Same rules apply.

    Doing business with women follows the same principles as when dating them. Because they're still women regardless and work the same way. Update: Business: Rather then back and forth emails or phone convos, I implied a busy schedule, suggested to meet up for a consultation. The Dating...
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    Feedback from Ex - would love your thoughts please

    It would be accurate if four or five exes were telling you the very same thing. Then you'd know it's a constant. When it comes from one ex, you don't really know her agenda. Is it just her throwing out a complaint? Is it out of anger? Spite? Lingering resentment? Who knows. Stop! Don't you...
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    Older woman 40+

    Show us the video. I have to see this to believe it.
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    How to not be affected by a woman's junk without being a psychopath (not caring)

    "I will love her anyway and not let it get in the way" But emotional scars and heavy emotional damage, and/or abusive behaviors, if that's what we mean by "junk", means the person is not suitable LTR material. It will get in the way. How many threads are there in cyberspace regarding...
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    Beta Male Other Guy, Being Professinal at Work, And a Girl I'm Interested In

    Everything seemed okay until I read: "I told her to just go home and get some sleep, that she looked tired." And I'm wondering if being told one looks "tired" could be taken as being insulting, ya know? Even if it's true. It just seems that and sort of dismissive to tell her to "go home" after...
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    Competing (in the dating scene) - do you hold it against a girl

    Your logic is off-kilter here. Let's change this thinking around. You're filtering a woman dating several people as meaning this disqualifies her as potential long term material. That's not practical. If she's popular, and can get dates, that's her privilege. Just as it is yours. She doesn't...
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    Feedback from Ex - would love your thoughts please

    "Feedback" means to you being put down?
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    Here's a real catch!

    This is always a dead giveaway that you're dealing with a real b!tch: When they write anything like "I am also a very honest, blunt person. If u dont want the truth, dont ask me!!" What she's saying is that she has no tact, no grace, not much in social skills or relationship skills, doesn't know...
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    Wives Disrespecting Husbands

    "So my friends aren't really the issue here, it is their wives," It's both.
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    What constitutes stalking?

    What constitutes stalking? I dunno, but let me think about it as long as I'm standing here in your driveway.
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    Is this an invitation ?

    Franky, I would just let whatever she said on that first time out go through one ear and out the other but just log it all in the back of your mind. If she went ahead and invited you over to her place for her to cook you a dinner on the basis of your first date, that to me, would be her moving...
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    Online Dating Sites - Your First Message

    Hey, I was surfing match and came across this chick and immediately thought of you. It's like the 19 y.o. chick you met, the one making that weird face that chicks make, puckering their mouths and staring funny, trying to look like I don't know what, like a model or something, but they do it so...
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    "I could live forever when you kiss me like you did last night..."

    Indifferent? What is cooking dinners, purchasing the food, driving him around town, putting out the cash to buy movie tickets, what's all that? That's BS too? Those are actions that showed her interest. The fact that this didn't work out doesn't mean that it couldn't have so it sure doesn't...
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    "I could live forever when you kiss me like you did last night..."

    Some people are crazy, but I don't see that she was. It's more like Str8tup pointed out, she had other reasons but she's not citing them. Not for nothing, but whenever I hear a guy allege that a woman must be crazy, I see a guy who doesn't understand what's really going on and grabs that...
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