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What did you want from these women? If it's just a ONS, or something casual -- LIE. Had a string of older women lately, a couple of them tried to disqualify me based on age. I ignored them or said something witty like PrettyBoyAJ's example. If she presses, you get annoyed and say "At first it...

Clubs can be brutal. The high-end ones in L.A. I don't expect much out of. I'm pretty good-looking and dress very well but it's a crapshoot. You get play but a lot of it is just AWing. Or the chick already is there with a MADE dude who lays back and lets her have her fun, only to be the one...

Also I've found it useful in the past to hang out and go on dates with 5s and 6s. Same way you never run out of things to say and have a "blank mind" when you're talking with your boys, same is the case when talking to a woman you're not intimidated by. When I just started getting decent at...

Exactly. Women don't perceive looks in the same way that dudes do. Competition is competition. Been on dates with 6s and had 8+s checking me out when I went to the bathroom. Had 2 hot girls (HB8.5) singing in my ear this weekend, interrupting me as I was kicking it with a 7. So long as you...

Perfect example of overgaming and lack of intent. If you're texting an interested girl, she's expecting a meetup. You, however, were just texting for the sake of texting with no end game. Hence she put you in the category of every other orbiter who communicates with her but doesn't get to F her...

Several things I've noticed since my game has improved: 1. The distribution has refined. Before I was getting with anyone from 4-8. Now let's say it's 6.5-8.5 2. It's much easier to get with those on the bottom end of the spectrum. Used to have to bring my A game to get with a 7. Now it's like...

It's not a good look to have this kind of extended convo on your facebook wall.

Stay the course man. The worst is almost over. It's pretty much a test. Just as you're finally about to get over an ex, she pops her head in again one more time (or more than once). After a month of NC, got invited to her work fundraiser thru facebook. I kinda relapsed, started looking at old...

Crazy, but unsurprising. She can't wrap her head around the idea that you aren't showering her with attention like every other dude (your friend for example) and wanted to gauge your reaction. It was a **** test and it appears you passed yet again.

OP, the advice you've been given is crystal clear. Of course it's true that if she was interested, she'd make time. The web-era collorary to this is that if she was interested, you wouldn't be coming on here asking us if she was. Next!

Agreed with the Judge. It's AWing. Nothing is ever how it seems. Take for example, what my boys saw when we all went out a couple of weeks ago. We all choded out for a bit until I drifted away from the group. Soon, they saw a good-looking chick (HB 7.5) call me over to dance. From afar we were...

Sounds like you had a good night of pushing your comfort zone, man. Good job. 2 things: 1. The very first girl who was there by herself was your best option. She was by herself, SAID HER FRIENDS ALL LEFT HER and was open to move with you wherever. She was down man. All that was left to do was...

How did your boy react to all of this??? Did he say/do anything?

^^^All of this. Nothing is private. That's the irony about those who abuse this website. They're using it for attention, to air every thought, like, dislike and activity around and then complain when it bites them in the ass. I mostly use facebook for events and posting funny videos nowadays...

This^^^^ You're now in phase 2. You've changed, but some of your old thoughts, beliefs and feelings are still there. As long as you keep acting in this new way (and are continuing to notice the positive feedback you've been getting) you'll continue to progress. As for "freezing up" lower the...

Haha, well played. I feel like smart girls are most susceptible to good game.

Hey Sage. Just throwing in my 2 cents. You say you're introspective. Me too, I think. I gotta agree with the others. I don't believe you. You definitely care about this girl, or did at least at some point. Now you're just obsessed with finding some kind of "closure" when in reality the girl is...

Wonderful post. Sounds like you're talking about a specific kind of patience that is required when it comes to self-improvement. I read something recently where it was talking about the trap of self-improvement. On the one hand, the guy on the path of self-discovery is doing a great and noble...

Good call. Girl#1 is a real Hollywood type. Not that I haven't pulled some 8+s but they usually have been of the "nice girl" variety who don't really know they're that hot or in college where they were nerdy, too. But this girl knows it. Tbh not the kind of girl I'd wife up but she'd...

To answer my own question: Lack of comfort. I actually just got off the phone with this other girl I met this weekend (5 min interaction, got the number). I arranged something and then was about to hang up. Then she goes "you don't have to hang up yet... I barely know you." So we ended up...